I Had To Uninvite My Father to my Wedding

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You seen someone’s dad assault their future daughter in law?

Seen on two different occasions crazy incidents. Both were the father of the bride though. 1) He swung at the groom and connected and cracked him on the jaw. This was not at the wedding but at a restuarant function bridging families stuff. This I saw in person.

2) The mother of the groom got slapped by the father of the bride over some issue. That nearly turned into a brawl. Didn't real know the people but was there as a date with my girl at the time. I never saw the slap but saw the pushing and yelling aftermath.

Yeah wild shyt happens when your trying bring two families together that don't like each other.

 

[iceberg_is_on_fire]

Y'all gotta be ez airing dirty laundry here though. These folks liable to go make a Twitter thread generalizing all Africans based on this info.

I didn't know the breh was African till this thread. Even though, there is a general principle. Till death do you part, that is with the wife, no one else. You have to defend her honor against all the bullshyt, no matter the direction its coming from. Isn't that just a commonplace thought? Like when my mom would say something about discipline of the kids. I'll let my mom talk because she is mom but at the end of the day, if I have no issue with that my wife is doing, we are going to continue to do and my mom doesn't need to speak to this situation any longer. I'll always respect my folks but when you are here, my wife is the queen of the kingdom, not anyone else.

 

[ADK]

Let your dad smack your wife brehs

 

[Dre Space Age]

My dad puts hands on my fiance and I can't kick his ass?


Everybody 2ft tall with their back turned

If your dad is crazy enough to get violent with your fiancé, then he’s crazy enough to pull a gun and shoot you on some Marvin Gaye shyt. Do you want to have to kill your dad too when defending yourself or risk getting shot or stabbed from behind cause nikkas is crazy like that?

No. Just extricate yourself from the situation, don’t escalate.

 

[Roid Jones]

Gotta stick up for yaself


Props

Fukk all that shyt, whos the bird in your avi?

 

[kaldurahm]

A lot of you African brehs let your parents run life. I could never understand.

Exactly it's bullshyt. It's like they live vicariously through the children. Best thing to do is to disrespect them at an early age. My father knows I won't tolerate hiss bullshyt

 

[Phantum]

I still get clowned for how my dad used to go off at school by my homies. On teachers, coaches, me, etc. My wedding night, yo, remember when your dad started wildin on Mrs....

What's crazy is now that I am older, I be wildin on these cacs. They be getting scared af too. My wife told me to watch my temper

Liberian dad, and it was a running joke between me and my brother to see how many times he would get security called on him when he was out with us.

It's a weird dynamic, they want you to live here but not act like you live here and be on some kids are supposed to be seen and not heard shyt. You almost have to check them to the point you hurt their feelings for them to realize their opinions on your life is secondary.

Your wedding is supposed to be one of the best days of your life, if his presence will taint it then he shouldn't be there. Maybe he'll get right for the next milestone.

 

[Mowgli]

If your dad is crazy enough to get violent with your fiancé, then he’s crazy enough to pull a gun and shoot you on some Marvin Gaye shyt. Do you want to have to kill your dad too when defending yourself or risk getting shot or stabbed from behind cause nikkas is crazy like that?

No. Just extricate yourself from the situation, don’t escalate.

He's getting his head cracked open. It's only right

 

[Roid Jones]

Why daddy come cause wahala now?

 

[kaldurahm]

Another thing you gotta do to parents is you have to be self sufficient. But you can't just talk, you have to walk and prove that you are. When you self-sufficient, why you gotta out up with dumb shyt. But I'm a young so I'm likely wrong.

 

[Umoja]

You should have fukked your dad up if he put hands on your fiance.

 

[Samori Toure]

If yall kmew what he did... yall woulda probably beat your father's ass for doing the same.

Trust me i wanted to, my brother stopped me

Not me. I would have just walked out the door and never spoke to him again. As fugged up as that might be he would have to reflect on the reason that I never spoke to him again.

 

[Konnan]

My dad possibly has cancer and theres a good chance he wont be around in 5 years and hes crossed a line with me many times but im riding with him til the wheels fall off this bytch

Be careful what you wish for breh

 

[Sccit]

YOU GOTA TELL THE STORY


THAT TL;DR AINT GUNA CUT IT BRODIE

 

[Arithmetic]

Fam I'm Kenyan I know this. I'm just not programmed like that. Even as a kid. I got beat for rebelling against all that structure. I told my folks straight up I don't care bout embarrassment and perception. I'm respectful but I won't be controlled.

Kenyans love them some western culture. :CowboysMJplease: