I Have 0 respect for married men who have “chores” or whose wives control the finances.

[ThrobbingHood]

so youd have your wife out there doing yard work

Right, because that’s clearly what I was advocating for.

I guess if thats how they got that woman, thats how they going to keep them. Rule of thumb for me is don't get a woman use to things you can't keep going during the duration of the relationship.

You preaching to the choir there.

 

[Ricky Fontaine]

nikka sound like he just got done watching The Honeymooners or King of Queens and pretending that they’re real people to make this silly ass thread.

 

[bigdaddy88]

so youd have your wife out there doing yard work

he never said that lol stop making strawman arguments and exaggerations, he's saying how are grown men having their ladies give chores like a kid lol

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

The go to ad hominem attack when valid points are made. Ok buddy.

"One side of me says, I'd like to talk to her, date her. The other side of me says, I wonder what her head would look like on a stick?"

Edmund Kemper - Wikipedia

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[SunnyD]

I hear what you’re saying but why would you be with a man who’s not good with money? I would think making good financial decisions is an important quality a woman would look for in a man.

And I’m not saying this is you, but I don’t trust women who want to “control” the finances in the household, claiming to be good with money. Unless the man in question is borderline retarded, that makes zero sense.

I never said I wanted to be with a man that wasn’t good with money … I said I’M good with money. Everything doesn’t have to be a power struggle.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

he never said that lol stop making strawman arguments and exaggerations, he's saying how are grown men having their ladies give chores like a kid lol

Breh, it’s amazing how obtuse some people are being. Clearly the point is these men in question are acting like their mother is at home and not their wives…. But somehow that makes me a woman hater.

 

[Remote]

Those men don’t need your respect.

 

[Why-Fi]

he never said that lol stop making strawman arguments and exaggerations, he's saying how are grown men having their ladies give chores like a kid lol

and I'm saying why would she have to. maybe I'm saying the same thing. it's early

 

[ThrobbingHood]

"One side of me says, I'd like to talk to her, date her. The other side of me says, I wonder what her head would look like on a stick?"

Edmund Kemper - Wikipedia

en.m.wikipedia.org

Ok buddy.

I never said I wanted to be with a man that wasn’t good with money … I said I’M good with money. Everything doesn’t have to be a power struggle.

And yet, you’re the one who wants control of the finances… ok.

 

[jdubnyce]

When it comes to household chores, there's a split in my household as to who does what.

I handle everything outside (lawn, roofing, snow removal, etc). One because I geniunely like doing that stuff, 2 because I ain't having my wife climbing up ladders to clean the leaves out the gutters, etc.

I handle the budgeting. I'm meticulous regarding our budget management. Not that my wife can't do it, but I rather take the lead.

My wife does more of the traditional stuff. Take care of the baby, clean the bathrooms. We share other cleaning, cooking.

We're not yelling at each other if one of us slips up and doesn't handle our shyt. What couple does that?

No restrictions on our separate social circles. She or i want to go out, fine. As long we plan a bit in advance so one of us has the kids.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

*cereal

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[RageKage]

@CouldntBeMe

 

[Wildhundreds]

he never said that lol stop making strawman arguments and exaggerations, he's saying how are grown men having their ladies give chores like a kid lol

Why a woman gotta tell a man to do the leaves though? What kind of dude want leaves all in front of the house he works to pay for?

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Those men don’t need your respect.

You think I should I ask them just in case?

and I'm saying why would she have to. maybe I'm saying the same thing. it's early

Who said she should do it? Are you Breh intentionally being slow?

 

[F*ckthemkids]

I see I hit a nerve.

You’re inferring a lot of things I didn’t say. But hey, if these grown men want to act like their wives are their mothers, more power to them. Couldn’t be me.

Don’t say that.

How am I inferring anything when I used the direct examples you used?

Ok,let me pose it to you like this. Let's say a woman was doing all these things.

Instead of finishing up the laundry or cleaning the bathroom she's out a brunch with her girls
Instead of allocating money towards braces for the kid, she's spending the money on shoes
Instead of spending time with you and your family she's out with her girls until midnight
Instead of listening to his better budgetary suggestions you go out on your own spending freely.

You'd say she was a pretty sub par wife wouldn't you?