I never understood why some women would rather do bad all by themselves instead of going 50% on bills.

[Savvir]

Because they are doing it by themselves. They contributing the same shiit the dude is and the dude expects way more out of her than he's willing to give her,

what does a dude who goes 50/50 expect out of her specifically?

 

[Sauce and Footwork]

These chicks on all the YouTube instagram videos be birds and don’t represent most black women at all. I know plenty black married couples or just couples and both parties work. My wife is a stay at home mom, because it works for our family. But she has worked at times when needed. And always willing to if she needed to again. Most black women understand the economic times we are in and don’t expect they man to work overtime to provide for them. In the real world this is understood.

 

[ViShawn]

Ego

 

[Tribal Outkast]

Every woman in the world deserves a man that will pay her rent and car note. Along with his rent and car note becausehe cant have roommates. Especially in this economy if he can't do that he just lazy.

He should also be paying for her to vacation internationally 5 times a year. That's the bare minimum.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

what does a dude who goes 50/50 expect out of her specifically?

cooking and cleaning, fukking and sucking him on demand

 

[Savvir]

cooking and cleaning, fukking and sucking him on demand

This makes no sense....

men currently in 50/50 relationships don't get that and stay in the relationship...

why is the argument that a man demands those things?

in reality, men in 50/50 relationships share duties and don't have a sex slave for a partner....

have you ever lived with a partner before?

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

I think in reasonable women they would prefer to be alone than in a sub-optimal relationship.

define sub optimal

 

[Peruvian Connect]

This makes no sense....

men currently in 50/50 relationships don't get that and stay in the relationship...

why is the argument that a man demands those things?

in reality, men in 50/50 relationships share duties and don't have a sex slave for a partner....

have you ever lived with a partner before?

Well of course they stay, They can't afford to live on their own, where the fukk they gonna go back home to momma?

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Because they'd rather pay 100% than deal with a man

 

[Savvir]

Well of course they stay, They can't afford to live on their own, where the fukk they gonna go back home to momma?

wait a second....

men statistically make more money than women at every socioeconomic level...

but somehow you have the viewpoint that it's the men that are broke?

is it just that the only men you mess with are broke ones so you have a skewed perception?

 

[Peruvian Connect]

wait a second....

men statistically make more than women at every socioeconomic level...

but somehow you have the viewpoint that it's the men that are broke?

is it just that the only men you mess with are broke so you have a skewed perception?

But if he needs to go 50/50 with a woman, he obviously can not afford it, Or at the very least does not want to. So weither way it's beneficial to stay. As he either can't or doesn't want to play 100% of the bills. Either way he ain't a "man".

 

[Savvir]

But if he needs to go 50/50 with a woman, he obviously can not afford it, Or at the very least does not want to. So weither way it's beneficial to stay. As he either can't or doesn't want to play 100% of the bills. Either way he ain't a "man".

I'm so confused right now...

statistically more men are able to live on their own than women...

statistically more women rely on men...

statistically, the vast vast majority of relationships where partners pay 100%...its the men paying 100%.....

if you have issues with not being able to get a man to pay your bills you need to ask yourself why you cant attract the men who do that?



you have experience with broke nikkas who need you to move out of their moms house...

you don't have experience with a man who makes good money and wants to work together to build a future...

your perspective is skewed by the types of guys you can and cant get...

sad

 

[Peruvian Connect]

I'm so confused right now...

statistically more men are able to live on their own than women...

statistically more women rely on men...

statistically, the vast vast majority of relationships where partners pay 100%...its the men paying 100%.....

if you have issues with not being able to get a man to pay your bills you need to ask yourself why you cant attract the men who do that?

If you are a man in a 50/50 relationship you're broke and less than a man,

 

[Savvir]

If you are a man in a 50/50 relationship your broke and less than a man,

your man pays all you bills?

 

[Peruvian Connect]

your man pays all you bills?

I'm a man who pays all my bills. I'm not looking to go 50/50 with a woman. I don't need a rommate