I think relationships are more successful when the man doesn't love the woman.

[Spotja]

If you find someone worth the effort the you won't have to play stupid azz games

AND

You can grow bored with ANYTHING. Sex. Drugs. Money. All you have to do is keep doing the thing again and again and surprise! You're bored

You just have to be smart enough not to bore her or yourself. Give each other lots of space. Like spend most days apart out of the week and get together a couple/few times per week

Hopefully y'all find a woman you can be honest with. This is the essence of the love molecule. Truth

Then what happens when you two live under one roof?

 

[T'krm]

Man I been talking and seeing this one girl, and she's a 6, 7 on a good day but has so many other great qualities about her that make her a 8 in my eyes and mann i feel like she's perfect for me. A part of me just wanna be like man fukk the games and the bullshyt, but i know that I'm gonna lose her if I don't stick with it. It sucks. It's mentally and emotionally draining cuz truthfully I'm a one woman guy deep down. I really don't care about fukking a bunch of random broads. I did that in my early 20's and got it out my system. But it's like, you need to have some type of roster to keep yourself unattached to these women cuz the second you slip up and fall in love, you gonna lose her.

It's a shytty game when you give a fukk

It's likely you were going to lose her regardless but by being so attached and placing her on an unrealistic pedestal, you left yourself open for pain when she leaves.

 

[ThaEruditious]

These hoes ain't loyal, brehs

 

[T'krm]

Ur absolutely right @ItsGhost

My father said love makes a man weak. U need to be logical and pragmatic. Never marry the woman u love the most.

Uncle taught me a woman falls deeper in love with a selfish man than one who caters to her.

A woman’s conscious mind can hate it while her subconconscious loves it. I’ve had women say there done with me only to let me back into their lives.

So far so true.

Agree on substance, not principle

 

[Elle Driver]

When you can make a woman hate and love you at the same time you got that woman for life.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

Then what happens when you two live under one roof?

Man cave

She shed

Hobbies

Friends

Find a way to give each other as much space as they want, then when you're together you're glad to be together

 

[Bumblebreh]

Youb youself, just acknowledged women are the GOAT manipulators, what makes you think the prospective women of your first bullet point would be any different?

Well that is the assumption that most women are going to bring the same level of drama and stress.Some women have daddy issues,some women have a mental illness and some women are just toxic and immature.
So once you expand on your dating portfolio you can gain experience when it comes to dealing with women and be able to spot the red flags from early.And some dudes lack the experience and have to learn the hard way.
If a woman trusts and respects you she does not need to play bullshyt games.

 

[Carlton Banks]

If a woman trusts and respects you she does not need to play bullshyt games.

Agree with most of your post. Women will always shyt test though. She'll test you less the more she respects you or likes you though.

 

[Coli Bot]

Your right going off my past experiences, very right.

 

[Reno89]

Relationships are more successful when The woman cooperates and respects your plans for the future.

 

[Jalether]

I thought it lasted when they both love each other unconditionally. but what do I know

 

[ThaEruditious]

I thought it lasted when they both love each other unconditionally. but what do I know

No woman this day in age believes in unconditional love, let alone even knows what it is.

 

[moa213]

Indeed.
I learned this lesson early in my marriage.
Used to simp and do everything she asked me and she just got more cranky and manipulative and stupid.
Finally I got fed up playing nice guy and let "me" out.
No holds barred...scared the shyt outta her.
She quit actin up and I stopped being stressed from holding shyt in.
Flyin right and straight for the last 12 years since that day.
fukk up....my foot is in yer ass...no hesitation.
Now I look back and wonder why I played nice for the first 3 years.
If she was gonna leave, she gonna leave...she gonna stay, she gonna stay...life goes on.

Can't get another "her"...but I CAN get many more.


Just be you.

Bro put me up on game. I have been married for 9 months and my wife have made a 360 turn from an exciting person to agitated one. Shiit, I feel like divorcing any day from now.

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Hahahahahahaha...."Unconditional Love"...


Only a female would believe that lie from another one of them.
Any love from a female is conditional...that's why men have to break their backs tryna get it.

 

[GreenGhxst]

Relationships are better when you aren't a needy worthless fakkit. Men and women.

A woman doesn't fall out of love when you love her either. Don't fall in love while being a loser ass nikka. If you're a cheeto fingered pc gaming no life nikka without a purpose yeah she's gonna leave your dumbass. Have more in your life going on than your rep points on the coli and 5 star threads.

Edit: if he doesn't love her why be with her