"I hate my Autistic brother and wish he was dead"

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So a child being neglected by their parents is entitled?

Not constantly being the focus of attention because your sibling is severely disabled and requires more constitutes as “neglect” to you?

What the fukk is he blaming and wishing death on his brother for? If anything, that’s solely on his parents. Yes. It’s selfish and entitlement. You muthafukkas can not be serious.


Be mad at the parents, not the person that didn't ask to be born or have the condition that is afflicting him.

THIS. If I were this idiot crybaby’s parents, I’d disown his ass and cut off all inheritance. Disloyal spoiled ass coward wishing death on innocent family members because he didn’t get to grow up like Richie Rich or The Cleavers. Now, when I’m gone, all of my wealth and possessions will go to my children who actually deserve it, and you get nothing.
 
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I know someone who was in that position. He moved across the country when he went to college and only came home on holidays. He said he wanted to make it explicitly clear he was not going to be the caretaker his entire life. He didn’t hate his sister and he understood why he grew up the way he did with his parents workload, he just wanted a normal life for once.

I’m a firm believer that a child needs to have a chance to be a child no matter how hard it may be for the parent.
 

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First thing I thought about is the fact that someone is autistic isn’t even known in many cases until the child is at least four so the whole why did they have kids two years apart seemed like a stupid question.
 

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This is something that doesn't get talked about. We all automatically are sympathetic to disabled people, but nobody cares about their family members.

One of my good friends has an older brother who has cerebral palsy and has no control over his movements. He is 100% dependent on other people. It is taxing on family. And if they dare speak out, they are demonized. I have been told stories and even seen multiple instances where his brother is a complete a$$hole to the rest of the family.

So I do believe it's wrong to wish death on anybody, especially family. But none of us are in his shoes and can't really tell him how to feel. His anger may be pointed at the wrong target, but the anger is valid.
 

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First thing I thought about is the fact that someone is autistic isn’t even known in many cases until the child is at least four so the whole why did they have kids two years apart seemed like a stupid question.
Yeah most people either don't see it until it's late or they notice something, but just write it off as kids being kids. He is acting like he had a diagnosis and they had more kids. Obviously they stopped after him. Still sad story though.
 

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It's easier to judge him than to walk in his shoes
imagine watching other children have normal lives while you were essentially a 3rd parent
and u are expected to take care of him for the rest of your natural life after mom and dad pass, 24/7 of hard work

I wouldn't wish that on no one.

I have an autistic family member, not severe as they are always happy but still its lot of work.
 

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whoever wrote that is pathetic
My brother is autistic but not as severe as his brother

But enough to be a problem and noticeable

I don't hate my brother, but I've had dark feelings

I think those feelings are valid
You grow up dealing with shyt that most other ppl can't relate to
I watched my mom struggle and go into overtime trying to get my brother the care he needs
I definitely feel as if I was neglected

Society as a whole does not care about mentally impaired ppl, or the ppl who have to deal with them
You're basically on an island by yourself


And if dude feels that extreme about it he probably shouldn't be taking care of his sibling
 

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I grew up in a similar experience, except my younger brother and I had the support of family, an educated mother, and a military life up until our parents divorced in our teens. With autistic kids, the severity of their disability, their environment, and a regimented upbringing can be the determining factors in the quality of life they have when older. My brother was always very expressive, positive to be around, and like most other kids despite lacking real speech and having other basic autism-related disabilities.

I don't doubt the reddit poster's story, but if it was as bad as they claim, then that's on the parents. Plenty of trash parents don't know how to handle having children like that, and end up instilling harmful habits. The poster definitely should exert their independence, but not blame the sibling.
I keep saying I'm going to make a meet up group support group in my city
Mainly for my moms sake
 

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There's a difference between being frustrated and hating someone who has no control over their condition. A lot of you useless eaters will have bleeding hearts for fakkits and trannies but "understand" some sick mutant caucasoid who wishes his disabled brother dead because he's a jealous little attention whore with the empathy of an amoeba. That little shyt and anyone that thinks in even the most slightly similar way should be Euthanized in the T-4 manner; a nice country drive until you're dead.

I'm really disgusted by the things I see on this supposedly black forum. You all think so highly of yourselves too, yet infected with parasitic Caucasian ideals and worldviews. Absolutely sickening. And you all don't even have a disability to excuse your feeble-mindedness.
 
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