I Done Did it Again Brehs : #TeamOblivious

JamilALAmin

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Like i said, it didnt fully seem like shr was giving play.
So i didnt come at her.
:yeshrug:

Im not like these dudrd on Here that think if a female speaks it means she wants you

It's in the eyes and the body language breh. That's all you need to look at to see what she is thinking. But you shouldn't be waiting for her to give you a cue or sign that she's choosing. Just jump down.
 

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Ok im scared then since thats whats being said.

Now how come im the one who initiated the conversation? I coulda just rang up her shyt and let her walk out.
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Bro its not that you lacked confidence to talk to a female..what you must change is your mentality when talking to a female. The mentality you are running with right now is the fear in the back of your mind that you might get rejected and you dont like that feeling so your mind blocks out signals and opportunities that present itself ( for example : when she talked about you visiting her work place) due to the fear that you might feel some type of way when you are rejected. Its the possibilities of rejection that is affecting you.

If you don't have that in your mind..It would have been as clear as Crystals that she opened up the chance for you to at least get her number or visit her at her job and you take it from there. You could potentially be in them butt cheeks right now but here you are making a thread about what could have been..
 

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Bro its not that you lacked confidence to talk to a female..what you must change is your mentality when talking to a female. The mentality you are running with right now is the fear in the back of your mind that you might get rejected and you dont like that feeling so your mind blocks out signals and opportunities that present itself ( for example : when she talked about you visiting her work place) due to the fear that you might feel some type of way when you are rejected. Its the possibilities of rejection that is affecting you.

If you don't have that in your mind..It would have been as clear as Crystals that she opened up the chance for you to at least get her number or visit her at her job and you take it from there. You could potentially be in them butt cheeks right now but here you are making a thread about what could have been..

Its not that deep.
I didn't plan on nor think about having her so therefore her statement didn't make since on a logical standpoint.
Not a OHH SHE GIVING ME SIGNS standpoint
 

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Didn't say that. That thirsty shyt is lame. But that don't mean you can't just be friendly with them. Saying good morning or some other mundane shyt isn't spitting game

Exactly.
And thats what i was doing with ol girl and assumed she was doing back.
We were just talking.
 
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