I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

[Dzali OG]

You getting women mixed up with whores. Whores will fukk the pool boy and that type shyt. Women are usually driven to cheat by their mans actions.

Believe that shyt you want to...

Society has reprogrammed us to keep women as tame as possible cos most nikkas can't handle facts.

Women are the original dogs...just observe nature. If you ever have a question about something in life 9/10 observe nature for the truth.

The female of most species mate with multiple males to insure they obtain optimum genes for their children. They didn't even too much expose this fact to the public until recently.

And I've been watching nature shows a long ass time. They are just now starting to state that the female of many animals mate with multiple male partners. They used to always make it out that the male of each species were the ones wandering and dikking everything down while the females stayed in their lil territories and only mated with ONE male.

They letting it slip out...

 

[Dzali OG]

I do not speak with my ex's often but I have a two that I speak to every now and then....and they could not pay me to fukk them...but we know one another's family and just say hi every blue...

The key is you do not speak to them often which means they have even less opportunity too you. They don't have access.

I wasn't referring to speaking in passing, I'm talking about weekly conversations like "we used to date but we're just friends now".

BTW...if that's YOU in your pic you better insure a nikka has limited access to you or he will be trying to fukk.

 

[Return of the Jedi]

Site is too depressing

 

[newworldafro]

Site is too depressing

Winning my wife back after her affair? :scratchhead:

"Winning my wife back after her affair? :scratchhead:"

The past 5 years of our marriage has been amazing, until about 6 months ago she got a job at a bar and had an affair. I found out, broke the affair up (I know for certain there has been no contact between them, via spy software/voice recorders in her car).

Damn marriage has become straight espionage shiit....cotdamn.....

 

[Return of the Jedi]

Damn marriage has become straight espionage shiit....cotdamn.....

I'm sayin


This has to represent a small fraction of the marriage community...right?

 

[Taadow]

lets be candidate about what marriage is.

Really, cuzz?

 

[Roid Jones]

I clicked on the link looking for , now I'm , I'm never getting married

 

[newarkhiphop]

to finish what i started before so women started to become more liberal both financially and sexually that started the destruction of traditional marriages. We all know plenty of older couples who have been more for 35 even 40+ years no problem we used to see that ALL the time, why did that change?

What changed was values, and this part i blame it on us the guys. To put in in a vulgar way men started to value decent women less and started to value HOES more , so what started to happen? Women started to act less like women and more like hoes and men accepted that so we lowered the standard of the women. Men are weak for women in the first place but now instead of being weak for good chicks we weak for hoes.

Guys know when there women are hoes trust me becky doesn't go for ms lil ms housewives to sucking off a train of dudes from craigslist overnight . We has men have to go to stop chosing these hoes , let them turn lesbians , let them fall off the face of the earth but stop chosing these hoes to marry.

 

[opulence]

The key is you do not speak to them often which means they have even less opportunity too you. They don't have access.

I wasn't referring to speaking in passing, I'm talking about weekly conversations like "we used to date but we're just friends now".

BTW...if that's YOU in your pic you better insure a nikka has limited access to you or he will be trying to fukk.

well I never believed in talking to ex's anyway...and if we broke up it was for a reason so no need to maintain a friendship...but like I said the ex's that time has passed and I do not hate them and we are mature enough to say hello how is your mom that is fine.

it is me but although they have tried I have a choice...I do not want them..but I understand what you are saying some women use keeping in contact with their ex's as friends to keep them on the side...as men do too...

 

[opulence]

to finish what i started before so women started to become more liberal both financially and sexually that started the destruction of traditional marriages. We all know plenty of older couples who have been more for 35 even 40+ years no problem we used to see that ALL the time, why did that change?

What changed was values, and this part i blame it on us the guys. To put in in a vulgar way men started to value decent women less and started to value HOES more , so what started to happen? Women started to act less like women and more like hoes and men accepted that so we lowered the standard of the women. Men are weak for women in the first place but now instead of being weak for good chicks we weak for hoes.

Guys know when there women are hoes trust me becky doesn't go for ms lil ms housewives to sucking off a train of dudes from craigslist overnight . We has men have to go to stop chosing these hoes , let them turn lesbians , let them fall off the face of the earth but stop chosing these hoes to marry.

LOL ...I agree to an extent...people chase the wrong person for themselves...and then become surprised when their spouse start acting like the real them...

 

[Dzali OG]

to finish what i started before so women started to become more liberal both financially and sexually that started the destruction of traditional marriages. We all know plenty of older couples who have been more for 35 even 40+ years no problem we used to see that ALL the time, why did that change?

What changed was values, and this part i blame it on us the guys. To put in in a vulgar way men started to value decent women less and started to value HOES more , so what started to happen? Women started to act less like women and more like hoes and men accepted that so we lowered the standard of the women. Men are weak for women in the first place but now instead of being weak for good chicks we weak for hoes.

Guys know when there women are hoes trust me becky doesn't go for ms lil ms housewives to sucking off a train of dudes from craigslist overnight . We has men have to go to stop chosing these hoes , let them turn lesbians , let them fall off the face of the earth but stop chosing these hoes to marry.

I feel you, but that's the propaganda that is fed to us....

Like you said our grandparents were married for 30-40 years so cheating must be new huh...........ummm no. Cheating isn't new and it isn't happening any more now than it did hundreds of years ago.

We have always been cheaters. It wasn't until men who had power in our societies (priests, government) got tired of coming home and finding Becky with a bigger dikk or finding out 2 out of 5 children wasn't theres....did they start the campaign to keep women in check.

