I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

[Renkz]

From Talkaboutmarriage….

"This is the 3rd month that I have been browsing these forums and now it's time to get some help. We have tried and tried to fix this marriage and it is to the point that I am the only one trying. The camel's back was broken when I agreed to a 3 way with my wife and I was humiliated. Also, I wasn't sure if this was best to post this here or in the sex forum. If this is not the correct place, please move for me.

Sex has been pretty horrible for me and my wife. We have only been married 5 years and for the first 3, sex was great. My wife's sex drive all of a sudden decreased and she had little to no interest in sex. My sex drive soon followed and I never really recovered. She also stopped giving me oral sex about 2 years ago. For the past two years, our sex life has consisted of me giving her oral and me receiving a hand job in return. It wasn't my ideal arrangement but we both were able to climax with this arrangement.

My wife suggested that we try to do some new things to try to rekindle our sex life. She made it seem that I would have some say in what we should do but she had her heart set on having 3 way sex. On top of that, she wanted the 3rd person to be a man from her job. I really didn't feel right doing this but at the same time, I wanted her to be happy. I never suspected her of cheating but I asked her what she knew about the guy. She said that he was a sex guru and he could help to spice up our sex life. I agreed out of desperation.

We had the 3 way last week and it was the most awkward and uncomfortable thing that I ever did in my life. Throughout the entire session, my wife paid more attention to him than me. The only thing good about it was that I saw that she was happy. After about 30 minutes in, she began to give him oral sex. I stopped her and asked how she could do that to him when she didn't do that to me anymore. She said that she wanted to do new things and this is what she wanted. It was very awkward and he just looked at me with a smirk. I was pissed and didn't want to participate anymore.

Some part of me wanted to leave but I couldn't. I also woke up and wondered why the hell I ever agreed with this in the first place. I just laid down on the bed while they continued to have sex. They were then standing on the side of the bed having sex while I was laying there. I watched some more and then turned my head the other way. Without warning, I felt something warm across my back. I had no idea what it was but I knew it wasn't right. By the time I turned around, my wife was laughing hysterically and her co-worker was trying not to laugh. It only took a few seconds to realize that he shot his load all over my back.

This is the most humiliating thing that has ever happened to me. My wife enjoyed herself and said I shouldn't worry about it. I feel that they somehow set me up and the way that they looked at each other, I think they may have been together before. Now she is living happy and wants to do it again. I wanted to work on our sex life/marriage but now I'm not too sure. Is this some sort of phase she is going through? She is 46 and I just turned 43. I can accept that maybe I can't satisfy her sexually anymore but I can't help but to think that she told him to do that to me. Does this sound like a marriage worth fighting for or should I listen to my gut and believe that she is sleeping with him behind my back and I should pursue a divorce?"

I'm speechless!

This story

 

[Devilinurear]

This story

Yooooooo

Damn he needs to leave her. She don't respect him

 

[I AM WE ARE]

reading shyt like this, plus being in my line of work makes me not trust women

 

[Chrishaune]

Yooooooo

Damn he needs to leave her. She don't respect him

People kill over stuff like that.

 

[Devilinurear]

People kill over stuff like that.

He wasn't killing nobody once he agreed to that threesome

 

[Chrishaune]

He wasn't killing nobody once he agreed to that threesome

Yeah he already showed what he was and she could see it that's why she didn't fear asking about it or doing it. She wasn't shyt from the beginning though I'm sure, he just didn't heed the signs.

 

[TaxCollector13459]

Said he was in a wheelchair, I would have rolled that nikka down a steep hill

Lmaoooo

 

[Payday23]

Worst Valentine’s Day ever!
My wife of 7 years accidentally left her journal in a very accessible place and didn’t expect me to be home early. I opened it and found daily references to how much she loves another man.
It’s like an atomic bomb just dropped on me. I knew something was up because she had grown distant but I couldn’t prove anything. I somehow knew something was up with this guy but I always trusted her and never believed she would ever love someone more.
It’s all so hard to understand. I’m a respected and high-earning specialist physician. I have worked hard for everything I have. I am charasmatic, talented, and in great shape (run marathons).
This other man is overweight, broke (below the poverty line), and married with 3 young children.
My wife works part time. This gave her unlimited time and funds to meet up with this other man.
I just can’t believe this and it SUCKS. How do I cope? What do I do??

