That's actually the opposite to why I exclude myself from people
How to stop being aloof and distant?
- Thread starter Prynce
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That's actually the opposite to why I exclude myself from people
MoroccanBoy
Madness
@Prynce this is what it boils down to. There real a$$holes who people don't say nothing about because they are authentically like that. And people see and feel it. People call you out on it because it's not authentically you. It's fake and people see through it.
I have mild depression but I'm at a point where I'm trying to change that lol
Indiglow Meta (R$G)
Ultra.
Rich people are fake.
White people are the Masters of fakes.
So are the vast majority of celebrities.
I'm not a malicious a$$hole with intent. I'm just distant and people take it as me being a a$$hole.
I'm not out there being rude to people or mean. I just stay in my space and people feel a way about that
damn you abrasive for no reason
This happened last night lol.I don't mean to do this either
Not getting a text or call or contact from me for weeks to months at time, is a huge complaint people have about me.
I'm too busy living in my head to care lmao
My friend basically complained how I don't hang out or hit him up that often.
Same with my fam
MoroccanBoy
Madness
Have you looked into ssri? I was massively against these until I got on them. They fixed all that bullshyt for me.
I feel you on that...
It's like why can't those people do the work or back off?
Like maybe the people complaining maybe put in the work to have a conversation with you or learn about you.
Don't wanna be nosey but are you close with your family?
I growing up never really was close with my family...never had conversations with my younger sister..me and my younger brother talk but most of the time it's awkward and I just don't really be caring about his day or have the urge to talk with him or anyone...like you I live in my own world.
I mean as long as you don't go about life thinking you are better than anyone then keep doing you man. I guess you can only fake it..
Because brehs can suggest to open up,and ask questions and talk to other people more and ask about their hobbies and shyt..but if it ain't genuine from you then what is the point?
I got them when I was like 20 for depression but I got off of them. I usually only take them when I'm in a depression cause they do help a lot but I don't wanna fukk up my brain chemistry by prolonged use
I'm not close to my family at all. I don't talk to my sibling or family much either but they been pushing me for a while to change and be more open with them.
Yea what you said at the end is real shyt. I just don't have the energy to be fake with people. I can't push myself if my emotions aren't genuine. It's biting me in the ass cause as I move towards a life style and career I want to have I have to be fake.
Crazy how ppl think you're an a$$hole just cause ure in ur own zone thinking about things that matter instead of entertaining their bullshyt
philmonroe
Superstar
Gotta be myself fam. It's the truth just look at some of the dudes in this thread. Ole the world is wack ass cats but they're so awesome ass dudes. If that's true cool but tbh I doubt it and if you was rolling with them you'd see that.damn you abrasive for no reason
Actually6Foot3
Veteran
im the same way. you have to realize everyone isnt the same. I took a personality test that described me to the T. i realizsed ive been like this my entire life. people may take your aloofness as disrespect honestly explain to them thats just you.
