I think the internet is making men become losers...

[Shadow King]

Compared to the white population it isn’t a lot and they aren’t as bad as them either.

Most black men grow up getting teased for not getting p*ssy and it creates a sink or swim moment where we get pushed in the water and get social skills. That is a part of our environment and culture. That is a rarity in white areas.

You must of grew up in the suburbs lol

Yes and no. My upbringing isn't typical "suburban black" nor "hood nikka". But I think black men aren't as vocal about these issues because of that mentality of "get p*ssy or else" so they don't necessarily share but the rates are probably closer than you believe. Sink or swim moments means that some people pushed in the water sank. The difference is we're more likely to not speak the topic at all or utter .

But acting like every black man has the same sociability narrows our scope of masculinity and puts us in a box.

 

[Blackout]

Yes and no. My upbringing isn't typical "suburban black" nor "hood nikka". But I think black men aren't as vocal about these issues because of that mentality of "get p*ssy or else" so they don't necessarily share but the rates are probably closer than you believe. Sink or swim moments means that some people pushed in the water sank. The difference is we're more likely to not speak the topic at all or utter .

But acting like every black man has the same sociability narrows our scope of masculinity and puts us in a box.

Dude I’ve talked to many black nerds all over. You always see me rep black nerds like crazy so I know the community.

They aren’t a lot. I didn’t say they don’t exist but to say there are a lot is silly.

What you are referencing is that we don’t talk about the ones who lack social skills which is a whole other discussion but they aren’t a lot of them out there compared to the white ones

 

[Shadow King]

@KidJSoul the Internet wasn't what it is 10 year ago but between the Internet/social media exploding and modern feminism, men in general have lost value in the eyes of women. When you don't fit the scope of (hyper)masculinity/have the right aesthetics there's gonna be a problem.

 

[Neil Tyson]

Because we place a lot of importance of collecting p*ssy. The people who don't do it are the least vocal.

It's shamed here all the time. It's even in our music by rappers, millionaires who buy prostitutes or pay chicks on IG with booking info. On here we shame people who buy prostitutes.

On here we shame people who don't get laid. If you haven't met these kinds of black people, they're probably the ones spinning ducktales or keeping it to themselves.

Men are expendable these days. Women look at Tinder like Netflix, if you aren't entertaining enough in the first 5 minutes they can just switch to Narcos.

Even with the social skills, the ability to get women in your bed is not without its problems either. It's just... Retarded to think having the ability to bag women decides whether you're a loser or not. It puts them on a pedestal and only makes things worse for everyone, even the top 20% of males who are apparently bagging these women. But go ahead and keep thinking p*ssy is everything.

 

[Shadow King]

Dude I’ve talked to many black nerds all over. You always see me rep black nerds like crazy so I know the community.

They aren’t a lot. I didn’t say they don’t exist but to say there are a lot is silly.

What you are referencing is that we don’t talk about the ones who lack social skills which is a whole other discussion but they aren’t a lot of them out there compared to the white ones

If that's the case black nerds wouldn't be referenced differently from other black men because their social skill and comfort in extrovert situations would be the same...they'd just be "the nikka who likes comics/anime but still runs up on any female lIke us". When most people think of black nerds it's that, as well as not being comfortable in situations the "black community" (I don't really think there is a true one) believe they should be. If they were that social the differentiation wouldn't be there.

 

[Blackout]

If that's the case black nerds wouldn't be referenced differently from other black men because their social skill and comfort in extrovert situations would be the same...they'd just be "the nikka who likes comics/anime but still runs up on any female lIke us". When most people think of black nerds it's that, as well as not being comfortable in situations the "black community" (I don't really think there is a true one) believe they should be. If they were that social the differentiation wouldn't be there.

You think that because you confuse social skills with getting women which is not the same thing.

Most nerdy black men have social skills it’s just that most women in the black community do not prefer them because nerdy interests are really looked at as odd in our community. Not much women preferring you doesn’t mean that you don’t have social skills

 

[Shadow King]

You think that because you confuse social skills with getting women which is not the same thing.

Most nerdy black men have social skills it’s just that most women in the black community do not prefer them because nerdy interests are really looked at as odd in our community. Not much women preferring you doesn’t mean that you don’t have social skills

Well the OP was primarily talking social situations involving women (grinding at the club, do girls like XYZ, why are women sluts) so I was talking about that

 

[Neil Tyson]

You think that because you confuse social skills with getting women which is not the same thing.

Most nerdy black men have social skills it’s just that most women in the black community do not prefer them because nerdy interests are really looked at as odd in our community. Not much women preferring you doesn’t mean that you don’t have social skills

You're assuming they're targeting exclusively black women. Not true, most black nerds I know are after Asian/White chicks. They know black women don't like that nerd shyt.

Even then I don't think they'll express their nerdiness readily to any chick like that. Being a nerd is almost as bad as being a virgin.

 

[Clay Puppington]

Its just... Retarded to think having the ability to bag women decides whether you're a loser or not.

I agree wholeheartedly.

Why do you think things are the way they are? I've lost two friends over women / p*ssy. No, I didn't do anything, but a woman made them switch up they WHOLE style so I had to walk the other way.

 

[Blackout]

Well the OP was primarily talking social situations involving women (grinding at the club, do girls like XYZ, why are women sluts) so I was talking about that

Even with that most black nerds who can’t get our women end up dating out.

Not to sound c00n but nerdy black men are valued for being the safe negro that non black women can take home to their dad. That has made sure that lonely black nerds aren’t high in number.

You're assuming they're targeting exclusively black women. Not true, most black nerds I know are after Asian/White chicks. They know black women don't like that nerd shyt.

They go with who wants them which is sadly mainly non black women so saying they are targeting any women is false.

If a black woman wants a black nerd she won’t have to look far. Shyt most black nerds biggest crushes are sistas.

 

[Strapped]

OP you say you think the internet is making men become losers what about the effect the internet has on women?

I'm not trying to bash women in any way, but to have this discussion you have to speak on both sides of the "coin".

Very touchy topic sir let's not venture there

 

[Neil Tyson]

I agree wholeheartedly.

Why do you think things are the way they are? I've lost two friends over women / p*ssy. No, I didn't do anything, but a woman made them switch up they WHOLE style so I had to walk the other way.

If women/p*ssy have been elusive to them for a long time, they'll switch up to secure the possibility of getting laid while sacrificing you. This happened with a friend of mine too. He was a nerd and went after a nerd chick, then tried to go after a cool chick who was after me. He had no chance.

Why things are the way they are? Could be a primal, evolutionary thing. But there's no doubt that women have all the power now thanks to feminism.

 

[Kenny West]

not sure how the line between winning and losing became p*ssy

p*ssy on the pedestal

 

[Columbo]

Its destroying all of society, look at all them instagram thots and the attention women seek, what theyre willing to do. Fukkin eyeball tattoos and thots dying from butt injections

I didnt really read your post op, you sound like a male feminist and a faggit to me

 

[BaldingSoHard]

Why is a fellow brother even on Reddit in the first place?

Black people on Reddit holy shyt what is the world coming to.