I hate when people say "rape is about wanting power over someone"

[wickedsm]

Why does nobody ever talk about Men being raped? Serious question.

Men and boys being raped is just as serious an issue and crime against their body and soul as it is for women and girls.
Women and girls are more common victims but that's not to say male victims aren't equally important.

I personally think the reason more people don't discuss male victims is primarily because of men as a whole.
What society's perception of masculinity is, people's feelings about homosexuality, men being expected to be able to defend themselves etc.
I think the stigma that male victims face is much more pronounced at the hands of other men.

You see it in this very thread. Why didn't he fight? He must have wanted it or liked it

I think for more male victims to come forward and heal and help other victims in the process they need to be comfortable that other men won't judge them as willing participants or deserving of such a horrible crime.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Although none of us have any legit proof of male sexual assault/rape being less abundant around the world; simply because the crime goes unreported especially amongst men, I'm going to go out on a limb and agree with you on that speculation. Yes, it doesn't occur more often; however, that does not mean that it doesn't occur a lot. Women should not be the face of rape victims in this country or anywhere else in the world. If that continues then most men will not feel inclined to report these crimes. You're going to ask him if he cares about these young boys getting raped out here? You obviously don't. The title of this thread is pertaining to the motive for rape itself not the motive on rape on women. As much as you hate to admit it male on male rape happens and is a serious issue and people like you are the reason most men go silent about it.

Me not using men getting raped as a cheap distraction to avoid talking about women getting raped doesn't mean I don't care about it

And if that's the case then dude DEFINITELY doesn't care about women getting raped, despite it being a much more widespread problem

 

[12345A]

No, not what I'm saying at all breh. In general if you want to stop rape, it's probably more effective to tell brehs not to rape, than to talk to them about coming forward if they have been raped (though we should do both).

And also if the conversation is about women being raped, we should prob stick to that, rather than scramble to change the subject because it makes us uncomfortable. I like how u cut out the rest of my post and just focused on what was easy for you to try and rebut. This is the kind of shyt that keeps any real dialogue from rape (or anything pretty much) from happening.... u talking about black people and boys in Cambodia in a topic about men raping women lmao.

The point isn't to stop rape how the hell do you think that would work? Raping persisted through out time and has only gotten worse. You think telling people to stop is going to make them stop? The way to stop rape is to get the potential victims to take precautionary measures to prevent that shyt. And yes that includes men. Creating neighborhood watch teams etc... And another thing the actual victims of this shyt need to stand up and speak out! They shouldn't feel compelled to just sit around silent because people like you want men to stay quiet for what ever sick reason.

 

[Won Won]

malc doing his best to make people miss Yo Moms

 

[12345A]

Me not using men getting raped as a cheap distraction to avoid talking about women getting raped doesn't mean I don't care about it

And if that's the case then dude DEFINITELY doesn't care about women getting raped, despite it being a much more widespread problem

No one is using it as a distraction to avoid talking about women getting raped. That's something you've come up with in an attempt to defend your belief that male raped victims should stay quiet about this issue in order to make rape seem like an issue exclusive to men and that only relates to women. The difference between you and I is that I recognize rape is an issue for ALL people and I don't use circumstance in which the crime occurs to turn a blind eye to the fact that it does happen.

 

[12345A]

Men and boys being raped is just as serious an issue and crime against their body and soul as it is for women and girls.
Women and girls are more common victims but that's not to say male victims aren't equally important.

I personally think the reason more people don't discuss male victims is primarily because of men as a whole.
What society's perception of masculinity is, people's feelings about homosexuality, men being expected to be able to defend themselves etc.
I think the stigma that male victims face is much more pronounced at the hands of other men.

You see it in this very thread. Why didn't he fight? He must have wanted it or liked it

I think for more male victims to come forward and heal and help other victims in the process they need to be comfortable that other men won't judge them as willing participants or deserving of such a horrible crime.

You hit the nail on the head. As long as men are fed this idea that rape is a woman's issue and being raped somehow makes him less of a man they will continue to be silent about it.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Me not using men getting raped as a cheap distraction to avoid talking about women getting raped doesn't mean I don't care about it

And if that's the case then dude DEFINITELY doesn't care about women getting raped, despite it being a much more widespread problem

What are you talking about? Who is distracting anyone? If anything you are trying to deflect from talking about male rape victims. The thread title doesnt state women only so how is talking about victims that are men deflecting from the issue?

