¤¤¤ How Soon Should She Give It Up? ¤¤¤

When should she start bumping uglies?

  • First nIght is alright

    Votes: 20 22.0%
  • A week makes me weak

    Votes: 4 4.4%
  • 2 weeks is best no stress

    Votes: 10 11.0%
  • Month or so is not a hoe

    Votes: 8 8.8%
  • 2 months is my fate, worth the wait

    Votes: 2 2.2%
  • More than 2 months it's not a front

    Votes: 3 3.3%
  • When the mood strikes is alright

    Votes: 44 48.4%

  • Total voters
    91

JudgeJoeForilla

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You're obviously new around here and trying too hard. Answer the question or :camby:
Put your phone in your pocket walk outside breath some fresh air and CALM DOWN :mjlol: they got you so upset you invested this much energy into typing all this bull shyt. Letting people on the internet get you this upset isn't good for your health. Do yourself a favor and take your mind off this obsession you have with gender relationship dynamics and chill out.
 

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There is no right answer, definitely won't be one for TLR :skip: Home of the I buy you a coke I expect sex but if you have sex with me too soon you are a hoe.

My answer is when she feels comfortable**. It's her choice, and that can change depending on the guy and what she wants. I would hope someone would choose wisely and reason depending on what they are looking for but in the end its up to her. She will have to deal with the consequences. If she is moving too slow for a guy then they don't need to be together anyway.
 

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I usually do the wait, but it's because I think of most situations/relationships as "temporary". I remember with my first boyfriend, we went on two dates, he tried to kiss me on the 1st date and I moved my head. He laughed and liked it (I felt bad). He tried it the second date, I moved my head again (but on the second date I straddled his lap - with our clothes on while we watched tv at my home, so I was slowing progressing into being more comfortable. 3rd date we kissed and etc. He told me that he liked that I didn't let him kiss me from jump. I don't think he was used to that.
 

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I've noticed that a lot of guys seem to take issue with a woman making them wait for sex especially when she didn't "make the last guy wait" (not sure how you would even know this).

Women's logic: Waiting it out will weed out men ONLY interested in sex. Waiting will make him think more highly of me.

Men's logic: Making me wait will make me lose interest/ think she is stringing me along.

So what's the deal? When should she be giving it up in order to keep his interest but not come off as "easy"?
I've never "waited" for longer than 2 weeks except once which I wouldn't really consider a "waiting period".
 
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Put your phone in your pocket walk outside breath some fresh air and CALM DOWN :mjlol: they got you so upset you invested this much energy into typing all this bull shyt. Letting people on the internet get you this upset isn't good for your health. Do yourself a favor and take your mind off this obsession you have with gender relationship dynamics and chill out.

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My real vote is other


But over all when the mood is right.


If you dealing with a man...or boy that's going to consider you a ho for giving it up then you already working on heading into a doomed relationship.
 

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Women's logic: Waiting it out will weed out men ONLY interested in sex. Waiting will make him think more highly of me.

This is some bullshyt. The real rule is women will make simps wait; players eat on demand. Let some R.Kelly looking mutha come up to you in a club. You'd fukk him behind the dumpsters after the 2nd song.
 
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