How To Be Happy Despite Being Alone

[africngiant]

update: my aunt who just came over from nigeria snitched on me for eating pb out the jar because of “getting high blood pressure and cholesterol”

now my parents gave a lecture about working out and being “too big” and dying young

do these nikkas want me to do anything????????

nikkas want me to stay “tall for nothing” and let my enemies win in this one chance of life…

 

[africngiant]

ill be following your advice @Complexion i never replied but it hit me deep. i can’t be doing this bs anymore

 

[Complexion]

The best way to cook a live frog is lower iit nto a clear pan with cold water. It knows something is up as it does not feel natural but can see the outside and the temperature is cool so it does nothing. Slowly the chef turns up the heat but its so incremental that today feels like yesterday and it can't really tell the difference even though its sweating.

Saddest part is its learned to ignore its own inner realm and thus doesn't leap with the strength in its legs and escape the situation it was placed in. No, instead it gets cooked whilst waiting for something to happen and that marks the end of its sad life of limitation.

Spoiler

 

[drederick tatum]

I am not much of a relationship person, and when people ask me about it, I say being alone doesn't mean you have to be lonely. So many people force themselves into relationships because they don't recognize the difference.

 

[Complexion]

A lot of people, and I mean a lot, truly cannot stand themselves. They need another, even if they hate them and its nothing but conflict, as it provides a welcome distraction from the chaos within.

Ironically this outer beef just reps something within them anyway and the ones who click and do the Knowledge with some Self cleansing often find the outer obstacle quickly vanishes or just changes their interactions.

Its a miracle when it clicks. The entire game is an inside out projection.

 

[King Poetic]

I learned when I was single

To hit the gym, play basketball on the court, take some trips and visit places and keep photos of your trips…

 

[Yaboysix]

I don't understand folks...just freaking "NOT" Be alone....how about this...

Find some other person...some other people who are "alone" and hang out n guess what?....yall ain't alone anymore!

I don't get yall. Yall do this on purpose to be edgy

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I don't understand folks...just freaking "NOT" Be alone....how about this...

Find some other person...some other people who are "alone" and hang out n guess what?....yall ain't alone anymore!

I don't get yall. Yall do this on purpose to be edgy

That's exactly what your comment is

 

[Yaboysix]

That's exactly what your comment is

.....?? Edgy cause I said to go hang out with OTHER lonely people to instantly NOT be lonely?

Its not like i called nyggas LOSERS or anything,THAT would be edgy.

 

[Dave24]

We are social creatures