I didn't get this job and it's really affecting me

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Part of life. Not dismissing it but we all go through it, so you're not alone. I had like 5 interviews and countless applications filled out before I got my current job. shyt is hard out here and companies are as callous as ever about it too.

I will say at the very least they let you know. Companies are now ghosting folks and not giving a fukk after an interview.
 

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Thats what happens when you work for @Another Man he tell you what position you can be in :dame:



Nah all jokes man. Everyone gets passed up dont take it too hard. Keep doing what you been doing. Getting interviews is the hardest part so you're trending up. You'll get to where you wanna go :myman:



In the mean time start taking office supplies out of spite :lolbron:

And if they just so happen to end up in the person who got the promotion office than :mjpls:
 

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I know we laugh and shyt on each other on here and I try to keep my personal stuff off of here for the most part. But I have a really good job that I love and have been slowly moving up.

I went for a position I was certain I had. Interview was perfect but they just told me about an hour ago I didn't get the shyt.

I had know fukking idea I would feel this disappointed and worthless tbh.

I'm telling yall because we are a community and I'm ashamed to tell my friends and family.

I tried so fukking hard for that position

I don't even care if yall make fun of me I just needed to vent

Sorry
Take it from someone who has been passed over for many promotions, a lot of the time it isn't about you, they simply had someone in mind and were just going through the process. Nothing to feel ashamed about. Show them why they made a mistake not giving the position to you:salute:
 

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Probably cause your dumb ass spends more than half your day reposting reddit sports topics on here. Your a fukking clown and people at your job know it. Groveling and sniveling like a little bytch probably making snot bubbles while your drool is dripping on the keyboard.

fukk you nicca.

:picard:
 

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I know we laugh and shyt on each other on here and I try to keep my personal stuff off of here for the most part. But I have a really good job that I love and have been slowly moving up.

I went for a position I was certain I had. Interview was perfect but they just told me about an hour ago I didn't get the shyt.

I had know fukking idea I would feel this disappointed and worthless tbh.

I'm telling yall because we are a community and I'm ashamed to tell my friends and family.

I tried so fukking hard for that position

I don't even care if yall make fun of me I just needed to vent

Sorry


This may be a gateway to something better ,, without Disappointment we will not grow.

also train your self not give a fukk about a job,, get money / fukk em and bounce to something better if u can
 

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I know we laugh and shyt on each other on here and I try to keep my personal stuff off of here for the most part. But I have a really good job that I love and have been slowly moving up.

I went for a position I was certain I had. Interview was perfect but they just told me about an hour ago I didn't get the shyt.

I had know fukking idea I would feel this disappointed and worthless tbh.

I'm telling yall because we are a community and I'm ashamed to tell my friends and family.

I tried so fukking hard for that position

I don't even care if yall make fun of me I just needed to vent

Sorry
Man, who cares breh. Just keep applying and interviewing and you'll get a good job.

shyt, if you really like that particular company so much cordially ask them what you can improve on for next time and check in with the HR guy or manager from time to time.

It'll guarantee your spot the next time something is available
 

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I know we laugh and shyt on each other on here and I try to keep my personal stuff off of here for the most part. But I have a really good job that I love and have been slowly moving up.

I went for a position I was certain I had. Interview was perfect but they just told me about an hour ago I didn't get the shyt.

I had know fukking idea I would feel this disappointed and worthless tbh.

I'm telling yall because we are a community and I'm ashamed to tell my friends and family.

I tried so fukking hard for that position

I don't even care if yall make fun of me I just needed to vent

Sorry


:mjcry: Happens to the best of us.




:mjcry: shyt hurts when you actually try and have your hopes up.
 

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I know we laugh and shyt on each other on here and I try to keep my personal stuff off of here for the most part. But I have a really good job that I love and have been slowly moving up.

I went for a position I was certain I had. Interview was perfect but they just told me about an hour ago I didn't get the shyt.

I had know fukking idea I would feel this disappointed and worthless tbh.

I'm telling yall because we are a community and I'm ashamed to tell my friends and family.

I tried so fukking hard for that position

I don't even care if yall make fun of me I just needed to vent

Sorry

they already knew who they wanted to hire. Nothing personal
 

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I know we laugh and shyt on each other on here and I try to keep my personal stuff off of here for the most part. But I have a really good job that I love and have been slowly moving up.

I went for a position I was certain I had. Interview was perfect but they just told me about an hour ago I didn't get the shyt.

I had know fukking idea I would feel this disappointed and worthless tbh.

I'm telling yall because we are a community and I'm ashamed to tell my friends and family.

I tried so fukking hard for that position

I don't even care if yall make fun of me I just needed to vent

Sorry
1. Do you still have your old job.
2. Did you ask for feed back on why you were not selected? If not, ask why so you can improve for another opportunity.
3. Do you know who got the position? To be honest, most of these job postings are bullshyt and they already know who they will promote.
4. Apply elsewhere and demand more money. Loyalty me almost nothing today. Look out for yourself. Don't trust anyone you work with.
5. fukk are you telling us sorry for? :heh:
 

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I aint got personal (as in myself.. cause in reality I dont have shyt going for me right now.. other than a beautiful daughter) experience in what you're going through.. but I can tell you a real life story that I know happened. My baby momma had worked for Livenation in the talent buying division.. after 16 years of being passed over for promotions, she decided that enough was enough. LN ended up being nothing more than a boys club. Women couldn't advance for shyt. She's amazing at her job, and loves everything about it. She even loved her team at LN.. but there came a time where she saw the writing on the wall.

Next thing you know.. she moves on and starts to work for AEG.. which if you guys dont know is Livenation's #1 competitor. They respect her there.. the pay is similar.. (maybe a little more.. I'm not sure) .. but she's still doing what she loves, and she's at least being recognized for it.. and appreciated.

I dont know what your situation is, as far as opportunities.. but maybe its time to spread your wings and find a new place to call home?

I hate stories like yours.. but at 43, I've accepted that it's just a part of life. As fukked up as that is. :francis:
 

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I know we laugh and shyt on each other on here and I try to keep my personal stuff off of here for the most part. But I have a really good job that I love and have been slowly moving up.

I went for a position I was certain I had. Interview was perfect but they just told me about an hour ago I didn't get the shyt.

I had know fukking idea I would feel this disappointed and worthless tbh.

I'm telling yall because we are a community and I'm ashamed to tell my friends and family.

I tried so fukking hard for that position

I don't even care if yall make fun of me I just needed to vent

Sorry
Could be a host of reasons you didn’t get the job.. Maybe you didn’t interview well but since you said you was going hard for the position that tells me you didn’t interview well… Only thing I can think of is they put the position out there as a formality but they already had the person who they were going to give it too lined up but they had to conduct interviews to make it look official like you had a chance.. They play those types of games
 
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