I Had To Uninvite My Father to my Wedding

[MischievousMonkey]

If you always knew your father was like that for your 30 years of life, deep down you knew it would eventually come to this.

Stand up. It's your time to become the man of the family. Honor your wife because she's a real one for taking this for you

 

[Ugo Ogugwa]

Look at you inserting your sassy passive aggressive negative energy into yet another thread

It's almost like you WANT to derail this thread:MJ_01:

 

[Payroll]

Gmb.

 

[Dre Space Age]

I kept typing, deleting, typing, deleting....fukk it.

 

[Keepya onya toes]

So was it over finances?

 

[Dre Space Age]

What is this a Scooby-Doo f****** mystery share the whole damn story please

From what I read, his dad smacked his fiancé up and OP did nothing but cry about in on TheColi and said he won’t invite his dad to the wedding but watch that old nikka show up like

 

[Obreh Winfrey]

From what I read, his dad smacked his fiancé up and OP did nothing but cry about in on TheColi and said he won’t invite his dad to the wedding but watch that old nikka show up like

 

[Fctftl]

Dunno what to say. Thats a shytty situation. Hopin the choice you makin works out for the best.:sadspur:

 

[Gold]

So was it over finances?

No. I make.more than him and im paying for everything in this wedding.

It was.over respect. And he did it when i was upstairs, he couldnt even do it in my presence. I ran downstairs and my brothers basically tackled me to stop me. My mom screamed at him and went to hug my fiance.

He was there, alone in his foolishness and his ego. He will die alone if he keeps this up.

 

[patscorpio]

Its hard to explain if you dont get the culture... but basically he... he went too far man i dont really wanna put it out there

Nwanne I have a strong feeling I know what it is and something I'm going to really have to deal with very soon myself

 

[Dre Space Age]

Personally if it was me that had to go through that, I would postpone the wedding, MOVE AWAY from him.

That’s priority number one. You don’t even have to tell him. This is one of those cases where you gotta move in silence.

You can uninvite him later after you and your wife is safely away from him.

 

[#1 pick]

Nwanne I have a strong feeling I know what it is and something I'm going to really have to deal with very soon myself

I don't know my g, this one might be out of any of us realm.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Took 3 damn pages for this dude to tell the whole story

So basically your pops smacked up your chick..

Just say that in the first place nikka

 

[Gold]

Nwanne I have a strong feeling I know what it is and something I'm going to really have to deal with very soon myself

He laid his hand on her.

And honestly i let it get to that. He had already insulted and berated her in previous meetings. I always stood up for her but i honestly i didnt do enough.

I was weak, i should have shut this down last year

 

[NoMoreWhiteWoman2020]

He had a daughter w his stepdaughter in the 80s and it didn’t come out until a year or two before he died. He admitted it, said he was wrong, she is damn near pushing 40 so really wasn’t nothing we could do. I’m not going to hold on to anyone else’s sins and make them my own burdens

 

[#1 pick]

Honestly @Gold, this is on your mom. Someone has to be in place of your dad at the wedding if he can't get his act together. Your oldest brother and your mom with you. It's gonna be tough. I just don't know. You doing a traditional right?