I never understood why some women would rather do bad all by themselves instead of going 50% on bills.

[Unbothered]

Some women have what I call “spoiled princess (or, for comical purposes, “brat”) syndrome,” in which they want to be taken care of and lavished as if they were little girls being raised by their daddies. These types of women always got what they wanted as little girls, especially from their fathers, so the sentiment sticks with them as they age and expect that from the men they date, and if the men can't provide that lifestyle, they'd rather be single until one does.

Some also have daddy issues that stem from a lack thereof while growing up, so now they're trying to make up for all the lost time and years they've missed of being a “daddy's little girl” through their dating life. Hence, some of them want a man to “provide” for them while they sit back and enjoy life.

I've come across women like this a few times myself; before I met my GF, there was a woman I was rapping to, and she once said a few times how she “always gets what she wants” and wouldn't accept anything less. I responded to her with a kind reality check, telling her how we're adults now, and we don't always get what we want, and she went quiet for 5 seconds...then proceeded to say, “Well, I do” in a tone that sounded a little ticked off.

 

[Beng Beng]

Real gs pay everything

 

[Brolic]

 

[JT-Money]

You need to double that $3400/mo for expenses total. No telling how much debt she's probably hiding .

 

[Matt504]

This is disingenuous to say the least, especially regarding the current state of affairs and how people tend to form their expectations based off of social media. Women don’t like going 50/50 in todays world because they think high value women should be put up…when the only reason women get put up is because they are whores who got pregnant by someone with a family.

Expectations of both genders have changed drastically.

Social media may create expectations but we live in the real world where people quickly find out if their expectations are compatible with reality. A woman can expect to be kept all she wants, if she doesn't meet anyone who's buying what she's selling, she'll have to adjust her expectations.

All that aside, men have and will continue to expect women to handle tasks that our society has deemed women's work and no one understands this better than women.

 

[Sterling Archer]

They don’t wanna give the p*ssy every night to someone who can’t pay all her bills

I have perennially been a nikka that paid no bills and got all the p*ssy access that those same women would tell that to. They play them games with the nikkas that let them. I ain’t start paying for shyt until I was married.

 

[Womb Raider]

Social media may create expectations but we live in the real world where people quickly find out if their expectations are compatible with reality. A woman can expect to be kept all she wants, if she doesn't meet anyone who's buying what she's selling, she'll have to adjust her expectations.

All that aside, men have and will continue to expect women to handle tasks that our society has deemed women's work and no one understands this better than women.

According to who? And what tasks are you referring to? Society has shifted towards lowering expectations of women and against deeming certain tasks women’s work. It’s not acceptable in todays society for a man to simply work and come home, they are expected to have a hand in household tasks or they are deemed less than a man…are we in the present or are you stuck in 1995 breh? Wake up

 

[Commish]

I don't understand why anyone would expect someone else to pay all the expenses while they get to keep all of their money?

Do ppl really think that most households are ran with one income? Ppl believe that a household with two working adults are being sustained with only one adult's income?

I don't believe it!

I believe that most households with two or more working adults are sharing the household expenses. Doesn't mean that the expenses are split evenly. But, it does mean that there is an agreement for said working adults to cover various expenses, especially in HCOL areas.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

their egos

 

[Matt504]

According to who? And what tasks are you referring to? Society has shifted towards lowering expectations of women and against deeming certain tasks women’s work. It’s not acceptable in todays society for a man to simply work and come home, they are expected to have a hand in household tasks or they are deemed less than a man…are we in the present or are you stuck in 1995 breh? Wake up

This is progressive babble, and Trump being re-elected is a symptom of it being roundly rejected. It is very much acceptable in society for a man to simply work and come home, take out the trash or whatever.

You guys are in here asking why a woman would prefer to pay $3,000 a month instead of $1,500 and then concluding that it's because women either want to pay 100% or their bills or 0% of their bills.

This convo would have been wrapped up on page one if women bothered to still post here.

 

[Womb Raider]

This is progressive babble, and Trump being re-elected is a symptom of it being roundly rejected. It is very much acceptable in society for a man to simply work and come home, take out the trash or whatever.

You guys are in here asking why a woman would prefer to pay $3,000 a month instead of $1,500 and then concluding that it's because women either want to pay 100% or their bills or 0% of their bills.

This convo would have been wrapped up on page one if women bothered to still post here.

Again, according to who? You’re babbling to yourself and involving imaginary supporters based on an argument you’re failing to support.

You don’t sound like you’ve ever dealt with a woman in real life, otherwise you would know that women ain’t about to let a man go to work and come home in peace without nagging them to do more and more while doing less and less.

Go get some real world experience and come back to this conversation friend, you’re out of your element.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

She probably don't like you like that bro
It's simple!

Yall got a million post of tips but it's not rocket science.

And vice versa ffor a man that wouldn't contribute unless she or he just couldn't

 

[Mystic]

I pay for all the bills so she don't gotta worry about nothing she Gucci

 

[IvyLane]

do bad all by yourself… is not just about saving money. It is about mental wellbeing. Its about keeping your home a haven. Avoiding emotional abuse and for some women physical abuse. I know several chicks that ended up in a far worse situation due to the (dysfunctional) relationship. Although most want to find a partner…. Some know they make bad selections in partners and will have a train wreck.

Beyond that, it’s the laundry , cooking, cleaning up after someone.

 

[CrushedGroove]

Because penis ain't got no name and air ain't got no beef!