I think relationships are more successful when the man doesn't love the woman.

[Behind-the-wheel]

It's a damn shame that us as men have to hide our genuine love and affection for women that we truly care about in order to keep them around

It's as if women are asking not to be loved, which is why most men refuse to marry. Only thing a man can truly love in this world is his mama, daddy, grandparents, kids, brother, sister, and dog.

Indeed.
I learned this lesson early in my marriage.
Used to simp and do everything she asked me and she just got more cranky and manipulative and stupid.
Finally I got fed up playing nice guy and let "me" out.
No holds barred...scared the shyt outta her.
She quit actin up and I stopped being stressed from holding shyt in.
Flyin right and straight for the last 12 years since that day.
fukk up....my foot is in yer ass...no hesitation.
Now I look back and wonder why I played nice for the first 3 years.
If she was gonna leave, she gonna leave...she gonna stay, she gonna stay...life goes on.

Can't get another "her"...but I CAN get many more.


Just be you.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Y'all in here telling the truth this morning I see

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

As the breh @kevm3 said it's better to be a woman's problem than her problem solver

that shyt is signature worthy

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

I agree with OP.

At the very least, the woman should love you more than you love her.

 

[SNG]

When you can make a woman hate and love you at the same time you got that woman for life.

 

[-deleted-]

Sad to say, but truth. My first relationship ended when I got more clingy towards her. Not even clingy just more catering. After that told myself I’ll never give a fukk about what any woman wants again and that I will live my life with expectations of being single. I’m never putting myself into that position again.

 

[PCHMalibu]

Women like drama and when you're nice all the time, they'll create drama. When she thinks she doesn't have you completely, she'll always be vying for your attention.

Easy to not be attached when you're not into them, but when she's what you want, you gotta fight your own instincts to keep her...

shyt is tiring, honestly.

 

[Cowboyz89]

People claiming OP must be hurt, but cant refute what he is saying.


Its early in the morning @ItsGhost , they aint ready

 

[lord canon]

Indeed.
I learned this lesson early in my marriage.
Used to simp and do everything she asked me and she just got more cranky and manipulative and stupid.
Finally I got fed up playing nice guy and let "me" out.
No holds barred...scared the shyt outta her.
She quit actin up and I stopped being stressed from holding shyt in.
Flyin right and straight for the last 12 years since that day.
fukk up....my foot is in yer ass...no hesitation.
Now I look back and wonder why I played nice for the first 3 years.
If she was gonna leave, she gonna leave...she gonna stay, she gonna stay...life goes on.

Can't get another "her"...but I CAN get many more.


Just be you.

This the fukking truth

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Relationships are more successful when the man doesn't put the woman before himself. You'll never meet a man whose woman runs their relationship, his life, who hides his honest opinion from her - happy. This has zero to do with love.

TRUTH!!!

Many men think they're in love when they're just in scarcity. They're clinging on to the first decent woman who gives them a chance. The woman starts to see that he can't get other quality women, which is a turn off.

However, if she knows you could get other women easily she's not turned off by your love.

Also TRUTH!!!
I used to go out with my family in my fatigue bottoms and a t-shirt or some jeans and a t-shirt and females NEVER noticed me.
But I started coming out depression and gettin back to how I used to dress when I'm not on duty (Motown Philly ABC BBD Style) and a LOT of females are noticing me, holding the door for me, smiling, telling me they hope I have a nice day, approaching me to small-talk about stuff, going out of their way to cross my path and/or be in the same aisle as me repeatedly...and the wife has been noticing when we're out!
And not just street chicks, but professional women wearing fukkin suits and driving luxury cars and shyt.

So now she's been mentioning how attractive I am and how other females know it and I play it humble with the "Oh whatev, no one likes me...you crazy" and brush her off.
But I noticed...she been askin me what I like to see her wear when we go out and even had ME pick out a couple outfits for HER when I took my son school shopping.


I'm tellin you, don't nothin make a woman act right faster than knowing she got some serious competition out there in the streets.

She knows I could be floatin in some well-to-do p*ssy if I wanted, but I choose not to.
That shyt DEMANDS respect and she better oblige.

 

[SadimirPutin]

Relationship pseudoscience really is the rage online

 

[Mordith]

Any theory that is based solely on your own failure is faulty as fukk. How many of you nikkas are currently in relationships?

 

[YamakaSmacker]

It's a damn shame that us as men have to hide our genuine love and affection for women that we truly care about in order to keep them around

It's as if women are asking not to be loved, which is why most men refuse to marry. Only thing a man can truly love in this world is his mama, daddy, grandparents, kids, brother, sister, and dog.

Don't forget self

 

[Bumblebreh]

Any theory that is based solely on your own failure is faulty as fukk. How many of you nikkas are currently in relationships?

That is a good question since the majority of the coli had admitted to having a non existent sex life but somehow brehs have become experts on women.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Any theory that is based solely on your own failure is faulty as fukk. How many of you nikkas are currently in relationships?

You're not well versed in "learning from your mistakes" I see...


<---- Married.
And learned everything from fukking up...no one to teach me shyt.
EDIT: I take that back...I've learned more about women on this website than from all the actual people I've met in real life (Other than the females that taught me the hard way).