Damn

Holy shyt.

LOL

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Worst Valentine’s Day ever!
My wife of 7 years accidentally left her journal in a very accessible place and didn’t expect me to be home early. I opened it and found daily references to how much she loves another man.
It’s like an atomic bomb just dropped on me. I knew something was up because she had grown distant but I couldn’t prove anything. I somehow knew something was up with this guy but I always trusted her and never believed she would ever love someone more.
It’s all so hard to understand. I’m a respected and high-earning specialist physician. I have worked hard for everything I have. I am charasmatic, talented, and in great shape (run marathons).
This other man is overweight, broke (below the poverty line), and married with 3 young children.
My wife works part time. This gave her unlimited time and funds to meet up with this other man.
I just can’t believe this and it SUCKS. How do I cope? What do I do??

Damn

Dude has a bigger penis and more time.

 

[Ziggiy]

Continue to live in the same house as the man that fukked your wife brehs

The other man is our tenant, need legal advise - Talk About Marriage

Hello all, I'm in a dire need for help. My situation is too embarassing for me to be able to talk to anyone and I feel I'm losing my mind !
My wife and I have been married for 6 years. We are both in our early 30's. Dated for a year and a half before getting married. We have a 5 year old son.
Our marriage has had its upside downs, but I thought it was a good marriage. Wife and I are bying a three bedrooms apartment and paying mortgage.
One of the bedroom is occupied by our son, one is ours, and we decided to rent the third to help us a little bit with the mortgage.

We found a single man, steadily employed, in his late 20's, non-smoker, with great credit, who just met all our requirements of a room mate.
He was on time with rent, always quiet, always respectful..no problems or so I thought for 5 months.
Last night I woke up at night to use the bathroom and found my wife's place empty. I assumed she was in the bathroom, so I waited for her to come back
so I can get in. After about ten minutes I decided to go knock at the door, only to find the door open and no one in the bathroom. The house all dark
and quiet. I used the restroom and turned on the lights on the hallway. There was her purse, her coat, her shoes at the door...so she was inside the house.
A cold sweat covered my forehead. I could feel my knees shaking. I sat on the bedside, quiet, in the darkness.
About half an hour later, the tenant's bedroom door opened very slowly and I saw a slim shadow on the wall. On tiptoes and only in underwear, with her t-shirt
in her hand, my wife was trying to sneak back in our marital bed.
I turned on the lights and exploded. The expression on her face, the disbelief, the guilt, I shall never forget. She had no choice than to admit.
She was having an affair with the tenant from the first weeks he moved in. She claims she is unfulfilled sexually and emotionally with me, and he
makes her feel like a woman.
She refuses to kick him out. Even at my threats to divorce. The guy has a one year lease with us anyway, and is only in the 5th month. I don't know
what my legal rights are, in the circumstances of him having an affair with my wife in my own house. I haven't confronted him yet.
He's taller than me and better built. I'm terrified of coming out defeated and humiliated in front of my wife in a physical confrontation with him.
Couldn't function all day. Took off from work. Sent my son to my sister's house for my nephew's pijama party. I can use these hours alone to think
what to do until my wife and her lover boy come home from work later tonight.
I love my wife and can't believe this is the end. Can't believe she cheated on me for months. Can't believe her vows meant that little!
I want to cry here.

THATS the story of a man whose about to kill everyone in the house plus a 5 mile vicinity.


