I need some advice friends, please (long distance relationship)

[TheDarceKnight]

This is not necessarily true. I have friends (multiple couples) that have lived apart for couple years and broken up that are now happily married. It may not be sign of weakness. It could just be the stress of being apart and having needs.



sounds like you got a good deal going. just be safe and don't try to deceive anyone. that doesn't mean you have to tell every girl you get it on with that you have a LDR.

i'm not in NC anymore but I used to live right off market and 16th. I used to stumble home drunk many a time. My spots were the greenlight, costello's (), and barbary coast. maaan, i miss that town. I got kicked out of the copper penny because me and my homie were yelling at the TV because the steelers losing. i used to get loaded with coworkers at city limits, too. that bar was with the hiphop/country/80s rock mix.

That's fukking crazy man, I'm walking to Cooper Penny right now 9I work downtown in the Murchison building).

 

[Crakface]

End it by any means necessary. Loyal to long distance p*ssy i the most p*ssy thing a man can do with his life.

 

[malbaker86]

This relationship done bruh. End it over the phone

 

[MikelArteta]

LD never work for the most part unless you two are virgins and extremely committed.

Cut the cord wouldn't be shocked if she is relieved herself when you do.

 

[Malta]

She mentioned an open relationship cause she's fukking other dudes right now

 

[TheDarceKnight]

The situation sucks but based off of how you feel I don't see it getting any better. You better go before you end up more hurt. Why would she even apply to a job that far? If I had a loving man I would find a job in my area.
Think about that.
Or did the job scout her out?

basically why she moved is a few reasons:

- She's young and she's a natural world traveler. Which I totally understand.

- She works in the news, and an offer from Dallas coming from here is unheard of. She would have been stupid not to take it. She was looking in DC and San Diego, and I probably would be more stoked to move somewhere like that. I'm not a big Texas fan, even after visiting.

- She was a bit naiive and thought that the LDR wouldn't be that difficult. I knew it would, but you can't shoot down someone's bright idea. people generally have to fly or fail to learn life lessons. Plus I support her dreams and goals 100%

- Her family is is crazy, and her little brother tried to kill someone, and she felt like she needed to get some space from them to find her own identity and place in the world. She finished college in under 4 years, and while her brother was doing drugs, they helped him get a car, and they wouldn't even help her buy silverware. It's horrible.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

Tough situation but if you have to question your relationship, then end it. An open relationship may be cool with her but will just add more confusion to your life with multiple women. Sounds to me like you need consistency and randoms as well as a long distance romance isnt it. Good luck.

 

[TheDarceKnight]

She mentioned an open relationship cause she's fukking other dudes right now

Lol. She's really not. Sex is one of the top 3 things on this earth that I feel confident about. We have crazy ass sex, and she's not interested in other dikk. Anything is possible, but I'm the one that wants something on the side, not her. I WISH she did want something on the side, because I'd feel better about the situation.

 

[KinksandCoils]

basically why she moved is a few reasons:

- She's young and she's a natural world traveler. Which I totally understand.

- She works in the news, and an offer from Dallas coming from here is unheard of. She would have been stupid not to take it. She was looking in DC and San Diego, and I probably would be more stoked to move somewhere like that. I'm not a big Texas fan, even after visiting.

- She was a bit naiive and thought that the LDR wouldn't be that difficult. I knew it would, but you can't shoot down someone's bright idea. people generally have to fly or fail to learn life lessons. Plus I support her dreams and goals 100%

- Her family is is crazy, and her little brother tried to kill someone, and she felt like she needed to get some space from them to find her own identity and place in the world. She finished college in under 4 years, and while her brother was doing drugs, they helped him get a car, and they wouldn't even help her buy silverware. It's horrible.

So why did you say you felt that she picked her job over you?
I mean she did technically but it seems like it was more for the best Rather than her just being selfish.
Ask her to be straight up about things. I feel like her offering the open relationship is saying a whole lot. Don't over look it. That's not something too many people are cool with.

 

[TheDarceKnight]

All ya'll are giving me really good advice. Thanks. Daps and pos reps to everyone in this thread.

 

[Turbulent]

i don't understand why we are avoiding the giant pink elephant in the room. she suggested an open relationship?

Spoiler

you share that girl...

 

[Malta]

Lol. She's really not. Sex is one of the top 3 things on this earth that I feel confident about. We have crazy ass sex, and she's not interested in other dikk. Anything is possible, but I'm the one that wants something on the side, not her. I WISH she did want something on the side, because I'd feel better about the situation.

Ok, and yet she still mentioned an open relationship where other dudes get to fukk her.

If a female I'm with brought that up she'd be automatic bushes status because I'd just assume she's already doing it. You can be as confident as you want, you're not there on nights when she's lonely

 

[End Cruelty]

That's fukking crazy man, I'm walking to Cooper Penny right now 9I work downtown in the Murchison building).

ha, when i first moved there i used to play music for beer money right around there. then go up in cape fear wine & beer and buy some exotic shyt. lmao. when i was broke i could normally get the hookup at the cellar, which is right under odessa if i remember correctly. good times out of wilmington. i used to walk thru the set of 'one tree hill' every morning on my way to work. plus i've had plenty of faded mornings on wrightsville beach. i need to plan a vacation out there and catch up with my peoples, tbh.

 

[BruhMayne]

Am I the only one that notice its somebody named white mike in every hood

But bruh she's already fukking other ppl. Her contract isnt up until 3 years AND she's suggested open relationship only after 6 months

Cmon @White Mike you cant be this naive. I live in dallas too, and Ima tell you, shes fukking somebody else just break it off

 

[TheDarceKnight]

So why did you say you felt that she picked her job over you?
I mean she did technically but it seems like it was more for the best Rather than her just being selfish.
Ask her to be straight up about things. I feel like her offering the open relationship is saying a whole lot. Don't over look it. That's not something too many people are cool with.

You hit the nail on the head. yeah she didn't see it as choosing the job over me. She thought she could easily have both. Deep down I knew that "technically" she was choosing the job, but again, I don't want to keep anyone from living their life.

It was for the best, and no matter what, it's good that she left. Great life experiences for both of us. But yeah, she is super open minded.