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[Youseenmywork]

I would say men place more importance on sex than women do and because of that they will do what THEY feel is necessary to obtain it.

So after men do there job and we get the women ...what's your job ?

 

[Larry Lambo]

Lmao it has nothing to do with what a guy thinks about you sexually like you being a hoe or whatever. Sex blurs the line. Dudes will have sex with a chick and kick it with her regularly and consider himself single and boning other chicks meanwhile she's probably thinking she's in a relationship. Then she wants to have that dumb ass "what are we?" talk No sex, no blur. If you're not exclusive there is really no need to have sex.

Every woman is different. In most of my relationships, exclusivity was established after sex. Some women like to ensure there is sexual compatibility before commitment and exclusivity.

 

[Rawtid]

So after men do there job and we get the women ...what's your job ?

Lmao!! Sex is not "getting the woman" and it's not really a job or work. Men and women date and I'm going to assume both are being actionable in that process and putting in an equal amount of effort. If you're only courting a woman just to get sex you can save the effort because many women will give it up easy.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

May GOD bless you. One of these days its going to be a man that is willing to do anything for you cause you just want to stay in a women place. I believe good things come to women who understand their role. From me to you there is nothing wrong with a women who just wants to play her role and he be the king that respects you as queen and understands your role fully.

Thanks! Like I said I don't judge people because sex is natural. And as human beings it's natural for us to find ourselves, make mistakes, explore and learn about what works. That includes sex too.

So if women do decide to fukk on the first date, I'm sure worse things have happened. And quick connections are possible. It happens. But that just ain't realistic for me. And I think a lot of women (AND men strangely enuff) are settling on mediocre sexual encounters because they are lonely or broken inside or too afraid of rejection to ask for more.

Or not. That's just conjecture. All I know is, I think my decisions have led me to meeting and interacting with some really good men. Things didn't work out b/c of timing and some circumstances and that's life. But overall men have treated me very well and I love em. But I don't play with my heart, my body, or my future. Life's too short to risk it all on somebody undeserving and then have nothing but bitterness, pain or desperation to give when u do meet somebody real. And yeah, I think you give apart of yourself when u fukk people, both men and women. But that's another topic for another day.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Lmao!! Sex is not "getting the woman" and it's not really a job or work. Men and women date and I'm going to assume both are being actionable in that process and putting in an equal amount of effort. If you're only courting a woman just to get sex you can save the effort because many women will give it

I swear man ....the delusion of some of you chic is incredible.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Thanks! Like I said I don't judge people because sex is natural. And as human beings it's natural for us to find ourselves, make mistakes, explore and learn about what works. That includes sex too.

So if women do decide to fukk on the first date, I'm sure worse things have happened. And quick connections are possible. It happens. But that just ain't realistic for me. And I think a lot of women (AND men strangely enuff) are settling on mediocre sexual encounters because they are lonely or broken inside or too afraid of rejection to ask for more.

Or not. That's just conjecture. All I know is, I think my decisions have led me to meeting and interacting with some really good men. Things didn't work out b/c of timing and some circumstances and that's life. But overall men have treated me very well and I love em. But I don't play with my heart, my body, or my future. Life's too short to risk it all on somebody undeserving and then have nothing but bitterness, pain or desperation to give when u do meet somebody real. And yeah, I think you give apart of yourself when u fukk people, both men and women. But that's another topic for another day.

I anit made at cha ..

 

[dc007]

It's not that I don't enjoy sex, but I know it's not a determining factor as to if a guy wants to be serious with you or not. Sex can create a very unhealthy emotional attachment so you should make sure at least the guy is showing some signs of being into you exclusively before you consider. At worst he will leave because y'all not fukking and so what if he does? Its easier to move forward when you haven't had sex with a guy.

Sounds like you value not putting yourself out there more than finding somebody you are really into. Nothing wrong with that

 

[Youseenmywork]

Sounds like you value not putting yourself out there more than finding somebody you are really into. Nothing wrong with that

Her hear has been tap danced on I can hear it in hear posts. I wonder who hurt her

 

[Rawtid]

Every woman is different. In most of my relationships, exclusivity was established after sex. Some women like to ensure there is sexual compatibility before commitment and exclusivity.

You are right. Those women value sex in their partnerships and I don't. I've just seen too many examples of sex moving lower on the priority list as relationships progress so I really don't want sex apart of the foundation of my relationship.

 

[Youseenmywork]

You are right. Those women value sex in their partnerships and I don't. I've just seen too many examples of sex moving lower on the priority list as relationships progress so I really don't want sex apart of the foundation of my relationship.

how old are you ?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

That not what I asked you

Well that's the answer you get.

 

[Rawtid]

how old are you ?

Relationships are like cracker jacks and sex is the prize in the bag. The prize is cool but cracker jacks are still enjoyable without the prize

 

[Larry Lambo]

You are right. Those women value sex in their partnerships and I don't. I've just seen too many examples of sex moving lower on the priority list as relationships progress so I really don't want sex apart of the foundation of my relationship.

No doubt. You gotta do what works for you.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Relationships are like cracker jacks and sex is the prize in the bag. The prize is cool but cracker jacks are still enjoyable without the prize

Not if you got that decoder ring ...

 

[Youseenmywork]

Well that's the answer you get.

Thats a red flag