I showed up unannounced at my ex's apt ///

What is the most accurate statement?


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Collateral

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We've since made up. But she's telling me that its normal to go to people's spots unannounced. I told her maybe its cultural but that shyt's a BIG no-no where I'm from.
My ex did this shyt last week. She literally waited for me to get off at work around midnight. Had nikkas texting me telling me a girl looking for me :stopitslime:

I hate that shyt. You crossing major boundaries by showing up to a motherfukker’s crib unannounced like that. Especially when y’all not even dating in the first place! bytches are crazy yo, imagine if we did that shyt?

I told her ass if she ever shows up to my crib again I’m calling the cops because it’s harassment at that point. She’s Dominican too :facepalm:
 

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If you were a man and he were a woman you might be in jail. count yourself lucky.
Your post is still up, you know.

It says verbatim - "Men go to jail."

Not 'Many' or even 'Some', Pumpkin.
verbatim huh?

So this is the definition of Might.

used to express permission, liberty, probability, or possibility in the past

Here's possibility

a chance that something might exist, happen, or be true :

Which one of these says definite?
 

Ricky Dunigan

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Damn bro. How did you feel?


Was rough my dude. Perfect end to a shytty year. Had a sit down and talk with her parents (didnt think they'd be home). Mom remembered me as the cat that was her "first" but she played it off. Pops didnt remember me thank god.

Me and her didnt end on good terms, but we'd run into each other and eventually, the offer was on the table, i just never took it until I broke up with my ex, and well....
 

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Don't know how not to treat the one(s) that you're f-cking like the one you're [supposedly] loving, Brehs.
How is it his fault she caught feelings and dnt know how to not be clingy? there seems to be communication issues and she reacted stupidly, dnt show up unannounced. From what I read they treated each other like friends (they’re exes but still have a good relationship) and all dat, what fukkin went on or what shyt did he do that sent her wrong signals (I only read up to him texting her not to show up uninvited)?
Yes handsome?
 

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verbatim huh?

So this is the definition of Might.

used to express permission, liberty, probability, or possibility in the past

Here's possibility

a chance that something might exist, happen, or be true :

Which one of these says definite?

Did you edit your post? LOL.
If not, I concede. I'll catch you next time.

I know what operative words are. I also know the definition of might.
Teach me something else. T/Y.
 

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Making unannounced threads?
We both agreed to post this here so we could get others opinions.

Doesn't relate to you and him but I just thought that it's cheaper to just talk to the coli about your problems than seeing a marriage counselor.


Having issues with your wife, brehs? Then have her create a coli account and let us solve your marriage problems. :troll:
 

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He is your ex.

His place, phone, friends, habits, money, resources, time, effort, emotions, dikk etc isn't yours anymore so yeah he is heavily in the right for scolding you coming over there like that.

and if he had or didn't have someone there isn't your say.
 

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I'm not going to asnswer the obvious questions you have, but why are you trying to be a side chick? Wait, that's wrong. Why are you trying to be an uncouth side chick?
 

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Did you edit your post? LOL.
If not, I concede. I'll catch you next time.

I know what operative words are. I also know the definition of might.
Teach me something else. T/Y.
Nope, no edit. Check your quoting me. I know exactly what I said , beloved. It's why said it. I respect the attempt though.:obama: But I'm a seasoned logomancer.
 

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But as for the OP subject: look, my ex has my dogs, we share Netflix and some small bills and I still wouldnt feel right going to her crib. Even the few times that we are being cool to each other, its just kinda disrespectful. Their life, their space.
 
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