The wife crazy as fukk thinking she gone boss up and tell her husband that the other guy is staying. bytch WANTS to die horribly at this point

 

[MikelArteta]

time and time again these stories

wife doesn't want sex or you get missionary or maybe just a handjob

but when she cheats she deepthroating swallowing cum, taking it up the ass chute and all

 

[VertigoKnight]

I spent some time on that forum yesterday and

 

[Ziggiy]

time and time again these stories

wife doesn't want sex or you get missionary or maybe just a handjob

but when she cheats she deepthroating swallowing cum, taking it up the ass chute and all

The RIGHT nikka will have a woman on her knees butt naked shining shoes while saying “Yes Daddy” just like the RIGHT chick will have a man emptying his bank accounts and signing over power of attorney...


Its a cold game but the smartest thing for a man to do is simply admit when he’s not the RIGHT nikka for a chick and cut his losses and move on. It’ll be painful, it’ll be expensive, it’ll be draining....

BUT i’d rather be drained than BROKEN.

 

[Elim Garak]

Brother-in-law ruined my marriage.
I really really need some guidance because I'm just an emotional wreck right now! I've only been married for 3 years and me and my wife have 1 son together. I love her to death and would do anything for her. Her brother is an Iraqi war vet but he is also 100% disabled. He got injured in a car accident here in the states but it happened while he was still on active duty. He has trouble caring for himself since he suffered a back injury as well as the lost of a finger. A few months ago, he needed to get surgery at the VA and me and my wife moved in with him once he was discharged so we can care for him until he is healthy enough to care for himself. We've always had a good relationship and I've always liked the guy. Me and my wife would take turns going to work and caring for him and this went on for weeks. So one day my wife was at work and he was in the bedroom laying down. I was playing the game in the living room when I heard a noise coming from his room. I thought he had fell out the bed so I ran in to see what happened. I came in and saw him masturbating. It caught me by surprise so I just kind of froze. He said something along the lines of am I just going to stand there and watch or am I going to come give him a hand. I really didn't know what to do since we are the only people that really care for him and he really doesn't get any female attention since he's always in the house and has gained quite a bit of weight. I just wanted to make him happy and it didn't seem wrong at the time so I went over and helped him.

This ended up opening a can of worms because he would always ask me to do that. God I knew it was wrong and I told him I didn't really want to but I was only doing this to make him happy. I also told him that it needs to stay between us. There have been a couple occasions where he asked for oral sex and yes, I did it those times but it was never until completion since I didn't feel comfortable with thaht. He got addicted to all this and started to use me. Even after we moved out, he would call my wife and ask her if I could come over and play the playstation with him. Me and my wife would fight about it because I didn't want to go because I knew what he wanted. She thought I was neglecting him so she always made me go. So the problem came to a head this week when he was arguing with my wife about co-signing on a car. We have good credit but his credit is bad. She told him he should save and build his credit but he wanted a co-signer now. They had a big fight so he told her everything that he did with me. He told her that I have been coming over everyday giving him hand jobs and blow jobs. My wife didn't believe it but he showed her some pictures he snapped as well as some texts where we are talking about it. I didn't even know he had pics but he showed them to her and put them on facebook briefly when he was upset. He totally ****ed up my life. I never liked doing this but I only did it to make him happy. I'm also not gay or bisexual. I was just helping out. My wife doesn't see it like this and she moved out. I feel like total **** because she is a good girl and doesn't deserve this. She has met with an attorney and wants a divorce. He has apologized to the both of us but the damage is done. Here I am alone over something stupid that I never should have did. She says that's it's ok if I'm gay but the truth is that I'm not!! Come to find out, her brother is bi and I never knew that. I need help to convince her to start over. I'm sorry and I thought I was helping her by helping him. I know I shouldn't have done it but I feel like I deserve another chance.

That dude is gay otherwise he could have just hired an escort for the dude I know that is what I would have done lmfao this is some wild shyt.

 

[Elim Garak]

Sex issues with wife and I found out she attended a blow job party - Talk About Marriage

I let everything go until this past week when I was going through some photos on icloud and noticed she had some horrific photos that were uploaded from her phone. There was a picture of what looked like my wife covered in semen and holding a penis although I'm not sure since it was partially out of view.
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I wish I never saw this thread damn im gonna be reading this shyt all night lol.