I think relationships are more successful when the man doesn't love the woman.

[ThaEruditious]

Man I been talking and seeing this one girl, and she's a 6, 7 on a good day and mann i feel like she's perfect for me. A part of me just wanna be like man fukk the games and the bullshyt, but i know that I'm gonna lose her if I don't stick with it. It sucks. It's mentally and emotionally draining cuz truthfully I'm a one woman guy deep down. I really don't care about fukking a bunch of random broads. I did that in my early 20's and got it out my system. But it's like, you need to have some type of roster to keep yourself unattached to these women cuz the second you slip up and fall in love, you gonna lose her.

It's a shytty game when you give a fukk

@ the bolded. Shyt is the bona fied truth. I'ma pretty much a romantic but have to force myself to not give a fukk. That shyt is way harder than I thought, and I'm naturally nonchalant.

 

[kuts]

Not caring only works with non-relationship type chicks.

 

[Bumblebreh]

Man I been talking and seeing this one girl, and she's a 6, 7 on a good day and mann i feel like she's perfect for me. A part of me just wanna be like man fukk the games and the bullshyt, but i know that I'm gonna lose her if I don't stick with it. It sucks. It's mentally and emotionally draining cuz truthfully I'm a one woman guy deep down. I really don't care about fukking a bunch of random broads. I did that in my early 20's and got it out my system. But it's like, you need to have some type of roster to keep yourself unattached to these women cuz the second you slip up and fall in love, you gonna lose her.

It's a shytty game when you give a fukk

breh you already lost by thinking like that because on one hand you say she is perfect but on the other you feel like you have play the games of manipulation which is a toxic flaw.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Dudes really are afraid to love their girl. A man can still love his woman without being over the top about it. Being an "a$$hole" isn't always the best answer. Personally I refuse to play a character for a female but that's just me.

 

[Carlton Banks]

breh you already lost by thinking like that because on one hand you say she is perfect but on the other you feel like you have play the games of manipulation which is a toxic flaw.

Fine, I'll play along....

So what should I do?

 

[Bumblebreh]

Fine, I'll play along....

So what should I do?

Like I said before,if you cannot trust her as a person how can you even try to pursue a relationship?
People tend to overuse the word love.So you are just worrying about being infatuated to the wrong woman and so you should be.fukk being infatuated and since you have admitted that you cannot fall in love,why even be in a relationship?
If I cannot trust a bytch and it takes a lot to trust a person in 2018,why the fukk would I even enter a relationship with her.

 

[ThaEruditious]

breh you already lost by thinking like that because on one hand you say she is perfect but on the other you feel like you have play the games of manipulation which is a toxic flaw.

Against the fukking masters of manipulation . You gotta be kidding, breh.

 

[Bumblebreh]

Against the fukking masters of manipulation . You gotta be kidding, breh.

that is what I am saying and I see it as an L.You can never win with certain people.

 

[ThaEruditious]

that is what I am saying and I see it as an L.You can never win with certain people.

It's an L when you play the game It's an L when you don't

 

[Bumblebreh]

It's an L when you play the game It's an L when you don't

1.I would never recommended playing a game when trying to establish a serious relationship
2.by not playing the game and deciding to be single you are not taking an L
3.You take the L by thinking that "love" will make a person appreciate you more when they clearly do not by bringing drama and stress

1 and 3 = ignoring red flags and common sense and hence the major L

 

[ThaEruditious]

1.I would never recommended playing a game when trying to establish a serious relationship
2.by not playing the game and deciding to be single you are not taking an L
3.You take the L by thinking that "love" will make a person appreciate you more when they clearly do not by bringing drama and stress

1 and 3 = ignoring red flags and common sense and hence the major L

You, youself, just acknowledged women are the GOAT manipulators, what makes you think the prospective women of your first bullet point would be any different?

 

[Carlton Banks]

Youb youself, just acknowledged women are the GOAT manipulators, what makes you think the prospective women of your first bullet point would be any different?

He ain't got nothing for you

 

[ThaEruditious]

He ain't got nothing for you

I legit forgot about this thread with the MBJ one heating up.

 

[The Fade]

You just can’t let her be the center of your reality.

Always think big and look beyond. Take care of obligatory husband duties and hygiene. But if she crosses the line, let that hoe know she fukkin up her spot

 

[kevm3]

This is pretty much true in general unless you just have an unbelievable amount of discipline and emotional control. The moment you are too 'into' your woman and she can tell is the moment she starts getting turned off to you and thinking you are weak. Wanting a challenge, what other women want or what they can't have is built into a woman's nature. Being overly loving and accommodating to your woman is going to get you spanked. No matter how you feel, you have to reign your emotions in and present some resemblence of a challenge.