I Done Did it Again Brehs : #TeamOblivious

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Some of y'all are pissing me clean off with this when she is trying to hand you the digits/drawls and I see fumbling everywhere.

Tell me this, with the original post, prove to me she was handing the drawls and not just talking to talk.,

Cuz i do the exact same thing. I talk to dudes in there, "you must've got super drunk last night huh? ", i talk to ugly girls "one of these for me?" , and speaking of that, that same day this skinny white chick offered me beer and ended up giving me the money to buy one., i talk to old people, "you up kinda late huh? You trick or treating with the kids too?" I come at every body like Robin Harris going at the crowd.

And this is a regular thing at work.
But im so scared though. Lil ol me.

 

[#SOG_soldier]

this a valuable lesson ABC:imnotblack:


Always


Be

Closing



whats the point of holding a convo if he end result isnt sex :huhnikka119:


damn you stupid :jay74:

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

But u defeating and down playing yourself you dont know what her intentions where bro.

Yeah i don't know but ima go off more of what it seems like than what it doesnt seem like.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Yeah i don't know but ima go off more of what it seems like than what it doesnt seem like.

Breh ask "can I get your number" take 5 seconds

U making this shyt out to be something it's not, I could see if had to fold approach a chick, u had a built in excuse of giving her good customer service, and she bit and u fumbled

 

[iceberg_is_on_fire]

Tell me this, with the original post, prove to me she was handing the drawls and not just talking to talk.,

Cuz i do the exact same thing. I talk to dudes in there, "you must've got super drunk last night huh? ", i talk to ugly girls "one of these for me?" , and speaking of that, that same day this skinny white chick offered me beer and ended up giving me the money to buy one., i talk to old people, "you up kinda late huh? You trick or treating with the kids too?" I come at every body like Robin Harris going at the crowd.

And this is a regular thing at work.
But im so scared though. Lil ol me.

If your communication game is strong enough, you can get an 'in' on damn near any chick, married or not, doesn't matter if she is committed nor does that mean she wouldn't do anything but smile/laugh but if you know how to talk to women, you can create your own opportunities.

Now, to your OP

Flirty Breezy to FlyinHawaiian: She is half way in between the door the whole convo and tells me that whenever me or my family needs glasses to go to her store.
"What she is thinking" She thinking that you are nice person, someone that she might want to get to know, at least to further the converation elsewhere


#teamoblivious card carrier: I tell her "why would i pass up all those other Target Opticals to go to yours on the other side of town?
"What you got on the gas brehette?

Flirty Breezy now Annoyed Breezy: Ok, bye

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

It's target. I'm sure you can find a reason to be there.

You really have a lot of excuses.
She could be laying in front of him with her legs wide open, no panties on, and he'd be like, 'nah, she must have me confused with her gynecologist.'

1) nah i only got one excuse and thats thatiut wasnt no clear signs. Oh a female spoke to me, she automatically wanted sex. Kinda shyt is that.

2) great joke. The fact that i got videos in my email of a chick playing with herself while im MESSAGING her, not even talking, proves that im not too scary. But yall know me more than me so who am i to talk about my self.


Just call me a name, neg me and get it over with so we all can move on

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Breh this wasn't a cold approach tho, this was a conversation where she showed and u totally fumbled the shyt

..if thats what you take from it

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Starting the convo is just good customer service, she showed interest and u spooked out

so me telling her im going back to houston too, im from the northeast, bringing up glasses, etc all while she is about to leave is good customer service?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Breh ask "can I get your number" take 5 seconds

U making this shyt out to be something it's not, I could see if had to fold approach a chick, u had a built in excuse of giving her good customer service, and she bit and u fumbled

You right breh.
Whats more fukked up is that when i talked to the males, old women and ugly women the same way, i shouldn't have been scared and got their number too.
I just fumbled.

Coulda been in some 60 year old Shepards Pie right now.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

so me telling her im going back to houston too, im from the northeast, bringing up glasses, etc all while she is about to leave is good customer service?

Yes, u always suppose to greet your customers just like u did and take the convo where it goes, certain intentions lead to certain convos after the initial convo starts. Once it started to get personal u should have knew where to take it. But froze up and now u making excuses instead of being a man

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

If your communication game is strong enough, you can get an 'in' on damn near any chick, married or not, doesn't matter if she is committed nor does that mean she wouldn't do anything but smile/laugh but if you know how to talk to women, you can create your own opportunities.

Now, to your OP

Flirty Breezy to FlyinHawaiian: She is half way in between the door the whole convo and tells me that whenever me or my family needs glasses to go to her store.
"What she is thinking" She thinking that you are nice person, someone that she might want to get to know, at least to further the converation elsewhere


#teamoblivious card carrier: I tell her "why would i pass up all those other Target Opticals to go to yours on the other side of town?
"What you got on the gas brehette?

Flirty Breezy now Annoyed Breezy: Ok, bye

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Yes, u always suppose to greet your customers just like u did and take the convo where it goes, certain intentions lead to certain convos after the initial convo starts. Once it started to get personal u should have knew where to take it. But froze up and now u making excuses instead of being a man

No.
Good customer service is talking to them while you have to.
Holding a 5min conversation after you already made a sale and they are attempting to leave isn't good customer service. Thats extra talking.

 

[JamilALAmin]

I waa oblivious. And no i wasnt being shy.
I was the one who initiated the convo. I even told her what glasses i had (without her asking), that i dont need to go there cuz my insurance expired, told her about why i dont wear my classes enough, etc.

I dont think the signs was clear enough so i didnt think too much of it.
Just went outside when she left JUST IN CASE she was choosing. She aint play it off and ask me for a lighter or nuttn so maybe she wasnt really choosing.

Don't know breh. The reason I'm doubting it is cuz I was the same way up until like 18-19. That oblivious shyt is really just that small seed of doubt in your head which makes you hesitate slightly. And that hesitation is all it takes for the situation to go either way. The more you wait the more scared you get. And she's not gonna be feeling you anymore if she thinks you're scared to holla. I used to get that shyt all the time. I'd catch a girl choosing, but instead of going over immediately Id wait and work the nerve up. Then when I finally did go over she like "no thanks". If you just jump down off rip you won't get that as much. And after time you get better at it. You just gotta stop giving a fukk breh. Once you stop caring about getting turned down it gets alot easier

 

[Blackrogue]

Swisher sweets?
cookies?
winter fresh?

we're missing the obvious

someone smoking weed and had the munchies

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Don't know breh. The reason I'm doubting it is cuz I was the same way up until like 18-19. That oblivious shyt is really just that small seed of doubt in your head which makes you hesitate slightly. And that hesitation is all it takes for the situation to go either way. The more you wait the more scared you get. And she's not gonna be feeling you anymore if she thinks you're scared to holla. I used to get that shyt all the time. I'd catch a girl choosing, but instead of going over immediately Id wait and work the nerve up. Then when I finally did go over she like "no thanks". If you just jump down off rip you won't get that as much. And after time you get better at it. You just gotta stop giving a fukk breh. Once you stop caring about getting turned down it gets alot easier

Like i said, it didnt fully seem like shr was giving play.
So i didnt come at her.


Im not like these dudrd on Here that think if a female speaks it means she wants you