I have to live with my wife and see her every day. I don't have to do the same with my friends/acquaintances. Nikka, I gives a fukk about what you think. Sometimes I really do have to ask my wife cuz I forget if we do have plans.

Your little brother is a fakkit and you're a rapist. Stop taking your issues out on this board and confront whoever it is that made you two this way![]()

OF COURSE A “MAN” THAT GETS SPANKED BY HIS WIFE WHEN HE FUCCS UP WOULD THINK IM A RAPIST FOR LAUGHING AT DAVE CHAPPELLE JOKES
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But what if YOU’RE buying the boat with money that you earned? Why should you let your wife dictate something that has nothing to do with her? As long as you’re not spending any of her money to buy the boat and you can’t take care of it yourself... why ask her?Depends on what we're talking about.
If it's like, "Aye breh come over and shoot some hoops." then you right.
But if it's, "Aye breh, let's go buy boats!" Well then...
But what if YOU’RE buying the boat with money that you earned? Why should you let your wife dictate something that has nothing to do with her? As long as you’re not spending any of her money to buy the boat and you can’t take care of it yourself... why ask her?
Serious question
But what if YOU’RE buying the boat with money that you earned? Why should you let your wife dictate something that has nothing to do with her? As long as you’re not spending any of her money to buy the boat and you can’t take care of it yourself... why ask her?
Serious question
But what if you can handle the extra expense without being a burden on her or the family as a whole?Simple respect.
After house, car, funding retirement accounts (and potentially 529 accounts for any progeny) a boat would be the 3rd or 4th largest expense a couple would likely encounter.
That type of spending will effect (affect? effect? I can't figure out which is correct here) us both, whether I earned the money or she did. She deserves to be part of the conversation.
But what if you can handle the extra expense without being a burden on her or the family as a whole?
I respect your opinion, I’m just not built like that. To each his own..Truthfully, I could.
But I still respect my wife.
And I recognize that, if she were to decide to spend 40k - 80k on something, I'd like to be included in the decision.
So I reciprocate.
Simple respect.

I respect your opinion, I’m just not built like that. To each his own..![]()