the bossman
Superstar
It's easy as hell to say "GMB" "I'm a be single for life" when you in your 20s & 30s. I would love to hear perspective from brehs in the 40+ league
How Many Coli Members See Themselves Being Single For Life?
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Booty what?
You mean to tell me there's no Harlem in hell?
Nope. Rumor has it heterosexual sex is outlawed
Place is like the anti-Harlem
Me. In my late 30s I'll find a woman, 5-8 years my junior, who claims to be good with a domestic partnership but no marriage. She'll of course be a woman and change her tune once the comfort is established. She'll be around 7-8 years before calling it quits. At that point I'll be mid/late 40s and be the old nikka tricking and/or capitalizing on the daddy issues of females half my age for 6-8 months at a time.
I don't mind it.
I don't mind it.
Clay Puppington
rabid
I definitely wanna have a shorty around the age of 33-38. I've observed the relationships around me and the ones I've had myself and have a good idea of what I want.
But I'm 24 man; a lot of people round me are afraid of being hurt or have been hurt before so they carry it with them to the next thing. Dudes feel like they have to lie (they don't) and are leaving some scorned ass hoes out here. I can't afford to invest in a relationship right now.
But I'm 24 man; a lot of people round me are afraid of being hurt or have been hurt before so they carry it with them to the next thing. Dudes feel like they have to lie (they don't) and are leaving some scorned ass hoes out here. I can't afford to invest in a relationship right now.
Geechiedan214
All Star
Dam u just said a mouth full I definitely echo your sentimentsAt my age (38), I have no hope for finding any prospects for a long term relationships with the women in my age group. Not doing the creeper thing where I date way younger. Just seems predatory and manipulative to me
And women my age, if they're still single, are damaged goods, for the most part. They're hella bitter, mouthy, stubborn, and over the hill in the looks department. So unless a unicorn of a woman comes along, I'll be riding this bachelor life out
Being in a relationship is overrated to me. I like living alone. These dudes can front all they'd like like their wives and girlfriends are just the greatest thing since sliced bread, but they're fooling themselves, not me. I've dealt with enough women to know how they are, and I don't need my peace interrupted at this stage of my life. It is what it is. It all matters on what your perspective is. But I enjoy my peace and peace of mind free of a nagging ass, lying ass, whining ass, resource draining ass woman...
No there isn't.
Serious relationships aren't on my radar for now. I'm almost 28 and did my fair share of dating this year (more than in the past 4), not feeling it and I've been happier single. I hate how alot of the time I automatically get put into a box as a black man no matter if the woman is 23 or 32. Of course that rings true outside of dating but its like people are more shallow than ever (not just women) and want to stereotype you for their own benefit based on what the media is putting out, instead of getting the actual bio of the person standing right in front of you firsthand
All I hope is that in the next 10 years both sides can have a Come to Jesus Meeting and realize that this new far-left progressive mindset is going to lead people off a cliff, and traditionalism is outdated. Unfortunately, I feel like thats going to come about through economic ruin, but I'm cool building my own resources and sitting on the sidelines until then.
I do get lonely at times but I'm constantly working on side jobs/projects and hobbies that give me purpose. And my family support system is still there if I need them. I've seen too much divorce, separation, and child support nonsense firsthand to take that risk especially in 2018.
All I hope is that in the next 10 years both sides can have a Come to Jesus Meeting and realize that this new far-left progressive mindset is going to lead people off a cliff, and traditionalism is outdated. Unfortunately, I feel like thats going to come about through economic ruin, but I'm cool building my own resources and sitting on the sidelines until then.
I do get lonely at times but I'm constantly working on side jobs/projects and hobbies that give me purpose. And my family support system is still there if I need them. I've seen too much divorce, separation, and child support nonsense firsthand to take that risk especially in 2018.
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knickscrusaderm
lead by example
Nope. Rumor has it heterosexual sex is outlawed
Place is like the anti-Harlem
.Thank gawd I went to church yesterday
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AquaCityBoy
Veteran
Yes.
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Rich Spirit
#LeveledUp
I do want a girl but i don’t know about that marriage life yet