I understand why men in Longterm/marriage relationships cheat

[Lifejennings]

If your girl doesn't want to fukk. You're trash in bed. No one is turning down a guaranteed O on a regular basis. You aren't making her cum. Love can only excuse shytty sex for so long.

 

[Sterling Archer]

I hate when nggas say this. My lady is bad...but I've had badder (no disrespect), and have had badder chasin since I've been with her. I'm sure she'd say something similar...

Point is, wifey is WIFEY.

You missed the point.

 

[Shadow King]

OP you said your coworker only has a girlfriend not a wife and is 37. There's no reason for him to stay with her if they're fukking on a quarterly basis. None.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

How u understand when u ain't married

 

[International Playa]

OP you said your coworker only has a girlfriend not a wife and is 37. There's no reason for him to stay with her if they're fukking on a quarterly basis. None.

They got a kid together & live together, they been together for 5 years

 

[Shadow King]

They got a kid together & live together, they been together for 5 years

Co-parent as a single man and find a woman who isn't just fukking you every time the weather breaks. fukk all that.

 

[Legal]

Breh those dudes are bytches, most straight woman don't wanna fukk another woman with a penis. As a wife they need to fukk and suck whenever he feels like barring them being physically or mentally unable. I mean shyt, my girl don't be wanting it sometimes but because she finds me attractive all I got to do is touch and kiss on her she'll be in the mood, actually that might be all they need to do. fukk they asking and waiting on it for, go woo the bytch.

Man, I held my breath thinking you were about to take a hard left for a second.

 

[Bone Bender]

After a while, women in longterm relationships barely want to have sex or none at all.

Was talking to a cac from work, his 37 & all he gets is goodnight kisses at night from his gf & barely any sex. Sex maybe once every three months. Breh is surviving by fukking escorts on the side.

Another cac from work, he says he literally begs for sex from his wife.

My homeboy a breh, his always on the hunt & always trying to fukk his ex.

Most men our sex drives will remain high till 60s. If you dont get it at home, you will find other means

These guys suck at communication. They need to have serious discussions with their partners about their sex lives instead of hiring prosties or whatever. Not saying that talking with their wives will automatically solve their problems but its a step in the right direction. Either they can solve the problem themselves or with outside help from a therapist. Worst comes to worst, they wont get anywhere with therapy or talking with each other and they break up and find someone else who's a better fit.

 

[Uitomy]

Man, I held my breath thinking you were about to take a hard left for a second.

Oh nah I'm not like that, don't be putting a gun on the dresser like some people.

But that's why I'm glad she's my girl cause at least I know what she's thinking and feeling

Had some girls in the past be like no or freeze up and I'm like not trying to catch a case

 

[J.E.T.S]

I don’t ask, I just roll over and start kissing and eating coochie...

 

[Youseenmywork]

This why at time I HATE this site ... everything one way or another becomes a man's fault and people wonder why marriage and have kids has diped the last 7 yrs . The women in this thread just prove my point they men ... especially black men DONT get empathy at and that's fine . Most men in this thread should be going back in forth with the women . If you didn't learn during the Ayesha Curry shyt most if not all the women blamed Steph Curry for the lack of attention ....most women blamed Will Smith .

Love is not UNCONDITIONAL it has conditions . Women and society have sold men this shyt for centuries. Sometimes I wonder if it was NO MEN on the face of the planet ...who would women BLAME ?

 

[Yagirlcheatinonus]

I’m 35 my new chick 25 she talking about she wanna suck and fukk everyday. I said Everyday?

 

[010101]

domesticated*

 

[Ahadi]

Theres no such thing as "settling". You get what you can have. If you want a certain kind of person and you cant get them, you didnt settle. You just werent good enough to have them. The best that you could do, is what you got.

Exactly. If you’re average, you need to stay in your lane and ppl are too hard headed not to understand that.

That “I deserve THIS type of man” is some Disney Channel BS, they feed little girls / women. When a lot of them are average.

 

[Mowgli]

After a while, women in longterm relationships barely want to have sex or none at all.

Was talking to a cac from work, his 37 & all he gets is goodnight kisses at night from his gf & barely any sex. Sex maybe once every three months. Breh is surviving by fukking escorts on the side.

Another cac from work, he says he literally begs for sex from his wife.

My homeboy a breh, his always on the hunt & always trying to fukk his ex.

Most men our sex drives will remain high till 60s. If you dont get it at home, you will find other means

If they don't have kids they're simps.

That shouldn't even be an issue till Maybe the first years of the second kid, maayyyybe.

But she gonna give up them Draws u must give into the laws.