How Many Coli Members See Themselves Being Single For Life?
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At my age (38), I have no hope for finding any prospects for a long term relationships with the women in my age group. Not doing the creeper thing where I date way younger. Just seems predatory and manipulative to me
And women my age, if they're still single, are damaged goods, for the most part. They're hella bitter, mouthy, stubborn, and over the hill in the looks department. So unless a unicorn of a woman comes along, I'll be riding this bachelor life out
Being in a relationship is overrated to me. I like living alone. These dudes can front all they'd like like their wives and girlfriends are just the greatest thing since sliced bread, but they're fooling themselves, not me. I've dealt with enough women to know how they are, and I don't need my peace interrupted at this stage of my life. It is what it is. It all matters on what your perspective is. But I enjoy my peace and peace of mind free of a nagging ass, lying ass, whining ass, resource draining ass woman...
C/s..same age range for me
It's really hard if u looking for a black woman around our age because
1.. Majority of them have kids and never been married and many still have baby daddy issues with no good nikkas who are ex drug dealers or cons...believe me because i been around those women and they was professional broads at that
2. You have those black women who are single still and have a good or decent career job but they on that oprah winfrey shyt of having a man with all these outrageous demands, so even approaching them in yard work gear you better have the latest cut the grass gear on
3.. Then u have the 35 to 50 reform church hoes either with kids or not out of shape not like their prime and workout is not in their vocabulary are willing to talk to you but they try to tell u how to live and how u should do this or that like u a pet
I'm not chasing anything at the moment, but I definitely do want to get married and settle down. I have a couple of good friends and family members who are happily married and been so for years and I do hope to be at that stage eventually. Not ready for it now tho.
All women have flaws (as do we) so I guess it's about figuring out what you're not willing to accept under any circumstances and what you're willing to put up with.
If a woman is loyal, the chemistry is great, you have the same outlook on life, but she's average or slightly above or below average in terms of looks, most of you brehs would bush her or at the very least experience a major crisis wrt whether you should give her a serious shot or not.. I've done this in the past
I've sabotaged some good relationships that could've led to something great
The biggest issue was that I didn't really specify what I wanted in a woman. Spending time around brehs who have healthy relationships and talking to them cleared things up for me in a major way and gave me a more realistic outlook.
All women have flaws (as do we) so I guess it's about figuring out what you're not willing to accept under any circumstances and what you're willing to put up with.
If a woman is loyal, the chemistry is great, you have the same outlook on life, but she's average or slightly above or below average in terms of looks, most of you brehs would bush her or at the very least experience a major crisis wrt whether you should give her a serious shot or not.. I've done this in the past
I've sabotaged some good relationships that could've led to something great
The biggest issue was that I didn't really specify what I wanted in a woman. Spending time around brehs who have healthy relationships and talking to them cleared things up for me in a major way and gave me a more realistic outlook.
DatLBCGuy562
Superstar
I do. One daughter. Age 11.
CapitalforCapital
Banned
Idk n Idrgaf either. Life is a solo process.
At anyone looking to get married
knickscrusaderm
lead by example
Solo ✧✦✧
King of the eXoticals. "FIRsT and LAst wARNiNg"
Sounds depressing honestly, I would prefer and I think most men would prefer to have a loyal and committed woman in their life rather than being single for the rest of their life.
People (since this includes Women also) lie to themselves about how they're fine with living single for the rest of their life but that's the point. A lot of people claim to be fine with it, not happy as if it's there first choice. I wouldn't be fine with being single for the rest of my life at this point anymore.
People (since this includes Women also) lie to themselves about how they're fine with living single for the rest of their life but that's the point. A lot of people claim to be fine with it, not happy as if it's there first choice. I wouldn't be fine with being single for the rest of my life at this point anymore.
Yes, dont have a choice. Ugly as shyt. Made my peace.
Elle Driver
Veteran
Having kids is a gamble and so is being married. Whether or not you want to take the risk, for lack of a better word, for the sake of not wanting to be alone is kind of stupid.
I've dealt with enough women to know how they are, and I don't need my peace interrupted at this stage of my life. It is what it is. It all matters on what your perspective is. But I enjoy my peace and peace of mind free of a nagging ass, lying ass, whining ass, resource draining ass woman...
Felt this on a personal level
Hang in there bro
Commiting that does nothing but garunetee an eternity of hellfire and booty bandits
knickscrusaderm
lead by example
Booty what?Hang in there bro
Commiting that does nothing but garunetee an eternity of hellfire and booty bandits
You mean to tell me there's no Harlem in hell?
the bossman
Superstar
Drop a few gems for us brehs who plan to go down the wife & kids path. What did you learn from these brehs with healthy relationships?