How many fathers we got on thecoli.com?

  • I have kids

    Votes: 54 58.7%
  • I dont have kids

    Votes: 38 41.3%

  • Total voters
    92

DreadBrown

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Son broke our 4K TV while we was on vacation and was bad as hell all week

It breaks my heart but we gotta ruin his Christmas

We at the early gift exchange with the family and my wife aint letting him open shyt while all the kids are. Its tough but you reap what you sow son :ufdup: you made the naughty list now you must pay the repercussions

Better luck next year
























We'll let him open his gifts on the 1st :snoop:

How old is he my g?
 

TheDarkCloud

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Nah I won't have kids more than likely.

I don't think kids are as special as people make them.

There alot of people who are deadbeat parents.

So it depends on the person I suppose

I want kids but I don’t think I’m really pressing myself over it anymore. I think you should really only plan to have kids if you have something to pass down, like if you’re creating generational wealth or a business or some shyt like that. Too many people have kids for wrong reasons, like I want my name to be carried on or something crazy like that.
 

Originalman

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How is it disciplining your girls?

My husband is such a push over with our daughter. He let her do anything she just bat her eyelashes.

Bahaha sista my wife says I am soft on them as well. But I say I am tough so who knows. As a father girls are usually scared of you just because as a male you are normally bigger from a physical stand point and your voice is deeper. I know my oldest aims to please such as doing her choirs or dping well in school. So she knows I don't play and will ground her if she isn't doing right.

My wife only has to say let me call your dad and both will get that act right.

But if I had a boy I know I would have to ground him and threaten him constantly.....cause boys will try you all day and every day.
 

The Tanzanian Prince

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Nah I won't have kids more than likely.

I don't think kids are as special as people make them.

There alot of people who are deadbeat parents.

So it depends on the person I suppose

Having kids is not an easy decision, it definitely isn't and if you have doubts then its best to hold out for a while until you get a sense of loneliness in life

To comment on your post - If you look at it that way, its fine but always learn to keep in mind Newtons law of motion that every action has an equal or opposite reaction

They are only special if you value them, though kids can be shytty and stressful if you raise them to be that way...I mean our parents probably did their best to get us to where we are so we have to appreciate.

Ultimately, this world is crazy and the moment they pop put, they are already exposed to risks so being a parent is all about controlling those risks the best you can.

If you ain't built for it, don't make that decision
 

Elle Driver

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Bahaha sista my wife says I am soft on them as well. But I say I am tough so who knows. As a father girls are usually scared of you just because as a male you are normally bigger from a physical stand point and your voice is deeper. I know my oldest aims to please such as doing her choirs or dping well in school. So she knows I don't play and will ground her if she isn't doing right.

My wife only has to say let me call your dad and both will get that act right.

But if I had a boy I know I would have to ground him and threaten him constantly.....cause boys will try you all day and every day.

My daughter talked him into getting a damn cat and dog. :gucci:
 

DonDiego

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The best feeling in the world is when u walk in the house and the kids just start screaming with joy. Daaaaaaddddddddddy your home. Love it everytime.

I swear only God can make a next man raise mine cause I have to be dead for them to have a step pops.

I hated my step pops dead ass hated him.
 
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