I just took an L with this girl in the library

Ashyneezz

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this is an L. approaching her again makes you look persistent. that makes you look thirsty. that makes you look like someone who can't get laid. that will turn her off.

keep it moving.

I was thinking about this too. Either that persistence will pay off. Or I'll look thirsty again, which I definitely don't want. :whew: decision...decisions
 

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I won't even say I think you approached it wrong. You did. Are you funny? Don't just come out w/ weak things like you're cute & expect a follow up convo from a female. Witty wins & you don't really have to do that. W/ females as in all situations, it's not what you say, it's how you say it.

As someone previously said, you can ask her what she's doing there, etc, etc... Don't push it too hard but don't be too subtle by placing yourself in a friendzone before you can put the key into the ignition.

Honestly, just be yourself but find her interest or play to her interest. Make it seem like you're a person she would want to talk to instead of walking away from (didn't see you say she smiled when you said she was "kinda cute").

You'll probably have her by next week if you just keep it on the cool.

I'm a #StoopidLife nikka so everything I do is just random. I don't remember half these broads (before I got serious) & I don't give a fukk what you think about me. I'ma do me. Just do you & you should be in the good if you have any sort of personality. If not, play it off like you do & :stylin: in that box

:salute:
 

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you got rejected but didn't take a true L ...you built up the cajones to approach her and never have to go through life wondering "what if" which is worse than being rejected :salute:

however, to bounce back this is what you do...

-you said you have to whisper? make sure your breath is fresh .....keep gum or mints on you and since you have to be in close range to whisper make sure your lips aren't chapped and go to the bathroom before hand to ensure no buggers, nose hairs, etc that can detract from your presentation :takedat:

-now make sure she isn't fully invested in a book or looks really occupied ...don't want to come off as a nuisance...the exchange should go something like this..

you: excuse me ...umm it's natalie right? (don't want to come off like you remember her name and been doodling it in your trapperkeeper with hearts and arrows)....:comeon:

her: uuh yea

Introduce yourself again....thenn....

you: well don't mean to interrupt but i noticed you here last time (dont say u see her a lot cause it sounds stalkerish) .......you come off as really intelligent and this is kind of embarrassing but and ive just started to make it a habit to read more but i really don't know where to start? maybe recommend a book kinda like reading rainbow back in the day *smile* (the fact that you said it's embarrassing and made a joke shows you dont take yourself too serious and your fun) ....think you could recommend a good book....no 50 shades of grey steez (ya'll both laugh) but something to make me think...


take the convo you want from here....this helps her talk about her and what books she likes cause women love talking about themselves and give advice...

anyway once you are done with your exchange at the end make her laugh and leave a lasting impression like...

you: aight well if imma check this book out and ill let you know if i think its wack or not (this foreshadows that you intend to contact her again) ....shyt we might as well form our own little book club .....(feel her out if you get the vide this is were you get the number)

after you get the number say thank you .....smile and WALK AWAY...dont overstay your welcome and always know when to leave a combo


stay away from physical compliments.....she's in the library alot she's an "intellectual" but intellectuals are the biggest freaks but you have to stimulate her mind and the rest will follow...

good luck and God Speed :leostare:

haha this is terrible.

Here's what you do next. Next time you see her, just yell out, "Mildred! HEY MILDREEDD!!!"

And she'll be like, "My name's not Mildred?? :dwillhuh:"

And then you're like, "Oh well you didn't tell me your name last time so I just guessed :smugfavre:"

If that doesn't get laffs then I don't know what. Then talk to her you moron.
 

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Don't waste your time with this bytch, just approach 10 other but not with this cute shyt

For this bookworm bytch you already a cute nikka

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Props. Try again, breh.

At least you got the courage. I recently stepped my courage up and started going in so I support this :yes:
 

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Props. Try again, breh.

At least you got the courage. I recently stepped my courage up and started going in so I support this :yes:

Yea breh I had an old head spit game to me. I use to miss my chances and go to be thinking "what if" :beli:. That's a worse feeling then actually taking an L
 

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Here's what worked for me **coughs** in11thgrade **Clears throat**

I sat right in front her this broad that was at a table. I haven't seen you around here, you new?
Her: yea
Me: That's what's up where from?
Her: Denver colorado
Me: That's cool, you like it here?
Her: its ok
Me: You know anybody here?
Her: I know a couple of people
Me: That's straight let me get your number and we'll kick it
Her: Ok

I got the number then bounced, hit up then hit if off. Not too bad but we were young, Iono how broads are today.
 

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Here's what worked for me **coughs** in11thgrade **Clears throat**

I sat right in front her this broad that was at a table. I haven't seen you around here, you new?
Her: yea
Me: That's what's up where from?
Her: Denver colorado
Me: That's cool, you like it here?
Her: its ok
Me: You know anybody here?
Her: I know a couple of people
Me: That's straight let me get your number and we'll kick it
Her: Ok

I got the number then bounced, hit up then hit if off. Not too bad but we were young, Iono how broads are today.

HAHA hey everyone, this guy hasn't been laid since 11th grade
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