I showed up unannounced at my ex's apt ///

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

 

[Smashius Clay]

Since you two weren't official at the time why didn't you simply say this (in addition to her not being responsive in a timely fashion when you reached out) her instead of moving like you had a chick hemmed up on the headboard?

Cultural question - When you are official with a woman is it ok for her to show up unannounced?

I did tell her that. She wrote it in the op " Cinnamon, you are not allowed to come here unannounced "

And yeah, if I'm involved with someone then they can come over whenever they want. But that's it. Maybe my best friend.

 

[Tetsuo]

Op looks like Gavin Turek

 

[Smashius Clay]

Op looks like Gavin Turek

Why you think I'm bike?

 

[Black Panther]

Op needs Jesus.

damejesus

• Black Panther
• Apr 18, 2017

 

[Kex]

This is literally the face I made when I read this. You should have stopped when he didn't reply to your message. You made an excuse as to why he didn't and proceeded to take a downward desperate spiral.

You live and you learn. If this is real never play yourself like this again.

 

[Lady.Libra.]

I did tell her that. She wrote it in the op " Cinnamon, you are not allowed to come here unannounced "

And yeah, if I'm involved with someone then they can come over whenever they want. But that's it. Maybe my best friend.

Yes, you did eventually and after telling her to text only, sending her call to VM, etc. Just moving a little weird as opposed to telling her straight up to turn around & go back/her opportunity to link up passed after she let you know she was at the door. IJS.

 

[Willie]

I wont say you're wrong but showing up without a warning you get what you get when you get there

 

[Lady.Libra.]

If you were a man and he were a woman you might be in jail. count yourself lucky.

Many times dudes are left to sit outside until they get tired of knocking on windows/doors, calling, neighbors looking at them like they have 3 heads & leave. No authorities involved.

 

[Smashius Clay]

Yes, you did eventually and after telling her to text only, sending her call to VM, etc. Just moving a little weird as opposed to telling her straight up to turn around & go back/her opportunity to link paased after she let you know she was at the door. IJS.

I didn't think she was there. Thought she was a housekeeper. I told her to text cuz I was hungover.

Like seriously, if I'm smashing someone, why would I be responding to messages? If I'm on a date, I'm not even paying attention to my phone. Ladies always tryna tell a dude how he moving is suspect. Literally it was what it was.

Don't call, text. (I'm hungover)

Oh you here? Prove it. (I ain't had a convo with you since like 2 days ago)

Oh you really here? (You stood me up on Saturday then come here unannounced like I traveled all the way here to wait in my apt to see you when you decide to bless me with your presence)

 

[Neuromancer]

Many times dudes are left to sit outside until they get tired of knocking on windows/doors, calling, & neighbors looking at them like they have 3 heads and leave.

Many dudes are also jailed.

 

[Unknown Poster]

Never been in a real relationship. Can't relate. Wish you the best anyways.

 

[Aphrodite]

He was wrong. You aren't. @CinnamonTequila

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Cultural question - When you are official with a woman is it ok for her to show up unannounced?

Absolutely not..
There is no reason for a man or woman to just stop by the house..
Now once i give you a key..
That’s when the dynamic changes and we both know it’s serious..
If we are just fukkin or friends..
Them fingers ain’t broke..
Better text or call or you are going to be upset when you get to the crib..
Even if I’m just lounging around playing video games or watching sports..
You will get that closed door treatment
Be careful with what you go looking for

 

[Lo-Co]

hold up man ya'll really engaging with coli posters IRL and then coming back to report your stories..like this is really a thing?

Yerp