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I say this because theres was a guy that I used to talk to who wanted me to open up to me. Said I was cold and guarded...I oblige and I opened up a little. I asked for the same in return, he refused. But kept nagging me for not doing it. Sometimes men are selfish and want the world and givw nothing in return to women despite a woman's honesty/loyalty.
i don't disagree with you. users on both sides. shytty people come with penises and vaginas alike. that's why i specified "with the right man"
 

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i don't disagree with you. users on both sides. shytty people come with penises and vaginas alike. that's why i specified "with the right man"
I like to keep the perspective of you deserve as much as you give. No one is entitled to what he/she will not offer.
 

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Okay @Yup who hurt you? That is not true you sound pessimistic as shyt right now :what:. If a woman plays her role and just BE a woman. There is some guy that is going to spot that and try to bring that woman up to be the baddest bytch in the land ...i like to call it a QUEEN. You sound jaded with relationships. Listen most woman have potenial but its just getting around there horseshyt that can be a task :sas1:
You misunderstood me, let me explain just like acts alone does not you to heaven acts alone will not make a man appreciate a woman who are these things.
Yes, people abuse their power and just as quickly they get it they need to be reminded that they can lose it.
 
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You misunderstood me, let me explain just like acts alone does not you to heaven acts alone will not make a man appreciate a woman who are these things.
Yes, people abuse their power and just as quickly they get it they need to be reminded that they can lose it.
So are you a GOD fearing woman :sas1:
 

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I like to keep the perspective of you deserve as much as you give. No one is entitled to what he/she will not offer.
i understand how you feel but on some level i ultimately have to disagree because over time, i've stopped believing in entitlement itself. in other words, i don't think anyone is entitled to anything or "deserves" anything. life is just about options and leverage when you reduce it to the most common denominator (although at this point we'd be going on a philosophical tangent). if we keep it on this subject, I could find a girl and tell her "if you're in a relationship with me, i expect you to pay for everything, cook, clean, submit, obey, and let me disrespect you but i'm not gonna give you the same and if you're not down with that, you're :camby:" as much of a jerk that would make me, if she's ok with it, she chose. entitlement or fairness has nothing to do with it.
 

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i understand how you feel but on some level i ultimately have to disagree because over time, i've stopped believing in entitlement itself. in other words, i don't think anyone is entitled to anything or "deserves" anything. life is just about options and leverage when you reduce it to the most common denominator (although at this point we'd be going on a philosophical tangent). if we keep it on this subject, I could find a girl and tell her "if you're in a relationship with me, i expect you to pay for everything, cook, clean, submit, obey, and let me disrespect you but i'm not gonna give you the same and if you're not down with that, you're :camby:" as much of a jerk that would make me, if she's ok with it, she chose. entitlement or fairness has nothing to do with it.
I agree, but that's a informed decision she's made. She knew the deal beforehand, howany peole get into relationships knowing how it will pan out?
If every guy that I would ever meet was this forthcoming on on their intentions, I will deem myself blessed.
 

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i understand how you feel but on some level i ultimately have to disagree because over time, i've stopped believing in entitlement itself. in other words, i don't think anyone is entitled to anything or "deserves" anything. life is just about options and leverage when you reduce it to the most common denominator (although at this point we'd be going on a philosophical tangent). if we keep it on this subject, I could find a girl and tell her "if you're in a relationship with me, i expect you to pay for everything, cook, clean, submit, obey, and let me disrespect you but i'm not gonna give you the same and if you're not down with that, you're :camby:" as much of a jerk that would make me, if she's ok with it, she chose. entitlement or fairness has nothing to do with it.
Still doesn't change the fact that you aren't entitled to it she just agreed willingly.
 

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What does a woman get in return for having these traits? If I am loyal, honest, etc...wouldn't I expwct the same in return?
from me youll get the same in return, im not a hypocrite... what kills mes the number of women that have this, fukk it up, then complain they dont got a good man.. my exes know how good they had it wit me... too late now..
She is having sex with you on command, she is faithful to you but she has no physical attraction to you.
she gon get hers, ima get mine & we gon build... im not that complicated... as long as she can be lovin & play her role she gets treated like a queen..
 

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I agree, but that's a informed decision she's made. She knew the deal beforehand, howany peole get into relationships knowing how it will pan out?
If every guy that I would ever meet was this forthcoming on on their intentions, I will deem myself blessed.
but in that case, it's simple. the minute the person you're talking to stops being consistent with the principles they pretended to have, you stop messing with them. they'll throw game at you, words (smoke and mirrors) but you trust only actions and you can't lose cause you're not playing. this is how it works in theory but in real life of course you're gonna take risks here and there. you're gonna have to trust at some points. compromise at some points. you will take some Ls (as does everyone). the trick is to not put too much on the betting table. only bet what you could afford to lose. never bet your soul. how much you should risk is personal and depends on you. that's why i don't like to say "you should..." cause my tolerance isn't the same as yours. my ego isn't the same as yours. i might care more than you about certain things and care less about other things.
 

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from me youll get the same in return, im not a hypocrite... what kills mes the number of women that have this, fukk it up, then complain they dont got a good man.. my exes know how good they had it wit me... too late now..

she gon get hers, ima get mine & we gon build... im not that complicated... as long as she can be lovin & play her role she gets treated like a queen..
The thing is how loving can you be if you are not attracted to the man you are with?
 
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i understand how you feel but on some level i ultimately have to disagree because over time, i've stopped believing in entitlement itself. in other words, i don't think anyone is entitled to anything or "deserves" anything. life is just about options and leverage when you reduce it to the most common denominator (although at this point we'd be going on a philosophical tangent). if we keep it on this subject, I could find a girl and tell her "if you're in a relationship with me, i expect you to pay for everything, cook, clean, submit, obey, and let me disrespect you but i'm not gonna give you the same and if you're not down with that, you're :camby:" as
much of a jerk that would make me, if she's ok with it, she chose. entitlement or fairness has nothing to
do with it.


This women fail to realize is it diffrent type of animals(men) out there. And we all want something diffrent. I got a potna of mine that him and his wife have thresomes every now and again. She knew he
was like that from the get go. It also helps she like the beauty of woman. And it works. Now is this going to be every woman ...naw. This why i dont like when men lie cause its tought to keep coming up with those lies instead of just being honesty. If she anit feeling you off to the next one. Entitlement is really what killing the game thoe.
 

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but in that case, it's simple. the minute the person you're talking to stops being consistent with the principles they pretended to have, you stop messing with them. they'll throw game at you, words (smoke and mirrors) but you trust only actions and you can't lose cause you're not playing. this is how it works in theory but in real life of course you're gonna take risks here and there. you're gonna have to trust at some points. compromise at some points. you will take some Ls (as does everyone). the trick is to not put too much on the betting table. only bet what you could afford to lose. never bet your soul. how much you should risk is personal and depends on you. that's why i don't like to show "you should..." cause my tolerance isn't the same as yours. my ego isn't the same as yours. i might care more than you about certain things and care less about other things.
Very good advice.
 
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