it wasn't so much time, as uncertainty about my future, which had me stressed out and emotionally unavailable.
We had that talk when she was here, she said she had to find out for herself, which is why her texts an hour after she left had me
But, I will give you some real advice.
You didn't communicate that to her?
she knew about the circumstances, but I didn't really tell her how it affected me. I didn't realize it, until we broke up either
. My boss made a huge mess out of extending my contract and got me in a situation which will look bad on my resume and to others working with me, through no fault of my own. that shyt drained all the energy out of me, because that dude was supposed to be my mentor, and is now trying to sacrifice me to hide his incompetence.she knew about the circumstances, but I didn't really tell her how it affected me. I didn't realize it, until we broke up either
In the end, this can all be traced back to her telling me she felt lonely a couple of weeks ago and me having just received negative news at work and responding in an aggressive way, hurting her in the process. it went downhill from there. She kept quiet because she didn't want to stress me, I was an a$$hole and didn't realize it. On top of that, I couldn't come visit her for her birthday two weeks ago, and lacked the energy to properly make up for it when we saw each other two days later. And to make matters worse, I really didn't feel like celebrating christmas at all this year, so I fell asleep in front of the television instead of calling her. As I said, I screwed up big time.
He did the same shyt...Goes through something, gets an attitude, not tell me and then is mean to me. I told him we need to be just friends because of it. You should learn to communicate better. Not saying you have to give her a much detail as you gave me, but at least let her know what's going on. Especially if it's going to impact your mood and behavior.
her telling him she "has to see if the emotions come back" is just some leading on thing. don't get me wrong i don't doubt that she still has some type of feelings for TS but she's in her own confusion.I agree with this, she's most likely staying in touch to make herself not feel bad about leaving. She probably chose to separate so she doesn't have the obligation of being in a relationship, but still doesn't want to push you into someone else's hands. To have her cake and eat it too.
Stop this texting bullshyt. Ring the bytch or go see her. This texting shyt is so dead I never know why so many people hash their relationships out in this terrible way
If that's your bae, go get her. If it's dead. Take this weekend to get the L out of your system. Do what you gotta do, listen to some Weeknd, drink some more, jack off a couple times. Whatever, but on Monday you sack her off completely, and start working on you. Get in shape, get ya swag up, get a trim, then let the rest fall in place.
Remember. It ain't nutt'n to cut that bytch off
I wasn't mean to her or had an attitude. It was more of a "not now" situation. The rest was negligence on my partLMAO! (sorry to laugh) but you sound like my friend.
