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I Had To Uninvite My Father to my Wedding
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A lot of you African brehs let your parents run life. I could never understand.
It is bro... i feel like im dying inside. Its not easy to go against your father, but it has to be done
Its a Nigerian thing, most other west african parents be chill from my observations
Hungerpain
Banned
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I Take it back OP pops really on sum bullshyt and shoulda been had hands put on him.
Sorry breh.
I Take it back OP pops really on sum bullshyt and shoulda been had hands put on him.
Sorry breh.
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Elle Driver
Veteran
They say it’s out of respect.
No one is going to come out better for this unfortunately, and low key, whether you like it or not subconsciously you will blame your wife for this, especially if you hit any rough patches or if something happens to your dad.
If he is being stubborn though, what can you do. Hope it all works out in the end OP.
If he is being stubborn though, what can you do. Hope it all works out in the end OP.
EXACTLY.
We are slaves to our parents every whim. Our parents tell us to jump off a bridge and we headfirst!
Well not anymore, i wont kill myself for him. I wont do it anymore!
Man, this sounds scary and I don't even know what you talking about breh.
Have you told your wife about your past? It can't be that right
Not knowing what I am talking about. My wife know all my past and I would like to think I know hers. I had a child oow so my shyt was in the red before I said my name.
So you not gonna invite the nikka that made you into the man you is today because your finance doesn't like him?
I thought it was something crazy.
Type of sucker shyt you on OP?
That's ya pops nikka he had your back since a kid you really gonna play him like that?
If it wasn't for him you wouldn't even be in position to be the successful young simp that you are today.
Tighten up.
It has nothing to do with her, he would have done it to any woman i wanted to marry. It has to do with manipulating me and controlling me
I didn't, I was stubborn...
Don't be stubborn brehs,
12 don't play, reality don't pay, you gotta do it right eventually and it's a longer path This sounds like you're wrestling with your pride/ego.
Allow me to get pseudo philosophical right quick:
In instances like this (and eventually your marriage) there's going to have to be some surrendering. But don't understand it as surrendering to a person, see it surrendering to a concept; in this context, the unconditional love between son and father. Much more important than your "ego", yes?
To that point, surrender to love, not your father, and sit at that table, even if you're unsure he'll join. Do what you can do to peace it up. If anything, you'll feel better knowing you tried.
Invite him. If he doesn't meet you there, you did your part.
ReadOneBookAWeek
Smoking on a Cac Pack
Yep. Parents are regular human beings and as adults they don't have the right to bring misery and stress into your life unless they pay your bills. And even then there are limits.
I honour and respect my parents but as a grown man I don't allow them speak to me in a nasty way. You can offer guidance, criticism, counsel etc but if you feel the need to throw insults around that's when I'm done with the convo.
I honour and respect my parents but as a grown man I don't allow them speak to me in a nasty way. You can offer guidance, criticism, counsel etc but if you feel the need to throw insults around that's when I'm done with the convo.
@Gold breh be the bigger man on this. I wish my dads was alive. I saw my biological one die and he couldn’t speak in his last couple of days but I knew he was sorry for the bs.
Be bigger and break those chains of discord and start your marriage off on a strong foundation.
I wish y’all the best and
for being a stand up breh
Be bigger and break those chains of discord and start your marriage off on a strong foundation.
I wish y’all the best and
for being a stand up breh