I barely like my boyfriend

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

To be fair, like and love are two completely separate things.

She doesn't understand the complexities.

 

[Banned Account12]

It's been almost three years and a baby later and still no progress,but we just moved in together 3 months ago

He 29,I'm 22
He's overly critical.every little mistake or fukk up he going off on me,making a big ass deal of it even though he fukk up too

He's secretive and closed in.I can't ask him anything about anything.he gets mad when I call and ask wyd or wya.I can already hear the attitude when he say hello

We don't talk about anything really.not general or personal topics.only thing he discuss wit me are politics and I'm barely interested

He sneaky and I don't trust him cuz he never been open with me.he got a baby mama.the baby was under one wen we started messing around.I asked about his bm,why they not together,wat happened ect..he told me absolutely nothing(shouldve fell back right there
)
The sex is boring and stale.he only ever does two positions.he don't know how to hit my spot or eat p*ssy.he barely suck on my neck n t*ts n wen he does it seems forced..no passion,chemistry,freakiness(he never uttered one word during sex)

I didn't meet his mother until I was five months pregnant(over a year in).and anytime his family member around(a couple times) he's never introduce me.it's like I'm not there

His personality with me is dry n sour.but Ive seen him interact with his friends and family n it's always smiles n jokes.he is lively with them

We don't have a connection or bond.the vibe is fukked up.I don't think he respect or value me.sometimes I feel like he s trying to bully me or kill my self esteem but I'm no bytch so there alot of arguing.

I'm tired and on the verge of leaving him but everytime I go he blowing up my phone asking a millions questions

I don't understand why he wants to be with me cuz he act like I'm not good enough for him(hes said it before).he's basically perfect and everything goes wrong is my fault.
I overlook his flaws(there's alot) n never put him down or cheated but he put my mistakes n flaws on a billboard
He's a turn off and my dislike for him grows everyday.it's takes a toll on me cuz it hurts so bad

It's my fault tho cuz I saw most of this shyt n the beginning n still carried on with itI did this to myself

Why is this man with me n won't let me go.I can't continue to live like this..I'm too young

Your p*ssy must be weak

 

[My Name Is My Naaame]

That's why I asked her about school and a career, she doesn't have anything going for herself. Really sad all around.

How u figure i have nothing going for myself.I work n work damn hard.I don't ask him for barely anything.he pays the bills n I contribute wen he asks me too.that's not the issue here.
I'm not using or living off him.I've been working since highschool n had a pretty decent bank account every since,for my age
I've sacrificed my wants to help my mom when she lost her job ,,even when she was working
I've never lived off anyone in my young adulthood.just lived with,I've never had my own apartment but I'm working on it.
Lifestyle maybe but I don't think career n finances are the problem here
So y'all saying cuz I don't have a career n degrees right now is the reason for my relationship woes

 

[Tug life]

Well it just seems like you just got you a lame nikka he can't beat it up right and he 29 your 22 prime age for you to be getting your back broke and having multiple orgasms

 

[My Name Is My Naaame]

Your p*ssy must be weak

to him maybe..but that's the first

 

[Mr.Plan B]

I know if I was 29 I would not put up with no 22.

You have to be really chill/smart/woke/deep to even hang with me.

 

[DreadBrown]

Sounds like he resents you for not living up to his standards

I feel that way about wifey sometimes

@My Name Is My Naaame what kinda things do you fukk up?

 

[O.T.I.S.]

The Coli really might be the wrong place for this

But anyway... What is it that YOU'RE doing wrong? If you say nothing then that's bullshyt. We got your side on him but what's your side about you?

Only then can we have an honest discussion on how to try and fix the shyt you're in

 

[god shamgod]

That's when he acts like he gives a fukk.
Calling n begging.I'm a sucker cuz I go fromto

Actions>>>>Words Look how he acts all the time not what he says/does when you about to bounce

You should move in with moms and finish school or get you a sidepiece.You're gonna be miserable if you don't

 

[My Name Is My Naaame]

B

Well it just seems like you just got you a lame nikka he can't beat it up right and he 29 your 22 prime age for you to be getting your back broke and having multiple orgasms

True enough but I been there done that.I started young..I've had alot of geat sex,even wit him in the beginning..(not great but he had a nice lil stroke game going on).I feel like I'm not really missing out so the weak sex I don't trip on much
It's just the rude dismissive behavior will have me thinking likeon top of being an a$$hole u can't even fukk me right..atleast be nice mf

 

[A1aaa]

OP serious q: are you at least an 7.5 / 10 looks wise? cuz if you aren't fitting the role of a hot trophy wife, yet bring little in terms of career, education and conversation, i think most men, if they were your husband would be looking at you like:

get trapped in your twenties, brehs

 

[Spuffy]

The coli telling you not to leave him is hilarious, when if you were a man theyd be saying "bushes".

 

[Charlie Hustle]

There's always two sides to the story

You current life situation is a reflection of who you are inside




Better learn how to use the Law of Attraction immediately. "Like attracts Like"

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

bytch leave him or shut yo ass up

 

[Action Mike]

The coli telling you not to leave him is hilarious, when if you were a man theyd be saying "bushes".

everyone is saying leave

OP should leave asap.