"I hate my Autistic brother and wish he was dead"

[Pure Water]

A huge reason I don't really want kids is because I don't want to be disappointed with what comes out. I know it sounds fukked up, but I don't want a disabled kid, a kid that takes after my mom side of the family and is short, or hell a gay kid. I know it sounds fukked up, but that's just where I am in my life right now. I'm not ready for those possibilities.

 

[analog]

It's one thing to sacrifice your happiness for a child, but it's wrong to compromise your other child's chance at a normal life.

It's been mentioned but dudes hate should be directed squarely at his parents. It's really unfair to put the younger sibling through this. Hope he puts some distance between himself and them for his own sake.

Work, put some money together and set him up in a home somewhere. Best you could do without going insane.

 

[RadaMillz]

I have a cousin with sever autism and he’s like 6’3 200 and I couldn’t even imagine having to be a full time caretaker

for same reason they hit crazy growth spurt, my aunt son is severely autistic. unlike his normal siblings, he grew to be 6'4 , over 230 with crazy strength.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

A lot of those type kids end up in group homes because they can't be cared for at home. I have actually been visiting a lot of them lately. Just coming from one now. I was at one a few weeks ago and one of the kids has killed people. They have to let people know who go there.

These are kids with autism who are out of control. I was in the group home today and we literally had to put in a hard plastic prison bead for one dude that he can't break and you can't be in the room alone with him because he claims that people are touching him.

Seeing this thread after I just left that spot is a fukking trip. That shyt is sad.

 

[Yinny]

It's one thing to sacrifice your happiness for a child, but it's wrong to compromise your other child's chance at a normal life.

It's been mentioned but dudes hate should be directed squarely at his parents. It's really unfair to put the younger sibling through this. Hope he puts some distance between himself and them for his own sake.

Work, put some money together and set him up in a home somewhere. Best you could do without going insane.

More families deal with this and it has its set of challenges- the words and actions from either the autistic party or a caregiver/in general can be challenging. They can lead normal lives depending on where on the spectrum they fall but I think the research is still being done on the labels and how to think about special needs people.

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

Early plot to ‘it’s okay to not be okay’

 

[Exlurkernegro]

If you can’t comprehend the selfishness and entitlement of that individual (even a little bit) based off the first few sentences alone, then there’s no point of me really attempting explaining it to you, breh.

Entitled and selfish cause he wanted to live a normal life and be a normal kid.

 

[analog]

More families deal with this and it has its set of challenges- the words I hear from either the autistic party or a caregiver/in general can get pretty loaded, pretty tough topic. They can lead normal lives but I think the research is still being done on the labels and special needs.

I know it's rough, I don't doubt it one bit.

But you have got to give your other children a chance at a normal life. I'd feel guilty as fukk if my other child was feeling equally burdened by the autistic one.

 

[wastedmermaid]

for same reason they hit crazy growth spurt, my aunt son is severely autistic. unlike his normal siblings, he grew to be 6'4 , over 230 with crazy strength.

Yeah, it’s crazy. With His outburst and instability paired with the raw strength I could never deal with it full time. And while I think wishing death on someone is a bit much, I don’t think the vast majority of people are equipped to deal with something like that and would very quickly be miserable

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

It's easier to judge him than to walk in his shoes
imagine watching other children have normal lives while you were essentially a 3rd parent
and u are expected to take care of him for the rest of your natural life after mom and dad pass, 24/7 of hard work

I wouldn't wish that on no one.

I have an autistic family member, not severe as they are always happy but still its lot of work.

I have an autistic kid in my family. He has daily melt downs can't speak and no diss he got less cognitive skills than some animals.

He will never be independent. I'm not quick to judge whoever made that post. At least they didn't dump him in a group home like all these other kids I see in that boat

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

The dude is 20.


He can move out.


lol.



Or is it not that simple?

What do y'all muthafukas think causes autism ?

Karma from a parent/or both paying a debt(s) to the cosmos.



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[Pazzy]

As a fairly recently diagnosed autistic person, look at how we interact with each other on here. We see the world differently. Autism is not a fun experience at least for me its not. The paragraphs of shyt and emotional rollercoasters, tantrums that i write is an example of autism at work. Lol. I still havent been able to get help managing this shyt yet. I need to. Might have another issue tied along with it with the emotional mood swings and extremes

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

A huge reason I don't really want kids is because I don't want to be disappointed with what comes out. I know it sounds fukked up, but I don't want a disabled kid, a kid that takes after my mom side of the family and is short, or hell a gay kid. I know it sounds fukked up, but that's just where I am in my life right now. I'm not ready for those possibilities.

My nikka
Those 3 things are not in the same category

I know this thecoli but I wouldnt care if my kid was gay, I just hope they wouldn't be super flaming

Now trans

As long as your kid is healthy and can be self sufficient

 

[DaddyFresh]

A lot of those type kids end up in group homes because they can't be cared for at home. I have actually been visiting a lot of them lately. Just coming from one now. I was at one a few weeks ago and one of the kids has killed people. They have to let people know who go there.

These are kids with autism who are out of control. I was in the group home today and we literally had to put in a hard plastic prison bead for one dude that he can't break and you can't be in the room alone with him because he claims that people are touching him.

Seeing this thread after I just left that spot is a fukking trip. That shyt is sad.

Yeah I have a friend who manages a group home. He said some of the clients have both parents in their life and financially well off. But still choose for their children to live there. Depending on how bad the condition is sometimes death is a better option for the disabled person . I know damn well if I got in a accident and lost all my motor skills and brain activity I wouldn’t want to live and be a burden on my loved ones

 

[Pure Water]

My nikka
Those 3 things are not in the same category

I know this thecoli but I would gad if my kid was gay, I just hope they wouldn't be super flaming

Now trans

As long as your kid is healthy and can be self sufficient

Yea, I know they're in completly different categories, but it's what I think about when having children even cross my mind. It wouldn't be the end of the world if my child was short or gay, but it wouldn't be what I envisioned.