How Many Of You Find Life Difficult?

[Bossino]

Yeah but it ain't even about the sex for me. I want the companionship along with it.

I wanna be distracted by texts at work.

I want my sweaters stolen.

I want to be asked "did you eat?"

I want the whole thing

Figured out about 1 year ago I don't really crave sex, intimacy is what I want. Frankly there's no point in fukking women I don't care about as people unless they're a 7+, at this point. It'd just be wasted, time, and effort and more often than not I'd leave the 5/6 wanting more even though I never had intention on giving more. I hate getting my time wasted so I sincerely try not to waste the time others.

I remember I had a fling who I told how I felt about (she of course ghosted after this), though while we were together had great sex, and she had that sweet/warm feminine energy that calmed me. I met here at one of the rougher times in the last 5 years (whole 5 years has been full of setbacks, self inflicted and external: faced a case, got robbed and left with permanent scar, car accident twice, etc.) Just her touch and gaze put me at ease.

To your bolded when once she texted me before I went to work "Hope you have a good day at work". A text that simple melted me in that moment, because as mentioned ITT, as a breh I walk around closed off by default for self preservation, because I KNOW no one but my blood truly gives a fukk, but in that moment a woman was invested in me and supportive of despite me being broke, with my parents, no car, etc.

I know now at 23, I will never have the bolded again. I might come across women interested but there'll be several other variables outside of me that draws them in.

Since I despise when people get over on me, I will never allow myself to feel as dumb/finessed/weak as I did when she boogied. Which in turns mean I'll never be that vulnerable again, which transitively means I'll never going to fully love someone because I won't allow myself to get got. And as we all know there



So it's a dub on all that. As long as I have means my own space, and the ability to leave this country, that'll do

 

[Da_Eggman]

Life sucks mostly I think the most important thing is you have to have a sense of humor

everyday something shytty happens to me and 9/10 I end up laughing to myself cuz it’s just almost funny how fukked up this world is

but I also try to think of what others went through I think about The Holocaust and think to myself how dare I think my life is hard

To the bruh saying boredom gets him

Growing old may suck and may completely lose any attention from women eventually

but honestly there is so many ways/hobbies to fill you mind up

One good thing about this generation is the access to technology you can go on YT and learn almost anything, Netflix, Hulu whatever you like pretty much can watch anything at anytime

endless podcast about any subjects you are into (history, true crime, fitness, comedy)

I fill my mind up with the gym, stocks, and learning not cuz I’m in a class but I just want to know a lot of shyt

the only thing is the loneliness and I do fear it will get worse and worse with age

One thing men lack that women have is support circles…most women got friends that support each other emotionally

Men got bruhs and all that but most don’t really have the kinda bonds women do

 

[Rozay Oro]

Since I despise when people get over on me, I will never allow myself to feel as dumb/finessed/weak as I did when she boogied. Which in turns mean I'll never be that vulnerable again, which transitively means I'll never going to fully love someone because I won't allow myself to get got. And as we all know there

Damn pimpin that’s where I’m at. Took an L last month with a thot I caught feelings for. I just accepted it because I been seeking intimacy for years too. Only get thots.

 

[Breh the HitMang]

saw this video, very dope animation and thought it fit well for this thread

 

[International Playa]

Something is missing. I think I’m ok but I get cute and ugly bytches via app. Sex is good but in the end nobody wants to date me. I take long breaks. Don’t feel too bad. Being alone ain’t too bad. You tired tinder and blk?



These brotha got good advice

Never really paid attention to this Rom wills guy, he spits fire

 

[Bossino]

Damn pimpin that’s where I’m at. Took an L last month with a thot I caught feelings for. I just accepted it because I been seeking intimacy for years too. Only get thots.

The game go how it go, there's no playback



I gave up, there's no point. I get sex when it's apparent a girl will make it easy for me, but if she's not at least a 6, I pass I prefer porn/meat beating to sex with women I wouldn't want to be seen with or would have to imagine fukking someone else during sex. I'm somewhat jaded so I don't believe in approaching like that unless choosing signals are blatant. fukk a glance, or brief smile. Gotta be much more concrete for me to put effort in. I'm just focused on fitness, finishing school, and stacking.

And that's sex, as far as something serious I've already accepted that the type of woman I want isn't out there, and if they do exist, they probably wouldn't have mutual interest. I'm at peace with it

 

[Rozay Oro]

Never really paid attention to this Ron wills guy, he spits fire

Brehs been posting him and I only took him seriously months ago. Just looks so old but breh def an OG. Most old coli heads are just old lol

 

[Mike809]

im very optimistic about life ,
mostly due to my parent's support.

 

[LezJepzin]

On a day to day basis, yeah. However , if we're talking about my health and well being , its a split overall.

Lost my job this past Summer on some shyt. The aftermath of dealing with this is the hard part. Having to pick things up and start over after four years . Fighting to get unemployment months after getting approved for it. Finding a lawyer to fight my wrongful termination. The long wait of hearing back from the state on a government job despite scoring high on the exam . Finding a job to get back on your feet when you're older. Im going to recovery sessions at a local church just to help me deal with losing my job. However, those sessions are working, otherwise I would be in a deep depression . The dating pool in my city is

The good is my health. I'm 40 and this is the best I've been physically since my early 20s . And I was decent before . Lost over 30 pounds changing my diet and bringing back my calestehics regimen I had years ago.

Also, I've traveled all over this year . Each of them being a adventure Having the time of my life and Ive made a group of friends for life from Albuquerque . Saw them this past weekend and they gave me the red carpet treatment @Son_Of_God I can make a thread just by what I learned about the city being there for only three days

I have my life savings , and retirement in tact despite my previous woes . Along with food , family support and a roof over my head.

I still love my life .

 

[Rozay Oro]

The game go how it go, there's no playback



I gave up, there's no point. I get sex when it's apparent a girl will make it easy for me, but if she's not at least a 6, I pass I prefer porn/meat beating to sex with women I wouldn't want to be seen with or would have to imagine fukking someone else during sex. I'm somewhat jaded so I don't believe in approaching like that unless choosing signals are blatant. fukk a glance, or brief smile. Gotta be much more concrete for me to put effort in. I'm just focused on fitness, finishing school, and stacking.

And that's sex, as far as something serious I've already accepted that the type of woman I want isn't out there, and if they do exist, they probably wouldn't have mutual interest. I'm at peace with it

I finally give up myself

 

[Jahbarri]

Ive been is a slump for the past 2 years now and hoping for a miracle

Most of us are, but as long as you have hope and put one fourth forward your good

 

[MikelArteta]

Put your trust in the most high

 

[The Villain]

Figured out about 1 year ago I don't really crave sex, intimacy is what I want. Frankly there's no point in fukking women I don't care about as people unless they're a 7+, at this point. It'd just be wasted, time, and effort and more often than not I'd leave the 5/6 wanting more even though I never had intention on giving more. I hate getting my time wasted so I sincerely try not to waste the time others.

I remember I had a fling who I told how I felt about (she of course ghosted after this), though while we were together had great sex, and she had that sweet/warm feminine energy that calmed me. I met here at one of the rougher times in the last 5 years (whole 5 years has been full of setbacks, self inflicted and external: faced a case, got robbed and left with permanent scar, car accident twice, etc.) Just her touch and gaze put me at ease.

To your bolded when once she texted me before I went to work "Hope you have a good at work". A text that simple melted me in that moment, because as mentioned ITT, as a breh I walk around closed off by default for self preservation, because I KNOW no one but my blood truly gives a fukk, but in that moment a woman was invested in me and supportive of despite me being broke, with my parents, no car, etc.

I know now at 23, I will never have the bolded again. I might come across women interested but there'll be several other variables outside of me that draws them in.

Since I despise when people get over on me, I will never allow myself to feel as dumb/finessed/weak as I did when she boogied. Which in turns mean I'll never be that vulnerable again, which transitively means I'll never going to fully love someone because I won't allow myself to get got. And as we all know there



So it's a dub on all that. As long as I have means my own space, and the ability to leave this country, that'll do

This is the damn truth. I'm glad I worked w/ some cold-blooded hoes straight out of college, and worked w/ them long enough to see their attention and intention towards me change. I learned a lot about myself, women and the game in general.

I saw how women treat a dude that they like for him (bare shamelessness. it's incredible),
How they treat a dude they like for what he has (calculated and cunning approach, instead of full passion. they'll look past shyt they dont like about you),
and then there are dudes they act like arent even worthy of drawing breath (pure contempt and disrespect)

I never got to experience that first part, the 2nd part hit around 24-25, thank god it aint the 3rd part cause some of the shyt I've heard women say about those dudes just broke my heart for them. I say all that to say I cannot imagine myself getting married or having a long term relationship. It's gonna take a special one to make me feel comfortable in the fact that she'd be on the team w/ or w/o everything I have.

 

[Collateral]

There’s folks out here that hasn’t gotten ass in a decade puts things into perspective. My girl be blowing me up alll day, wanting to FaceTime all the time and stuff. Embarrassing things like randomly grabbing my crotch in front public. I gotta throw throw the bath water out and keep the (my) baby.

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

I lived through all stages of life, from being born into violence, being broke, living out of my car, to now being labeled a HVM(whatever that truly means) and to be honest all of those stages were easy for me.

Like others have said find your purpose and go get it. Thats it, dont complain about it, don't listen to negative people, don't think you can't do it just go after it...

Even if that means staying off the coli for a little bit. If you look at my post history I took a break from this place because I had to focus on 8ncreasing my income..I did that and came back like nothing happened...you only have one life, make the best of it