I showed up unannounced at my ex's apt ///

[Lady.Libra.]

Making unannounced threads?
We both agreed to post this here so we could get others opinions.

And what do y'all intend to do with the consensus? You are losing, Babydoll.
Truth is stranger than lies sometimes - He may not have had someone in there...yet .
You have no legs for the simple fact that y'all weren't official. However, I'd be hot as hell if I'd done the leg work only to assist him in laying pipe to another woman.

 

[Poitier]

He asked me to, he said he wanted to know people's opinion.

What do you think about it though? Any opinions you would like to share?

Lets be honest. Regardless of what is wrote in this thread, you're going to continue to think you're right and so will he.

 

[Yehuda]

@KOOL-AID

 

[Gully Bull]

I didn't think she was there. Thought she was a housekeeper. I told her to text cuz I was hungover.

Like seriously, if I'm smashing someone, why would I be responding to messages? If I'm on a date, I'm not even paying attention to my phone. Ladies always tryna tell a dude how he moving is suspect. Literally it was what it was.

Don't call, text. (I'm hungover)

Oh you here? Prove it. (I ain't had a convo with you since like 2 days ago)

Oh you really here? (You stood me up on Saturday then come here unannounced like I traveled all the way here to wait in my apt to see you when you decide to bless me with your presence)

A prime example of Knowing your worth, king

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

 

[FoolinLikeABitvh]

Be grateful
Atleast he aint hit u with dat

 

[Smashius Clay]

I didn't have anyone in the room. I was honestly blown she had stood me up that Saturday.

We discussed and had a fight over it. We've since made up and I think we're past it. Funny how the smallest cultural differences can cause the biggest problems.

 

[#1 pick]

@CinnamonTequila, you sound cray

 

[Lady.Libra.]

Many dudes are also jailed.

You didn't have that qualifier in your initial post, Dear. You are better than that . #SayNoToExtremes

 

[1thouwow]

Y’all Coli people love meeting up with each other in real life huh

 

[Arithmetic]

I didn't have anyone in the room, real talk.

She texted me on Saturday, late afternoon. I squashed other plans to see her then she never hit me back or returned my calls.

Sunday she messages me hello, I respond with "yo, whats good, tryna link and go to the beach?" No response.

HOURS later, a knock at my door.

Boundaries brehs.

If true, @Smashius Clay came through with the details that brehettes are known for leaving out. :KobeUSure:

 

[Lady.Libra.]

I didn't think she was there. Thought she was a housekeeper. I told her to text cuz I was hungover.

Like seriously, if I'm smashing someone, why would I be responding to messages? If I'm on a date, I'm not even paying attention to my phone. Ladies always tryna tell a dude how he moving is suspect. Literally it was what it was.

Don't call, text. (I'm hungover)

Oh you here? Prove it. (I ain't had a convo with you since like 2 days ago)

Oh you really here? (You stood me up on Saturday then come here unannounced like I traveled all the way here to wait in my apt to see you when you decide to bless me with your presence)

Understood.

 

[CinnamonTequila]

And what do y'all intend to do with the consensus? You are losing, Babydoll.
Truth is stranger than lies sometimes - He may not have had someone in there...yet .
You have no legs for the simple fact that y'all weren't official. However, I'd be hot as hell if I'd done the leg work only to assist him in laying pipe to another woman.

I didn't make this thread to win or lose, honestly. I know I did wrong by showing up unannounced so I'm not affected by all those things everyone is saying. I'm over it.
I'm not even sure if I care if he had or didn't have someone there at the moment because we are not in a relationship anymore.
My visit was not a sexual or romantic. I was just going to take him to the beach since he had bothered himself to take a plane to visit me, plus we usually have a good time together even without the sex.

I told him before making the thread that most people would react this exact same way. But we did it anyways so we could have other points of view. <3

 

[DCSpinerz]

He did the right thing. I don't care if you are my ex or girl you don't show up at my crib unannounced.

I will send your ass right back to your house.

 

[xCivicx]

I didn't have anyone in the room, real talk.

She texted me on Saturday, late afternoon. I squashed other plans to see her then she never hit me back or returned my calls.

Sunday she messages me hello, I respond with "yo, whats good, tryna link and go to the beach?" No response.

HOURS later, a knock at my door.

Boundaries brehs.

You definitely handled that better than I would have

I really don't like when people show up to my house unannounced, regardless of gender