I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

[MikelArteta]

That's a hoe


You can't seriously believe that the majority of women fukk nikkas because he has a nice haircut

Any woman can step out in you, I know it's hard for you to comprehend

 

[Soundbwoy]

 

[newarkhiphop]

lets be candidate about what marriage is. marriage is not the relationship you have with a person. marriage is not even really a relationship as much as its a binding legal contract that ties you to another person. you combine assets and liabilities. legally the two of you become one. its like a business partnership that you can't back out of without severe penalties.

why would a man as the likely bread winner would want to sign a binding legal contract that merges two people into one and causes him as a grown man to be responsible and liable for another adult human being and further more states that during the relationship all property acquired is community property and if the relationship fails a third party will step in and divide up everything as they see fit is beyond me.

you can have a relationship with someone for the rest of your life and never marry them. you can love a person and never marry them. what's with this obsession with putting the relationship down on paper with exit penalties? what's the point? to appease the other person? what do you really gain from it?

romantic love as the basis of marriage is like building a house on shyt foundation. marriage should be arranged for both necessity and convenience. something more binding than feelings that can change in an instant.

Look breh trust me i know when marriages go WRONG things can go wrong for the man but honestly many times there are things that HE could have done to protect himself but you and I both know most us guys get more Emotional than women and act stupid them we wanna be cry babies when she bounces with half cause we didn't prepare ourselves, but that's a topic for a whole other thread.


The reason marriage was created in the first place in this country was because back in the slavery day's the white slave owners were raping and knocking up black slaves and Indian slave women left and right , apart from that they were still having kids with there white wives and kids with white prostitutitues, so you had ten's of thousands of illegitimate children being born each year, you had women with all these kids and no means of providing for them. The slaves and indians were fukked just of cause who they were and the white house women were fukked becuz a guy could up and leave her and any moment BUT more than anything the main reason was the mixing of the races. Brazil is a good example where this ran wild, they have a i believe the worlds biggest population of mixed people

So modern marriage was created to 1. provide women with some type of security 2. curb the making of illegit babies 3. stop the race mixing. In order to encourage men (whites) to do this the government back in the day include huge tax breaks , federal loans and grants (free money) etc etc so up until that point marriage was a HUGE benefit to a man.You find ur self a nice chick , you marry her, you guys start a household, you have a kid or two and you live THE AMERICAN DREAM.

This all worked in theory until things start to change in the mid late 60's early 70's when women started to become more "liberal"

i gotta run now but ill get back into later

 

[concise]

Damn Breh, looks like they threw your thread in the bushes already.

 

[opulence]

How can you even consider this? Why not just leave the person?

If you would cheat on someone, why not just en the relationship? I can't look people in the eye after doing them dirty.

Just being 100....as a man, if you wanna catch a nut, you can do that on your own if need be.

No offense to you personally: But to me, women describe cheating/these situations like some sh*t y'all saw in a movie where y'all imagine yourself as some character.

because I am speaking on situations where you cannot just leave the person tomorrow. I personally hope I would never cheat on my husband but I would never say never...I have seen friends in situations to where they physically want to leave and have already mentally left but they have to remain in a home with someone because leaving instantly is just not an option....like when you have years invested in someone and you share finances, a house, investments, and children that would take time to leave....then divide all your investments and decide what will happen with the children...who will leave who will keep the house...sometimes people see it easier to just remain together and try to work it out...

but no one is considering the point that leads up to the cheating...do not get me wrong there are some trife people that have mental issues and they never had any intentions on being faithful...but sometimes you are in a happy relationship for years and circumstances change and of course your happiness starts to change in the house hold as a result you try to solve the issues...but what do you do when you want to solve your relationship issues and your spouse is like whatever? I guess just give up right???? but if your spouse has already given up on trying but you meet someone in the process I guess you are a terrible person then right?

 

[Dzali OG]

Yall nikkas gonna learn that women not the victims society is painting them out to be.

THEY ARE THE ORIGINAL CHEATERS!!!!

Remember that, it's in them, it's in their God given DNA. Even though 90% of women will quickly hit you with that line that they would just leave before cheating.

When nikkas realize this we can view them differently. The female of every species is hardwired to find the best gene pool she can to have babies from. It just so happens that as humans we have emotions too. We sometimes choose people we liked at the moment but we want to upgrade.

Unfortunately, upgrading is complicated, because we've been brainwashed into believing "there should only be one".