 

[Apollo Creed]

You hit the nail on the head. As long as men are fed this idea that rape is a woman's issue and being raped somehow makes him less of a man they will continue to be silent about it.

Exactly, probably how these pastors and priest who do it get away with it because young men will feel like they are no longer men if this comes to light, then you have the weird cases of young boys who then turn to homosexuality from their experiences.

 

[12345A]

Exactly, probably how these pastors and priest who do it get away with it because young men will feel like they are no longer men if this comes to light, then you have the weird cases of young boys who then turn to homosexuality from their experiences.

I honestly think the young boys are just afraid and confused.

 

[miranda]

This nikka @DrX is legit going down a dark path..... we should be looking to snap him the fukk out of that instead of scrambling to change the subject because we are afraid to confront a very serious issue.

did @DrX threaten to harm women? why is his name being brought up in a rape thread? link please

 

[Ghanaian Armor]

Depends on the familiarity and age range.

Most false rape accusations happen in college now especially with Title IX. The definition of rape has been skewed in America.

And 7 out of 10 times they knew the guy and went out with him.

Back in the day most rape prevention for Women focused on staying out of dark alleyways at night. Now granted there was always the healthy risk of a trusted relative or "family friend" doing it, now we have another new element "date rape" which really began in the 90's.

One of the things I missed about the 70's although I wasn't born then was the fact that if a girl put herself in a situation with drugs and shady characters she was expected to take 100% responsibility of the outcome of said situation. Now today a girl can get a guy drunk and take advantage of the fact that Men can get stimulated while unconscious, steal his sperm then accuse him of rape despite him being blackout drunk. This is why my reaction to most rape news today is a cock-eyed look of scrutiny. By the time most males come to the age of 30 or so they are severely disillusioned with the "innocence" of females in this country.

But if it's another country I will take the accusation 100% serious. Sad times we live in to be an American.

Ladies you can thank the Feminists.

 

[wickedsm]

Depends on the familiarity and age range.

Most false rape accusations happen in college now especially with Title IX. The definition of rape has been skewed in America.

And 7 out of 10 times they knew the guy and went out with him.

Back in the day most rape prevention for Women focused on staying out of dark alleyways at night. Now granted there was always the healthy risk of a trusted relative or "family friend" doing it, now we have another new element "date rape" which really began in the 90's.

One of the things I missed about the 70's although I wasn't born then was the fact that if a girl put herself in a situation with drugs and shady characters she was expected to take 100% responsibility of the outcome of said situation. Now today a girl can get a guy drunk and take advantage of the fact that Men can get stimulated while unconscious, steal his sperm then accuse him of rape despite him being blackout drunk. This is why my reaction to most rape news today is a cock-eyed look of scrutiny. By the time most males come to the age of 30 or so they are severely disillusioned with the "innocence" of females in this country.

But if it's another country I will take the accusation 100% serious. Sad times we live in to be an American.

Ladies you can thank the Feminists.

Let me get this straight then . In the good ole days women were at fault for "putting themselves" into bad situations.
but now in these horrible current days it's women that put these men into these horrible situations with alcohol and shady characters?

 

[Killer Instinct]

This nikka @DrX is legit going down a dark path..... we should be looking to snap him the fukk out of that instead of scrambling to change the subject because we are afraid to confront a very serious issue.

What evidence do you have to suggest that that man is a future rapist, and have you shared it with the admins with the intent of them notifying the proper authorities?
You know, since you're genuinely concerned and aren't throwing out gross allegations for daps and cool points.

 

[miranda]

One of the things I missed about the 70's although I wasn't born then was the fact that if a girl put herself in a situation with drugs and shady characters she was expected to take 100% responsibility of the outcome of said situation.

serial killers lurking in plain sight

 

[Apollo Creed]

serial killers lurking in plain sight

My issue is Yes Women shouldn't put themselves at the end of the day but point blank Rape should not be happening. For example I could leave my door unlocked at my home, doesnt mean you should come in and kill my whole family. At the end of the day people should always take safety precautions which is a no brainer, but point blank Preying on the Weak and dumb is plain evil. Its not even in the sense that I`m about to hit a juug on someone dumb and make a come up that will make me richer, its preying on the weak and dumb for something that is simply evil. If a chick gets wasted at a party filled with people she doesnt know I`m gonna be like "damn you are dumb" but still anyone who takes advantage of that person is sick and evil and deserves to be punished to the fullest extent. At the end of the day if a woman is walking in a dark alley or is drunk, get her ass help or leave her the hell alone, but the whole is vile and sadistic, no way around it.