newworldafro
DeeperThanRapBiggerThanHH
GMB aside... something is wrong with us, when being in a long term relationship or married is seen as an afterthought....im guilty too....
How Many Coli Members See Themselves Being Single For Life?
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. I’ve really got tired of balloon sex. So I don’t wanna be single forever
I feel like women simply can't be trusted. No one's guaranteed a life long partner even if you get married. Women will divorce a man when they 50, 60, 70, etc. Sounds dumb, but they do dumb shyt emotionally. What are you going to do then? Knowing that she wasted your best years only to divorce you when you're old and trade you in for some young breh trying to get his milf on? You can't trust women emotionally. Period.
If I were to do a relationship, it would be an open one. I don't need to be the guy she marries. Would rather be the guy she's fukking until she finds someone she wants to marry. Let that sucker deal with her. If you looking for loyalty and love, get a dog. Don't get a fukking wife that has the potential of leaving you old, broke and homeless... That's idiotic
If I were to do a relationship, it would be an open one. I don't need to be the guy she marries. Would rather be the guy she's fukking until she finds someone she wants to marry. Let that sucker deal with her. If you looking for loyalty and love, get a dog. Don't get a fukking wife that has the potential of leaving you old, broke and homeless... That's idiotic
Born alone...Die alone...
You just took the words out of my mouth about living. I want to live to see the future no matter how fukked up it may get
ShadowBroker
Born of the Night
Probably me. I've made peace with it. If it happens, ok. If not, ok. I'll just make sure I'm the best auntie in the world to my nieces and nephews.
I do want to be married and have a few kids tho. We'll see...
I do want to be married and have a few kids tho. We'll see...
SeveroDrgnfli
Ain't nobody tryin to get indicted.
This, lol. I don't see myself living a long life so naw. I tried the family thing and it wasn't for me. I'm pretty annoying so I don't see anyone putting up with me long enough to raise a family.
As a woman it’s different for you though. You can always find a guy whenever you’re ready. Whether you’re settling or not, there’s always more options for you. Not to mention you’re more biologically inclined to want to be with someone for the sake of reproduction.
For us guys though? It’s kinda different. Not in a “We have it worse”-way but in a “Damn do we really wanna do this?”-way.
ShadowBroker
Born of the Night
I see what you're saying. I agree. It's more my problem then theirs. I'm incredibly self-aware and I think it turns a lot of dudes off. I've been told I'm too intense. Also, the normal things guys like their girl to be, I'm just not. I don't have social media, aside from this site and longhaircareforum. I don't like to talk on the phone, not big on texting, dont believe in god, dont particularity like going on dates and pretending to be interested in what he does for a living, dont want to meet their family and may or probably won't like them. Iunno. Me problems I suppose. And the older I get, the more I really appreciate my dolo time
. My food, weed, games, paperwork, exactly where I left it when I get home. A spinsters life for me.
I see what you're saying. I agree. It's more my problem then theirs. I'm incredibly self-aware and I think it turns a lot of dudes off. I've been told I'm too intense. Also, the normal things guys like their girl to be, I'm just not. I don't have social media, aside from this site and longhaircareforum. I don't like to talk on the phone, not big on texting, dont believe in god, dont particularity like going on dates and pretending to be interested in what he does for a living, dont want to meet their family and may or probably won't like them. Iunno. Me problems I suppose. And the older I get, the more I really appreciate my dolo time
Ironically, i know a lot of guys who want a woman that fits your personality profile. Idk how you look, and for us guys that’s a major make it or break it point, but trust me when i say there’s a lot of guys looking for a woman like you, ESPECIALLY since you have no social media. That’s a HUGE plus.
At my age (38), I have no hope for finding any prospects for a long term relationships with the women in my age group. Not doing the creeper thing where I date way younger. Just seems predatory and manipulative to me
And women my age, if they're still single, are damaged goods, for the most part. They're hella bitter, mouthy, stubborn, and over the hill in the looks department. So unless a unicorn of a woman comes along, I'll be riding this bachelor life out
Being in a relationship is overrated to me. I like living alone. These dudes can front all they'd like like their wives and girlfriends are just the greatest thing since sliced bread, but they're fooling themselves, not me. I've dealt with enough women to know how they are, and I don't need my peace interrupted at this stage of my life. It is what it is. It all matters on what your perspective is. But I enjoy my peace and peace of mind free of a nagging ass, lying ass, whining ass, resource draining ass woman...
You got kids bruh?
P.S. I either want an African woman from the mother, Afro-Latina, or an Arab with African admixture.
With me, PAWGS like me and flirt, but I want chocolate. I could get a woman tomorrow if I wanted too, but I think the wait is worthwhile.
With me, PAWGS like me and flirt, but I want chocolate. I could get a woman tomorrow if I wanted too, but I think the wait is worthwhile.