Our heads are lying to us and our bodies know the truth. You will never be satisfied with one other person.

 

[Dzali OG]

Oh yeah, our society is set up to prevent these sensitive, insecure ass men from killing themselves when they come home and find some big dikk nikka dikkin their wife down.

It's why we have made it extra taboo for women to cheat. We've even made women believe that it's worst when a woman cheats than a man.

We think marriage is a womans idea.......naw crying ass nikkas made that shyt because they were tired of not knowing who their woman was fukkin when they weren't around.

We flipped the whole script to where we have society thinking men run the sex game and women are just innocents.

 

[Dzali OG]

a lot of these females from what i gather are still fukkin their past BF....damn facebook is the devil

Gotta be very careful with women and that "he's an ex".....................................................................wait.............................if your woman still in contact with her ex of course she fukkin him! FOH

But as I was trying to say, watch out for that "just a friend" shyt. Puccy and dikk can't do nothing but fukk!!!

 

[opulence]

Gotta be very careful with women and that "he's an ex".....................................................................wait.............................if your woman still in contact with her ex of course she fukkin him! FOH

But as I was trying to say, watch out for that "just a friend" shyt. Puccy and dikk can't do nothing but fukk!!!

that is ridiculous.....

 

[Dzali OG]

See only a cac would go for this shyt right here....

 

[Dzali OG]

that is ridiculous.....

I was waiting for the first person to think so....

After many moons on this earth I can promise you it's true.

p*ssy PLUS DIKK WILL ALWAYS EQUAL A fukk!!!!!!!!!!!

They may put it off and deny it for years, but eventually it will equal a fukk.

 

[Dzali OG]

Wife cheated while deployed and got pregnant.. Is there still hope?

Wife cheated while deployed and got pregnant.. Is there still hope?

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She was very suspicious when she came home. She was angry at me for wanting to work things out now that she was home, but i didnt support her when she needed it the most. She kept a lock on her phone and computer (which never happened pre-deployment). This bothered me and she told me that it was non of my business what she was texting other people. The first weekend after she came home, she was going to the Bar to get drunk with her unit. I was the babysitter for this night and wasnt allowed to go (suspicious eh?). I managed to catch her phone before it locked, and i installed a spyware called "spybubble" on her phone to see if she was cheating on me. That first night was the first rude awakening that she WAS indeed cheating on me. She was telling this guy how she wish she could disappear with him and how she would "do" him so hard and stuff like this. I was devastated... but being the honest man i was, i told her about it the next day. She told me that it was just dirty talk and there was nothing else to it... She also told me that she NEVER had sex with anyone while being home, or while deployed.

A few weeks later, she comes to me and tells me that she missed her period, which was to start just days after coming home. At this point, we had sex 3 times unprotected (this is my wife here ), but i never had made a mistake like this before. i was 99% sure that the baby wasnt mine... but she swore that she never cheated on me. A week later, while at her moms house, we got into a little fight about something, and she admitted so having sex with some black guy right before coming home... I was FURIOUS, and called her a liar among a few other names and stormed out the house.

We talked about it a couple hours later and she told me she felt bad for lying, and that she said i deserved to know because we were going to work things out again. She went and seen a doctor (this is about 2 weeks ago), to see how old the baby was... Come to find out, she conceived around the first week a February ( 3 weeks before coming home ).

I bet ****** lover was one of them....

But yeah if your woman or man is in the military, I know from experience cheating is nothing alien to them....GUARANTEED.

 

[Uffie]

i read a lot of threads off that site.... some of those guys got done so dirty and still stuck around. they are so angry but bc there wives are "beautiful" they stick it out. im sorry but if my husband (im never getting married) cheated on me id gut him like a fish, fukk all his friends and dump his ass. theres no fixing or turning back after that.

but um long as you're happy, whatever...

their lives, my entertainment.

 

[opulence]

I was waiting for the first person to think so....

After many moons on this earth I can promise you it's true.

p*ssy PLUS DIKK WILL ALWAYS EQUAL A fukk!!!!!!!!!!!

They may put it off and deny it for years, but eventually it will equal a fukk.

I do not speak with my ex's often but I have a two that I speak to every now and then....and they could not pay me to fukk them...but we know one another's family and just say hi every blue...

 

[Dzali OG]

most of these pawgs just want new d1ck

Bimm!

Same way nikkas like some new p*ssy, women don't mind a lil side dikk. That side dikk is mufukkka!!!