I Done Did it Again Brehs : #TeamOblivious

[Malcolmxxx_23]

nikkaz want the bytch to spell it out to them, u most likely never gon see this chick again, da fukk is he afraid of. All she can say is no I'm good

Breh takes 5 sec to say

'You should take my number"

That's all he had to see

And it's not like he cold approached either

 

[Kalik]

But normally, i dont even care.
If she wants you to know she gotta dude, she'll let you know

Bro if you don't care --- holla at everything you like (for practice). That's what us island dudes do, then when a real good looking chick showing you positive vibes. You aint gonna be stumblin. Practice shots were done.

 

[iceberg_is_on_fire]

Some of y'all are pissing me clean off with this when she is trying to hand you the digits/drawls and I see fumbling everywhere.

 

[Steezy]

The second shoy he toom didnt even count.

The first one, the shot he took was reasonable. Had he would been triple teamed halfcourt with a lotta time on the clock then it woulda been dumb to shoot

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I think it's corny also. BUT females immediately know "He making an attempt" - even if its a lame one. Like in Basketball you may have to attempt 20 shots to hit 10.

BUT also I'm one of the men on here that admit, I let females choose me. I make small talk, and let them come on to me. My confidence wasn't as shaky as yours tho. My wife and exwife, and long term sidechicks... all choose me. The ones I spit game at 1st and win, typically were 3-4 week flings or jumpoffs, cuz I feel like I had to entertain them, or get them to notice me. The ones who wanted me from the start have always been deeper relationships.

What ever transition works for you, start thinking how to turn the subject into (can I get your #, What you doing later, I'm off at such and such a time are you free, if not today maybe Friday or Saturday).

Either way -- I'm in your corner Coli bredren. Don't give up, never throw in the towel.

shyt they the ones twisting it to something else.
I aint no virgin so apparently i be doing something right.
But i aint no cold approacher.
I gottasee something obvious.
A chick cant be like "morning" and ima be on some " yeah she clearly want the dikk breh"

A chick aint gotta PULL me but if its obvious she kinda interested then i know to go in. For all i know, ol girl proly was telling me to come to her store cuz she think i was flirting and ill be a simp and come give her a commission bonus.
"Yea breh they got this fine yella bone at target. Ima go buy me some glasses" rinse and repeat. Then she getting employee of the month off her sales to me alone.

Not saying thats what she was getting at but at the same time its not impossible.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

nikkaz want the bytch to spell it out to them, u most likely never gon see this chick again, da fukk is he afraid of. All she can say is no I'm good

Aint nobody afraid.
I just hate doing pointless shyt in my life.

- i didnt have a reason to think she wantef me
- i didnt come at her.



Simple as that.

I aint about to walk the street and try to get at every one i see on some "ize dont wanna be sked. Wust she cuh say iz no" type shyt.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

shyt they the ones twisting it to something else.
I aint no virgin so apparently i be doing something right.
But i aint no cold approacher.
I gottasee something obvious.
A chick cant be like "morning" and ima be on some " yeah she clearly want the dikk breh"

A chick aint gotta PULL me but if its obvious she kinda interested then i know to go in. For all i know, ol girl proly was telling me to come to her store cuz she think i was flirting and ill be a simp and come give her a commission bonus.
"Yea breh they got this fine yella bone at target. Ima go buy me some glasses" rinse and repeat. Then she getting employee of the month off her sales to me alone.

Not saying thats what she was getting at but at the same time its not impossible.

But u defeating and down playing yourself, u don't know what her intentions where bro.

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

Might as well neg now cuz i don't got no reason to go to her store thats 30mins away

It's target. I'm sure you can find a reason to be there.

I waa oblivious. And no i wasnt being shy.
I was the one who initiated the convo. I even told her what glasses i had (without her asking), that i dont need to go there cuz my insurance expired, told her about why i dont wear my classes enough, etc.

I dont think the signs was clear enough so i didnt think too much of it.
Just went outside when she left JUST IN CASE she was choosing. She aint play it off and ask me for a lighter or nuttn so maybe she wasnt really choosing.

You really have a lot of excuses.

U idiot...that's how it always starts
Her being friendly than u lead the way

Face it man you just not a hunter




And What kind of hints are you waiting for ?

She could be laying in front of him with her legs wide open, no panties on, and he'd be like, 'nah, she must have me confused with her gynecologist.'

 

[Steezy]

shyt they the ones twisting it to something else.
I aint no virgin so apparently i be doing something right.
But i aint no cold approacher.
I gottasee something obvious.
A chick cant be like "morning" and ima be on some " yeah she clearly want the dikk breh"

A chick aint gotta PULL me but if its obvious she kinda interested then i know to go in. For all i know, ol girl proly was telling me to come to her store cuz she think i was flirting and ill be a simp and come give her a commission bonus.
"Yea breh they got this fine yella bone at target. Ima go buy me some glasses" rinse and repeat. Then she getting employee of the month off her sales to me alone.

Not saying thats what she was getting at but at the same time its not impossible.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Aint nobody afraid.
I just hate doing pointless shyt in my life.

- i didnt have a reason to think she wantef me
- i didnt come at her.



Simple as that.

I aint about to walk the street and try to get at every one i see on some "ize dont wanna be sked. Wust she cuh say iz no" type shyt.

Breh this wasn't a cold approach tho, this was a conversation where she showed and u totally fumbled the shyt

 

[Ray Junior]

Dumbass

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Negro u just afraid of rejections

Breh i aint no virgin.
I aint paid for sex and i dont get HOOKED UP with chicks.

Since im scared, i guess that means all the females i hit pulled me huh?

Me getting dome two days latrr from a chick i just met that said she wouldnt ever do it is being scared.

Last year i was working at a hospital doing housekeeping and i asked the director of HR on a date. I was scared too then i guess.

Breh, my occurrences in real life speak for themselves. You just know what you reading on here.

Nobody scared to talk to women.
I got a 36 year old with 3 kids talking about driving 2 hours to see me. That aint cuz im scared and she had to talk to me

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

thats what im trying to say, breh..try them all..change your mentality because you are afraid of rejection..(see example of fear in the bolded)

your fear made you hesitant in this story so you making a thread about what could have been instead of rearranging them guts, breh..

Ok im scared then since thats whats being said.

Now how come im the one who initiated the conversation? I coulda just rang up her shyt and let her walk out.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Ok im scared then since thats whats being said.

Now how come im the one who initiated the conversation? I coulda just rang up her shyt and let her walk out.

Starting the convo is just good customer service, she showed interest and u spooked out

 

[Grifter]