They started changing the mentality and rewriting the history books. They fought a war against women mentally and won. Remember the victors of a war write the history. Same as white people won the war and wrote the books to reflect all black people were brought here to America via the slave trade. Black people were all over the America's before the slave trade.

They taught us that women don't like sex and that's a dayum lie.

It's been programmed so deep that even most women don't know they've been bamboozled. They'll put their own out there and call them hoes and croes.

p*ssy has and always will rule this world....

 

[Malta]

to finish what i started before so women started to become more liberal both financially and sexually that started the destruction of traditional marriages. We all know plenty of older couples who have been more for 35 even 40+ years no problem we used to see that ALL the time, why did that change?

What changed was values, and this part i blame it on us the guys. To put in in a vulgar way men started to value decent women less and started to value HOES more , so what started to happen? Women started to act less like women and more like hoes and men accepted that so we lowered the standard of the women. Men are weak for women in the first place but now instead of being weak for good chicks we weak for hoes.

Guys know when there women are hoes trust me becky doesn't go for ms lil ms housewives to sucking off a train of dudes from craigslist overnight . We has men have to go to stop chosing these hoes , let them turn lesbians , let them fall off the face of the earth but stop chosing these hoes to marry.

And, there's also the advent of social media, where there's thousands of simps on standby just waiting for any weakness in your relationship. Snake ass nikkas just waiting in the grass like -

 

[jadillac]

Like I said earlier, ur wife should know TWO things about you as a man.

1. That ur gonna do whatever and anything to protect her in any situation and provide for her and be loving, kind.

AND

2. She should have a healthy fear that just as much as all that you'd do in # 1 , you can be the complete opposite if she ever messes around on you.


In other words, if you know that I'd take a bullet for you/die, you should also know & assume that if you step out on me/cheat, there's gonna be some serious repercussions on the flip side.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Well I have joined a club I would have never voluntarily done.
To make a long story short, I am a young 60 year old no one beleives by age I am in good shape and eat well and rarely ever drink. I will be married 40 years in June. Yes got married very young! My wife is attractive for her age (58) but overweight which has never bothered me. In March of 2010 I had prostate cancer surgery. The surgery went well all test since then are good, but to say that I was not devastated is an understatement. Before the surgery we were very sexually active. I thought we were both happy. The recovery took a bit of time but I was lucky enough to maintain my potency. Of course Viagra was prescribe and with the use thereof I am the same as before. If any man on here has ever taken Viagra; there are some side effects. I was certainly willing to suffer the mild side effect to satisfy my wife. Well for the last 8 months or more I would always say "let me know if you want me to take a Viagra" She has to this day never asked me to take one. I guess I thought she was no longer interested considering her age. Lets get to the chase. This past Tuesday I received our cell phone bill and since it was more expensive than normal I had pulled up the usage detail. There were two calls to a nearby state which I didn't recognize. I normally call my wife in the morning to give her a wake up call for work. I go in much earlier than her. I asked her about the phone numbers and she said, "what are you checking my calls". I explained why I had looked at the bill. She then said it was someone that we both knew but hadn't seen in 2 years. None of us were close. I said oh what were you calling him for. She said she had been having a sexual affair with him since September and was just at my house Monday 2/1 before she went to work and they had sex. Well I was at work, nearly went beserk and was yelling at the top of my lungs to determine why this happened.
I left work since I was a basket case and went home. That night when she came home I tried to talk calmly no yelling or anything. She said it was just sex, she had no emotional feelings for him and that she would call him in front of me and tell him she would not be seeing him again. She went through with the call but reached his answering machine. She told him it was over and she had no idea how devastated I was over it.
It has been quiet since with us talking out the details. I told her I virtually begged for the last 8 months for sex and only had it once or twice. I told her how could she have him over first thing in the morning when I never was offered morning sex before my hectic workday. She said it was the only time they were both available to meet. I am numb, she refused to see a marriage councilor and swears it will never happen again. I have a hard time believing her. Oh by the way they had unprotected sex! As I said I hardly no this guy. Obviously she does. She said we would work on the sex part of our relationship. What's there to work on, I have always been ready. She almost acts like nothing happened currently she is watching a comedy on TV and laughing. I can't laugh but can cry which I have done. Where do I turn? I don't want to end a long term marriage we have two adult children and 5 grandchildren. Oh another funny thing she said when I was trying to find out what I did wrong and how could I correct anything to make this work. She said several weeks ago someone at work had offered her a puppy and I flat out said no. We have had our share of pets over the years and I don't want any ties with a pup when we both work full time. She said that made her mad. Well so go f--k some one else over such a trivial matter. I sure could use some advice. Right now I feel like sh-t. Anyone please help me move on or suggest how I deal with this

shes cheating at 58 years old

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

We have been married for 10 years. Our sexual life has slowed down and became less exciting. So.... when my wife started showing an interest in a co-worker, who is married, we started fantasising about her having sex with him... It turned us on and reignited our sex life. Slowly, to keep the fantasy going, I started encouraging her to flirt more and more with him. Well... Two months ago she started having sex with him and she has developed a strong emotional bond with him. I never thought she would actually do it! It started out as a fantasy that we both enjoyed, now she is actively involved in an intense affair.It has been two months now and there are no signs that it is going to slow down. I feel like I caused this because I started out with the fantasy... I don't feel right about telling her to stop... On the other hand, so far our sex life has been completely renewed, she has a sexual energy that I have not seen since we first met.

Any advice? Make her stop, or let it keep going but try to keep an eye on the emotional side. So far she says she loves me and has no intention of abandoning our marriage.