How to stop being aloof and distant?

[mortuus est]

You don't. People have been calling me out on this for years and I haven't found a way to fix it. I don't know how it is for you but in my case I'm not even doing it on purpose my head just be in the clouds.

you are on the autism spectrum my friend

 

[Prynce]

You don't. People have been calling me out on this for years and I haven't found a way to fix it. I don't know how it is for you but in my case I'm not even doing it on purpose my head just be in the clouds.

same most of the time I just be in my own world also but people think you're arrogant which I am to a degree but I'm not malicious with it. I'm just in a daze most of the time.

 

[Soundbwoy]

Stop thinking you are better than others.

But I am

you dont have to do anything you dont wanna do......... tell them to suck dikk


I'm naturally introverted and I do what I want cause I'm a grown ass man and nobody can tell me different.... stop caring about what people think, unless theyre paying you

This once you embrace yourself and people know not to come at you on some fukk shyt they tend to let you be and you feel better too

 

[semtex]

Do you live in your head a lot?

 

[Prynce]

What do you have motivation for? can i ask what do you enjoy?

I enjoy making music with my friends, smoking and artistic/ creative shyt. I also love being philosophical with a group of people discussing abstract thoughts about life.

 

[Vandelay]

I'm like this. Good luck trying.

 

[Prynce]

Do you live in your head a lot?

90% of the time I'm living in my head. I also feel a disconnection to life in general lol

 

[Yehuda]

you are on the autism spectrum my friend

Long as I'm not attracted to trannies I'm good.

 

[BaldingSoHard]

insecurities, social awkwardness and just a general lack of interest in other people.

It's hard for me to have motivation to interact with people cause I simple don't care a lot of the times.
My Friend and my cousin called me out on it. I need to change that about me.

Many times I've had women or people in my face trying to get to know me and be my friend but I push them away with my aloofness.

Stop jacking off.

Yes, I'm serious.

 

[Prynce]

Stop jacking off.

Yes, I'm serious.

lol I don't even jack off that often. Maybe couple times a week

 

[Columbo]

I'm a very emotionally detached person irl and I've been called out on it by family and friends.

So how do I change from being a a$$hole to being that friendly extroverted guy

Try listening to binaural beats

 

[VertigoKnight]

For me a lot of it was social awkwardness, but people used to think I was hella aloof. When I'm quite friendly once I get to know you.

Now I understand why some people can seem aloof but they are most likely feeling the pressure of a social gathering.

Not everyone likes to be around a lot of people.

 

[Prynce]

For me a lot of it was social awkwardness, but people used to think I was hella aloof. When I'm quite friendly once I get to know you.

Now I understand why some people can seem aloof but they are most likely feeling the pressure of a social gathering.

Not everyone likes to be around a lot of people.

This is a large part of it too tbh

 

[MoroccanBoy]

90% of the time I'm living in my head. I also feel a disconnection to life in general lol

Sounds like depression.

 

[mortuus est]

Long as I'm not attracted to trannies I'm good.