UNPOPULAR OPINION, BUT IT'S "MY" VIEW.  tired of making B.S. threads because I fear backlash.  
I'm going to cut to the chase, I blame my people (AA's) for thinking that sh-t was cute  Back in 1985, NWA came out and said that they were taking back power of the word.  Listen, you can't take power over a word you don't own.  Originally, the word was Negus.  Also, the word N-gger derived from Niger. 
Anyway, I can't get mad at Hispanics like Puerto Ricans (mixed with SSA) or other Hispanics using the word.  You disrespected yourself and your ancestors in Rap videos calling yourselves that.  I do NOT use that word.  Also, on this site I don't use it.  It's downright self-hate.  You can neg me if you wish, but this is my opinion 

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Point is, I don't let Hispanics get away with it NOR do I let AA's get away with it.  The Nigerians and African people I met don't use the word.  Also, the Black Arabs from Yemen and etc don't use it.  AA's have the power in their hands, but we drop the ball every time.  I stick with the word "Brotha".
You talk about loving your people and ancestors but disrespect their plight everytime you use that word.  There's a poster by the name of 
@BrokePhiBroke who claims to be for the cause, but loves using that word.  No beef against the sis, but she's used that word against me several times AFTER I told her to stop calling me that. 
I'll put it this way, I love my Black heritage and will always.  Let me ask you this, have you heard a Jewish person, Japanese person, or etc call themselves K-ke or Ch-nk?  EXACTLY 
 
P.S. just because you ONE STAR doesn't mean that I don't have a point.  It only shows your group think method.  I will respect my parents and grandparents fighting for our rights during the Jim Crow and Civil Rights movement.