How to get over crush on a friend brehs

Ashley Banks

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Its rare this happens... but there have been a few times when i was around a woman that does it for me in every single way. Beautiful, sexy, intelligent, down to earth, unselfish, cool, just every single thing I ever wanted in a woman.

And I wanted her so bad that I thought about her when I woke up, before I went to sleep, I dreamed about her, I literally craved her because I was in love with her.:wow:

And her not wanting me back was at the time one of the worst feelings I ever had. :wow:Especially if she wanted to be my friend but didn't want to be my lover. So that means you're talking to me, spending time with me but it only goes so far.

It was literally torture and I wish that on no man. I'm telling OP to do what I wish i had done... walked away.

Better that than slowly killing your spirit being all up under her when you love her but she doesn't love you. No man should have to feel that pain :wow:

Maybe you shouldn’t let your feelings ruin a good friendship. Friends are important.
 

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sad. Imagine your good friend just decides to just drop you because you won’t have sex with him. That has to suck. But I guess if that’s all that’s important to him you’re not really his friend.
Better that than a "friend" plotting on you in your weak moments (relationship problems, turmoil, drunkenness).
 

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Where did OP bring up sex? Don't let me find out you just like that brehette from Harlem that just makes it up as she goes :francis:

I was responding to the person I quoted but you want a relationship with no sex? If so then what’s the point of dropping her as a friend, you can just keep the friendship going. :yeshrug:
 

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Doesn't matter. I can't be friends with chicks I wanna fukk. shyt feels weird because I don't wanna hear about every man they slept with. :scust:

I agree that is weird. I don’t talk about sex at all with my guy friends.
 

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False equivalencies, check.

I'm done with the convo. Hard to have conversations with folks who constantly move goalposts.

What??? :mindblown: I’ve been saying the same thing the whole thread how am I moving goalposts?? I asked a question separate from the op. If you don’t want to answer it then say that but don’t act like I’m switching it up.
 

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You brought sex up in an effort to call all of us men out because you felt it was morally reprehensible for us to bush a female friend just cause she won't have sex with us.

I made mention to you that OP never mentioned sex. He mentioned a crush which to myself and obviously others in this thread means feelings. He has feelings for her

We told him to bush her because of the FEELINGS he has for her, not because of sex.

The only person in this thread that keeps bringing up sex is you.

I know that, I literally said I asked the question outside of the ops post. :dahell: what is your problem, nobody said you had to respond to me. The point of a thread is to have a discussion people change topics all the time in threads, if you don’t like it ignore me. It’s simple but I’m still going to ask questions. :yeshrug:
 
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