How Many Coli Members See Themselves Being Single For Life?

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BalmainReyes said:
At 38 and self-taken care of I’m sure you can find a 26+ joint to call your own. Despite what we’re lead to believe there’s some fine mature women out there.

BUT the single life just trumps relationships if you ask me, and evidently you.
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Don't get me wrong. I have the women that I hang out with and do my thing with, but I constantly reiterate how we're friends/casually hanging out. A lot of people are scared of being alone. They need partners for validation. They've been brainwashed and indoctrinated to believe that you need a relationship or a marriage to validate and solidify your lifes worth. I don't feel this way. I'm perfectly fine and content by myself. If a great woman just happens to come along, then I will entertain her and any possibilities that may arise, but I don't have any hope for that nor am I actively seeking it. Don't like setting myself up to be letdown and disappointed. And putting faith in a woman, with the way they move in 2018, is just begging for that, IMO :yeshrug:
 
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I’m 32, childless, have a few woman on the rack but none I feel committed to

I think 2018 will be my defining year. Career wise I’m set. I’m earning more than I could imagine and have enough saves to buy a house and get a nice car. I’ll be doing some travelling in Asia and South America too.

But I really want to settle down and just have someone I can go “hand in glove” with. I also do want a family around 35 too, so I guess I need to get serious with a woman who is right for me
 
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BalmainReyes said:
Never was the type to think I was gonna go solo dolo. Thought I was gonna do the wife, kids, happy fam, the whole 9, but I've had enough experiences with the opposite sex to think to myself, "Do I really wanna put up with this for the rest of my life?" It's literally easier being single for me.

However, I still do admire couples that got it together. Maybe it gets easier the older you get? Idk, but nowadays I rather find ways to asexually reproduce on some Piccolo shyt than get caught up in relationship crossfire.
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It seems fake, and a lot of doing stuff I dont want to.

Shyt like Wine Tasting. Or doing stuff you're supposed to do with other married people to give the illusion of "having it all together"'
 
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DatLBCGuy562 said:
Don't get me wrong. I have the women that I hang out with and do my thing with, but I constantly reiterate how we're friends/casually hanging out. A lot of people are scared of being alone. They need partners for validation. They've been brainwashed and indoctrinated to believe that you need a relationship or a marriage to validate and solidify your lifes worth. I don't feel this way. I'm perfectly fine and content by myself. If a great woman just happens to come along, then I will entertain her and any possibilities that may arise, but I don't have any hope for that nor am I actively seeking it. Don't like setting myself up to be letdown and disappointed. And putting faith in a woman, with the way they move in 2018, is just begging for that, IMO :yeshrug:
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This is the problem with modern relationships: Codependency. It is a fukking disease. Grosses me out when chicks always have to be in a relationship just to keep up an image.
 
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