I think I resent women for having it so easy when it comes to relationships

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Women's biggest problem in dating is that the men they are attracted to only want to fukk them.
Damn near all the men women want never take them seriously in return. They pine after what they can't have and eventually settle for a mediocre guy they pretend they are happy being with. A woman's "ease" in dating is surface level and only really unfair to non-select males. To men with options, the men women want, the power is totally in your hands.
 

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:comeon: Something is seriously wrong with u if u think women have it easier finding a meaningful relationship than women do.

U lettin ur dyck take over ur rational mind. Ur dikk is resentful that a woman can get fukked easier. U literally mad that women can get sexually objectified easier than men can.

Meanwhile women are resentful that men can dip their dikks in anything and still have romantic options vying for them well past their prime years.

I don't know what to do with some of you. We gotta grow up.
I don't know about the bolded, we may know two very different groups of women though.
 

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Goddamn I still have scars from the last time I got played in March. Game thrown off (i got nervous) due to her telling me she had a BF (which is when I was like cool, and backed off), but still she gave me the eyes, and the touching etc. Then she blew me off when I made a move, then went after my friend. I ignored her at work then she and her friend was like "How come you're not talking to us? Are you mad at us." Which came off to me as :umad:

Ether burned so slow that I had to send an anonymous tip to her BF. Got a little bit of satisfaction when I saw her face the next morning like :mjcry:.

I facepalm everytime I think about it. :picard: She smiles when she sees me:troll:, but I get pissed off when I see her and start mean mugging. :stopitslime:

Hands down the biggest L I had ever taken. I don't think I'll ever be able to fully recover. All I think about is her bragging to her friends at how much "attention" she got. :francis: fukking animal ass shyt and they wonder why I'm an a$$hole, as soon as I detect some attention-whoring behaviour I proceed to verbally put my foot on their neck immediately.

She prolly knew u did it

PETTY:russ:

But yo i hate when women curve u and then try to speak to u every day

Like bytch just dont make eye contact and dont speak to me like u got some class
 
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How can you choose wisely if all the men want to do is sleep with you? They're not trying to date the woman at all lol. How do you know who has good intentions? I swear some men think that them wanting to fukk you is some type of virtue.

We really gonna sit here and act like it is difficult to tell the difference between a dude that just wants to fukk and guy that is in it for a relationship? :comeon: Why are you acting like guys are so complex or such good actors? If you can't tell the difference between a genuine person and a person looking to use you, how do you navigate through adult life?
 

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This needs to be his own thread? I hate to say this but the average woman in the United State is most likely to be overweight :wtb:. The moment you go after a physically fit or in shape woman, you are will have a stiff ass competition.
 
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She prolly knew u did it

PETTY:russ:

But yo O hate when women curve u and then try to sprak to u every day

Like bytch just dont make eye contact and dont speak to me like u got some class
Eyeing me up like crazy in group meetings even after curving. The day i was ignoring and looking away she kept trying to get my attention, I look at my papers, stares the entire time.

I don't know if she knew, she suspected me at first, and the heat was on but that coolled down soon after, she probably didn't know 100%
 

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We really gonna sit here and act like it is difficult to tell the difference between a dude that just wants to fukk and guy that is in it for a relationship? :comeon: Why are you acting like guys are so complex or such good actors? If you can't tell the difference between a genuine person and a person looking to use you, how do you navigate through adult life?

It's levels to this.

If a guy is not attracted to a woman and just wants an easy nut with no effort required, then yeah that's detectable.

But a lot of these guys like the girl somewhat but she isn't wife material. If they aren't getting any other type of P, then they are wiling to go on dates and do other relationship type activities, but long term potential is virtually nil. They even introduce the girl to friends and family, because that is who they are dealing with at the time, but ultimately they know it isn't going to work out.

I engaged in a couple of these type "relationships" in my early 20's and from what I saw there was no detection on the woman's behalf that I wasn't down for a long term relationship. After realizing how much I hurt those women when I bounced, I stopped engaging in that activity.

It's not as black and white as dude only wanting a woman as a disposable sex toy, and a dude looking to make a woman his wife. There's a ton of grey area in between.
 

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She prolly knew u did it

PETTY:russ:

But yo i hate when women curve u and then try to speak to u every day

Like bytch just dont make eye contact and dont speak to me like u got some class

That's some annoying ass shyt. The bytch still want your attention even though she not trying to fukk with you.
 

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It's levels to this.

If a guy is not attracted to a woman and just wants an easy nut with no effort required, then yeah that's detectable.

But a lot of these guys like the girl somewhat but she isn't wife material. If they aren't getting any other type of P, then they are wiling to go on dates and do other relationship type activities, but long term potential is virtually nil. They even introduce the girl to friends and family, because that is who they are dealing with at the time, but ultimately they know it isn't going to work out.

I engaged in a couple of these type "relationships" in my early 20's and from what I saw there was no detection on the woman's behalf that I wasn't down for a long term relationship. After realizing how much I hurt those women when I bounced, I stopped engaging in that activity.

It's not as black and white as dude only wanting a woman as a disposable sex toy, and a dude looking to make a woman his wife. There's a ton of grey area in between.

How active were these women being in trying to detect anything? Did they inquire? Were there any discussions about long term plans and expectations? How many levels or colors would there be if the girl withheld the "P" until the guy's intentions were clear and detectable and in line with hers? Things are easier for women but that doesn't mean that don't have any responsibility or have to put forth any effort. There are dudes in the friendzone or with limited or 0 female interaction at all that would kill to be hurt in such a fashion.
 

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How active were these women being in trying to detect anything? Did they inquire? Were there any discussions about long term plans and expectations? How many levels or colors would there be if the girl withheld the "P" until the guy's intentions were clear and detectable and in line with hers? Things are easier for women but that doesn't mean that don't have any responsibility or have to put forth any effort. There are dudes in the friendzone or with limited or 0 female interaction at all that would kill to be hurt in such a fashion.

I agree. My premise this whole thread is that women do have an advantage but have to follow a certain protocol and not make bad choices to keep that advantage. It's not a given that you will know off top what a man's intentions are, but there's steps to follow and if she doesn't succumb to the "shiniest penny" then things will work in their favor more times than not.
 

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American dating culture is toxic and both men and women are taking Ls. No one should be resentful of anyone when we all in a fukked up situation.





Women saying dumb shyt like

No such thing as a nice guy or all guys want sex, so might as well choose guy with characteristics xyz (even if xyz are shallow traits and correlates with a higher chance of being dogged out) :mjlol:

And not to excuse men, we have a bunch of dumb logic for dating/courting strategies to encourage picking bad partners if/when we have the physical desirability or resources to have our choice.

America just brainwashed us all. It was either Disney movies selling us an egocentric fairytale or reality tv selling us dysfunctional relationships as normative.
I think Western culture in general dating has gone to shyt. You got men in Japan getting dolls instead of women :snoop:

Then you got men in first world countries (mainly UK & USA cacs) getting mail order brides instead of dealing with their own women
 

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I think Western culture in general dating has gone to shyt. You got men in Japan getting dolls instead of women :snoop:

Then you got men in first world countries (mainly UK & USA cacs) getting mail order brides instead of dealing with their own women

So the solution is to just be single then?
 
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