I barely like my boyfriend

[The Mad Titan]

On a serious tip

Its the age difference, plus he's probably introverted and comfortable.

Having a 7/8 year age difference in your early 20's is Hella big.

Sounds like he's just a boring dude and introverted but a good dude.

So it's all on you. I've seen women break up with there man over less.

Have you let him know that your really planning on leaving him if changes aren't made?

 

[My Name Is My Naaame]

Leave. You'll find out if he really wants to be with you then.

That's when he acts like he gives a fukk.
Calling n begging.I'm a sucker cuz I go fromto

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Work,cook,clean,sex wen he wants.loyalty,patience,unconditional love

He works and cooks, according to you. Does he clean too? What does he need you for? He can sleep with anyone. Where do you work? Are you in school? Do you have a degree? Why are you loyal and patient? Sounds like you don't have anywhere else to go, that might factor into it. You say you "barely like" dude but you're talking about unconditional love? You sound confused.

 

[Kane1]

No...no...no

You barely like yourself



Keep playing games with your life.....we all know you get all the time in the world to make mistakes

 

[My Name Is My Naaame]

On a serious tip

Its the age difference, plus he's probably introverted and comfortable.

Having a 7/8 year age difference in your early 20's is Hella big.

Sounds like he's just a boring dude and introverted but a good dude.

So it's all on you. I've seen women break up with there man over less.

Have you let him know that your really planning on leaving him if changes aren't made?

He doesn't take me serious.he's the first one to say"well get the fukk on then" then kissing my ass when I ignore him n I fall for it eventually

 

[Mowgli]

It's been almost three years and a baby later and still no progress,but we just moved in together 3 months ago

He 29,I'm 22
He's overly critical.every little mistake or fukk up he going off on me,making a big ass deal of it even though he fukk up too

He's secretive and closed in.I can't ask him anything about anything.he gets mad when I call and ask wyd or wya.I can already hear the attitude when he say hello

We don't talk about anything really.not general or personal topics.only thing he discuss wit me are politics and I'm barely interested

He sneaky and I don't trust him cuz he never been open with me.he got a baby mama.the baby was under one wen we started messing around.I asked about his bm,why they not together,wat happened ect..he told me absolutely nothing(shouldve fell back right there
)
The sex is boring and stale.he only ever does two positions.he don't know how to hit my spot or eat p*ssy.he barely suck on my neck n t*ts n wen he does it seems forced..no passion,chemistry,freakiness(he never uttered one word during sex)

I didn't meet his mother until I was five months pregnant(over a year in).and anytime his family member around(a couple times) he's never introduce me.it's like I'm not there

His personality with me is dry n sour.but Ive seen him interact with his friends and family n it's always smiles n jokes.he is lively with them

We don't have a connection or bond.the vibe is fukked up.I don't think he respect or value me.sometimes I feel like he s trying to bully me or kill my self esteem but I'm no bytch so there alot of arguing.

I'm tired and on the verge of leaving him but everytime I go he blowing up my phone asking a millions questions

I don't understand why he wants to be with me cuz he act like I'm not good enough for him(hes said it before).he's basically perfect and everything goes wrong is my fault.
I overlook his flaws(there's alot) n never put him down or cheated but he put my mistakes n flaws on a billboard
He's a turn off and my dislike for him grows everyday.it's takes a toll on me cuz it hurts so bad

It's my fault tho cuz I saw most of this shyt n the beginning n still carried on with itI did this to myself

Why is this man with me n won't let me go.I can't continue to live like this..I'm too young

Bruh got in to deep with a jump off who got fat

 

[HabitualLineSteppa]

Came in with a BM
Made you quintessentially a BM

Secretive and standoffish

29 with a low sex IQ/desire

Acts differently around others and seemingly shuns you


He doesn't like you very much, ma'am. Own it and act accordingly kiddo. The longer you wait, the more miserable you'll become. The more miserable you become, the more you will find yourself acting out in a manic fashion.

GTFO there brehette. Times a ticking...

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

He works and cooks, according to you. Does he clean too? What does he need you for? He can sleep with anyone. Where do you work? Are you in school? Do you have a degree? Why are you loyal and patient? Sounds like you don't have anywhere else to go, that might factor into it. You say you "barely like" dude but you're talking about unconditional love? You sound confused.

That's why I asked her about school and a career. she doesn't have anything going for herself. Really sad all around.

 

[My Name Is My Naaame]

He works and cooks, according to you. Does he clean too? What does he need you for? He can sleep with anyone. Where do you work? Are you in school? Do you have a degree? Why are you loyal and patient? Sounds like you don't have anywhere else to go, that might factor into it. You say you "barely like" dude but you're talking about unconditional love? You sound confused.

I can go right down the street to my mother's house.I was living with her before we moved together.it was his idea

I'm aware he doesn't need me but I surely don't need him
I don't need a man for money I need my man to take care of me emotionally n physically.I need a friend,confidant n life partner to grow n build with.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

Ain't no way.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

That's why I asked her about school and a career, she doesn't have anything going for herself. Really sad all around.

Dude is almost 30. I'm 31. Contrary to popular belief women have to bring more to the table than sex. Especially when dealing with older men. We can have side-chicks or one night stands for sex. Coincidentally my girlfriend is 22.

 

[Numpsay]

That's when he acts like he gives a fukk.
Calling n begging.I'm a sucker cuz I go fromto

Express to him the issues you have in the relationship and those are the reasons you are leaving. If he wants you back, he'll correct them, right now he likely doesn't think you'll leave and stay gone, that he can say all the right things and you'll come running back. Next time make him show and prove for an extended period of time before you decide to go back if that is what you want to do.

He works and cooks, according to you. Does he clean too? What does he need you for? He can sleep with anyone. Where do you work? Are you in school? Do you have a degree? Why are you loyal and patient? Sounds like you don't have anywhere else to go, that might factor into it. You say you "barely like" dude but you're talking about unconditional love? You sound confused.

To be fair, like and love are two completely separate things.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

She staying cuz she doesn't think she can do any better.

And she probably doesn't think she deserves any better.

Cold game

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

I can go right down the street to my mother's house.I was living with her before we moved together.it was his idea

I'm aware he doesn't need me but I surely don't need him
I don't need a man for money I need my man to take care of me emotionally n physically.I need a friend,confidant n life partner to grow n build with.

He probably wants the child in house so he doesn't have to pay child support. You don't seem to have a career, working towards a career, degree or in school at all. You come off as somewhat ignorant (your thread about politics). You're dealing with a bland 29 year old who pays most of the bills and has a passion for politics and you're a 22 year old kind of blowing in the wind. You don't have much value to him and it shows. He has no connection to you besides that kid. Go to your mothers house and get yourself together.

 

[skeetsinternal]

what that thang smell like?