How to stop being aloof and distant?

[philmonroe]

stop being a self centered a$$hole thats thinks your better than people because you're not

Basically. I see it's time for this thread again. Cats really be out here thinking the world cares about their non famous asses like that. Talk about delusion lol. OP get offline commiserating with other nikkas like you who think they the shyt online but irl nobody know who they are. If you don't believe me look up every variation of I'm an introvert and people want to get me out of my shell thread that's posted here.

 

[mortuus est]

I enjoy making music with my friends, smoking and artistic/ creative shyt. I also love being philosophical with a group of people discussing abstract thoughts about life.

ok ok so why not introduce these things more to your family and friends ?
this way they can be sucked into your world and be more attached

if you really want to be an extrovert or even a part time one you got to start thinking like one and not be shook to talk about bullshyt with people

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

I'm a very emotionally detached person irl and I've been called out on it by family and friends.

So how do I change from being a a$$hole to being that friendly extroverted guy

Stay where you at mentally.
You'll go far.

 

[BigMan]

Basically. I see it's time for this thread again. Cats really be out here thinking the world cares about their non famous asses like that. Talk about delusion lol. OP get offline commiserating with other nikkas like you who think they the shyt online but irl nobody know who they are. If you don't believe me look up every variation of I'm an introvert and people want to get me out of my shell thread that's posted here.

real introverts wouldn't make those threads lmao

 

[BBG]

Lol y'all nikkas gotta stop assuming shyt. I'm a mix of introvert and extrovert. Meaning that I enjoy the fukk out of my personal space and being alone but every blue moon when I feel like gracing the world with my presence I'll go out with the guys and have locs swinging all up in ya party.

Of course I'm being silly with the "grace the world with my presence shyt" but I do have a healthy amount of confidence. But sometimes a mothafukka don't wanna be bothered with people. Don't mean you're self-absorbed and think you're better than everybody. It's just facts that most people are stupid and most people are straight at driving. These aren't opinions these are facts and that's why as I get older I'd rather not deal with people frequently. My job consists of me interacting with others and I go out from time to time. Other than that I'm an introvert and it's lit


You don't gotta like me cuz I love me


I caught ya bytch staring though





Lol I just posted a bunch of bs

fukk it, 5 cert gang we outchea

 

[MoroccanBoy]

Stay where you at mentally.
You'll go far.

What would you know about going far? You re 30 years old posting on a message board

 

[Lord Bison]

Stop jacking off.

Yes, I'm serious.

Lifting weights will also help you become more extroverted as well. The more swole you get, the better your confidence gets and you'll want to put yourself out there more to show off your new body.

 

[DreadBrown]

Fake it

You’d be suprised how many people do

 

[mortuus est]

Stay where you at mentally.
You'll go far.

how he gonna make it in hollywood breh?

 

[Prynce]

ok ok so why not introduce these things more to your family and friends ?
this way they can be sucked into your world and be more attached

if you really want to be an extrovert or even a part time one you got to start thinking like one and not be shook to talk about bullshyt with people

lol I hate dumb small talk but I see where you coming from

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

What would you know about going far? You re 30 years old posting on a message board

This website has an age limit?

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

how he gonna make it in hollywood breh?

Being fake.

 

[Poitier]

You don't.

Embrace it

 

[Black Nate Grey]

I'm the exact same way, people don't interest me at all.
I think moving around a lot when I was young may have fukked me up. I don't blame my parents for any of that though.
When I was very young I was extremely extroverted, and hyperactive.
Now I'm introverted, unmotivated and lazy af. Even my face completely changed as I got older.

 

[Black Nate Grey]

insecurities, social awkwardness and just a general lack of interest in other people.

It's hard for me to have motivation to interact with people cause I simple don't care a lot of the times.
My Friend and my cousin called me out on it. I need to change that about me.

Many times I've had women or people in my face trying to get to know me and be my friend but I push them away with my aloofness.

I don't mean to do this either

Not getting a text or call or contact from me for weeks to months at time, is a huge complaint people have about me.

I'm too busy living in my head to care lmao