Howard Stern of all people

had a bit on the n-word years ago and asked why Black people used it because he said Jewish people didn't greet each other with the k-word because they respect each other too much.
So it would be ridiculous for them to use it.
Also no other group on earth calls each other racial slurs (or modified versions of them) like Black people do or elevates them to such a ridiculous degree in their entertainment.
And the use of it comes from a place of self hatred as others have noticed because of the venom that's attached to it when used for another Black person.
And why those same people get upset when non-Blacks use it (Because don't they say it's a term of endearment?)
Because they know it's trash.
So boost racial self esteem and the slur (and others) will naturally stop getting used.