Continue to live in the same house as the man that fukked your wife brehs
The other man is our tenant, need legal advise - Talk About Marriage
Hello all, I'm in a dire need for help. My situation is too embarassing for me to be able to talk to anyone and I feel I'm losing my mind !
My wife and I have been married for 6 years. We are both in our early 30's. Dated for a year and a half before getting married. We have a 5 year old son.
Our marriage has had its upside downs, but I thought it was a good marriage. Wife and I are bying a three bedrooms apartment and paying mortgage.
One of the bedroom is occupied by our son, one is ours, and we decided to rent the third to help us a little bit with the mortgage.
We found a single man, steadily employed, in his late 20's, non-smoker, with great credit, who just met all our requirements of a room mate.
He was on time with rent, always quiet, always respectful..no problems or so I thought for 5 months.
Last night I woke up at night to use the bathroom and found my wife's place empty. I assumed she was in the bathroom, so I waited for her to come back
so I can get in. After about ten minutes I decided to go knock at the door, only to find the door open and no one in the bathroom. The house all dark
and quiet. I used the restroom and turned on the lights on the hallway. There was her purse, her coat, her shoes at the door...so she was inside the house.
A cold sweat covered my forehead. I could feel my knees shaking. I sat on the bedside, quiet, in the darkness.
About half an hour later, the tenant's bedroom door opened very slowly and I saw a slim shadow on the wall. On tiptoes and only in underwear, with her t-shirt
in her hand, my wife was trying to sneak back in our marital bed.
I turned on the lights and exploded. The expression on her face, the disbelief, the guilt, I shall never forget. She had no choice than to admit.
She was having an affair with the tenant from the first weeks he moved in. She claims she is unfulfilled sexually and emotionally with me, and he
makes her feel like a woman.
She refuses to kick him out. Even at my threats to divorce. The guy has a one year lease with us anyway, and is only in the 5th month. I don't know
what my legal rights are, in the circumstances of him having an affair with my wife in my own house. I haven't confronted him yet.
He's taller than me and better built. I'm terrified of coming out defeated and humiliated in front of my wife in a physical confrontation with him.
Couldn't function all day. Took off from work. Sent my son to my sister's house for my nephew's pijama party. I can use these hours alone to think
what to do until my wife and her lover boy come home from work later tonight.
I love my wife and can't believe this is the end. Can't believe she cheated on me for months. Can't believe her vows meant that little!
I want to cry here.