I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

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nikka if you deemed every man or woman that did some groupie type shyt in their life (especially in college) unmarriable then that would end 40% of all marriages..

She never did ol boy wrong and that's what's important.

And you know she didn't do this dude wrong how? Because he hasn't caught her yet? More times than not, people revert back to their histories. If you want to marry the town bop, that's on you. This dude would be well advised to avoid this time bomb. Once she gets bored, it's already a known what she's going to get down to doing.
 

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Some of this shyt makes me not want to get married ever again

Should I call off my wedding? - Talk About Marriage

I'm in a terrible place and I need some advice. I live in Palo Alto but I'm originally from Virginia. I met a woman on a dating site almost 2 years ago. She is from my hometown back in VA. We talked for 6 months before meeting in person. I've met her back in Va numerous times and she has visited me here in quite a few times. I proposed back in November and she accepted. I was sure that she was the one and I loved her to the point where I know I wanted to spend my life with her. This past April, I finally decided to let her meet my family. I invited her to my home in VA and she met my parents, both my sisters, and my brother. Everything went well and everyone seemed to like her. Since November, we've been making wedding plans, making reservations, preparing invitations. Our big day is supposed to be next month in July. Last week, I was home visiting and my brother called and said he needed to talk to me about something. He told me that there is something burning inside him and that he needed to tell me something. I could not imagine what it was but the news was that he knew my fiancee back in college. He said that she was quite the party girl and made her way around. He didn't want me to hear it from anyone else but he said that he, along with numerous other men at their school, slept with her. He said that he participated in a 3 way with her and another man. I didn't think he was telling the truth but I was stupid enough to ask for details. He talked about how they would get crazy drunk and she would sleep with him along with other numerous men. He said she had no shame and would routinely let men finish in her mouth and on her body. All in all, she was a real *****.

Still, I couldn't believe this. I asked a couple friends around town and I found out it was the truth. Their stories weren't as graphic but I could tell by their expressions that something more went on. I then confronted her about it and she first denied it. I kept bringing up names and dates and she eventually broke down crying and told me it was the truth. She said that she is "reformed" and doesn't participate in that behavior before. What hurts the most is that we are celibate until marriage. She never said that she was a virgin but she said that she wanted to wait until marriage for sex. I myself have never had sex before but I wanted our first time to be special on our wedding night. Although she hasn't cheated on me from what I know, I keep having these images of her in my head with my brother and other men. Also, she specifically told me that she isn't into oral and anal and I was fine with that. I love a woman that respects her body. However, I found that she has done both of these things with other men. I just feel like I'm the laughing stock of everybody at home. I feel like I'm getting the leftovers. I'm pretty successful in my career and I'm pulling 90k right now. My brother and the rest of his friends are barely pulling half that. Most of those guys are mostly jocks and knuckleheads while I've always been the one to bust my ass in school and in life. I feel like she had her fun and is settling with my because of my future. Maybe I'm wrong but that's how I feel. My mother says I should give her a chance but I'm not feeling good about this. However, I also feel bad about calling off the wedding since I've made a lot of promises to her. As stupid as it sounds, I still love her. I don't know what I'm thinking and maybe I'm rambling but any advice would be helpful.

:mjlol: This must be him below:
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Brother-in-law ruined my marriage.
I really really need some guidance because I'm just an emotional wreck right now! I've only been married for 3 years and me and my wife have 1 son together. I love her to death and would do anything for her. Her brother is an Iraqi war vet but he is also 100% disabled. He got injured in a car accident here in the states but it happened while he was still on active duty. He has trouble caring for himself since he suffered a back injury as well as the lost of a finger. A few months ago, he needed to get surgery at the VA and me and my wife moved in with him once he was discharged so we can care for him until he is healthy enough to care for himself. We've always had a good relationship and I've always liked the guy. Me and my wife would take turns going to work and caring for him and this went on for weeks. So one day my wife was at work and he was in the bedroom laying down. I was playing the game in the living room when I heard a noise coming from his room. I thought he had fell out the bed so I ran in to see what happened. I came in and saw him masturbating. It caught me by surprise so I just kind of froze. He said something along the lines of am I just going to stand there and watch or am I going to come give him a hand. I really didn't know what to do since we are the only people that really care for him and he really doesn't get any female attention since he's always in the house and has gained quite a bit of weight. I just wanted to make him happy and it didn't seem wrong at the time so I went over and helped him.

This ended up opening a can of worms because he would always ask me to do that. God I knew it was wrong and I told him I didn't really want to but I was only doing this to make him happy. I also told him that it needs to stay between us. There have been a couple occasions where he asked for oral sex and yes, I did it those times but it was never until completion since I didn't feel comfortable with thaht. He got addicted to all this and started to use me. Even after we moved out, he would call my wife and ask her if I could come over and play the playstation with him. Me and my wife would fight about it because I didn't want to go because I knew what he wanted. She thought I was neglecting him so she always made me go. So the problem came to a head this week when he was arguing with my wife about co-signing on a car. We have good credit but his credit is bad. She told him he should save and build his credit but he wanted a co-signer now. They had a big fight so he told her everything that he did with me. He told her that I have been coming over everyday giving him hand jobs and blow jobs. My wife didn't believe it but he showed her some pictures he snapped as well as some texts where we are talking about it. I didn't even know he had pics but he showed them to her and put them on facebook briefly when he was upset. He totally ****ed up my life. I never liked doing this but I only did it to make him happy. I'm also not gay or bisexual. I was just helping out. My wife doesn't see it like this and she moved out. I feel like total **** because she is a good girl and doesn't deserve this. She has met with an attorney and wants a divorce. He has apologized to the both of us but the damage is done. Here I am alone over something stupid that I never should have did. She says that's it's ok if I'm gay but the truth is that I'm not!! Come to find out, her brother is bi and I never knew that. I need help to convince her to start over. I'm sorry and I thought I was helping her by helping him. I know I shouldn't have done it but I feel like I deserve another chance.


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How about that L...YOU CANT BE SO WEAK BRUH :dead:
 

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You can't turn a hoe into a housewife. Only way you can is if you believe what you know won't hurt you.

If a chick is a hoe. She's always gonna be a hoe. Hoes can be nice people tho. Hoeing has more to do with filling a spiritual void. Anything can trigger that inner hoe again. Some broads are just freaks and love dikk as well. Too risky with these diseases out here.
 

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Some part of me wanted to leave but I couldn't. I also woke up and wondered why the hell I ever agreed with this in the first place. I just laid down on the bed while they continued to have sex. They were then standing on the side of the bed having sex while I was laying there. I watched some more and then turned my head the other way. Without warning, I felt something warm across my back. I had no idea what it was but I knew it wasn't right. By the time I turned around, my wife was laughing hysterically and her co-worker was trying not to laugh. It only took a few seconds to realize that he shot his load all over my back.

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Only thing worse than this was from the cuckhold forum. Ol boy wife made dude shoot his load in her husband face. It got in his eye and gave him a terrible eye infection. :pachaha:
 
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