I'm assuming she lives in a city where she interacts with many non-black groups.*
So she's had experiences with/emotional connections to non-black groups, which she'll have a hard time detaching herself from in order to examine the concept of race and racial identity outside of a western liberal context.
"White" Supremacy makes being black/african a taxing experience, and for someone that's
- Young and not properly educated on their racial identity by their parents,
- Enjoyed/enjoying pleasant interactions with non-black races in their city/town on a regular basis
that makes their racial identity become a ball and chain they wish they could free themselves from.
I would say this is the primary logistics behind alot of interacial dating, and c00n characteristics in general...
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NY, I checked...